Aries first date
November 20, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner
The challenge of going on a first date with an Aries is that he knows what he wants, and he wants it now. This is not a problem if your agenda matches his in both direction and speed. However, if you like to take things slow, you’ve got a problem in your hands.
Aries is ruled by Mars, the warrior planet. It is assertive, impulsive, direct. Aries, being the first sign of the zodiac, bursts forth, with little regard for its impact on others. In other words, the Aries man has a hard time understanding that there’s a way other than his way.
Granted, a first date can be adventurous, risky, hot. (If you want it to get hotter, massage his scalp, and wear red!) But be prepared to navigate the age-old question, “So you gonna invite me up for a beer?”
The Aries man likes a challenge, but he hates having the door shut in his face. You don’t want him to “ram” against it with his horns — so if you’re not ready for a wild ride tonight, propose a second date in the near future that will ignite his flame.
And if you’re just not interested, be direct … Aries does not pick up subtle signals.
Comment below: How was your first date with an Aries man?
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Aries men are movers and shakers and you must bow down to their dominance or let them think so. He will hurt you and not realize it as he lacks sensitivity to feelings. He will fight and protect you with his last dying breath but should you ever cross him prepare for the most intense battle of all this guy is a Warrior and a force to be reckoned with! Hot and passionate you will feel you kissed a volcano with hot lava..and were ravaged by a beast.
Hi my first date with this aries was a one night date and he never showed interest after even though we saw each other on various occasions. Now about 15 years later we have reconnected and I am at a point in my life that I want the same things as he does. We have not seen each other but have talked about dating and getting together. In the past few weeks we have talked and emailed just about every night. My question is how can I be sure not to push him away or turn him off? I am an aquarious and tend to be on the aggressive side I know he likes the chase. How can I be me and let him chase at the same time. I know we have the chemistry, the same wants and beliefs for the future. I just need to know how to capture his heart.
how can scorpio girl get her aries man back after she thinks he’s about to move on?
i have an astrology related question im a libra sun with a pisces moon, venus in scorpio and mars in virgo. i was being relentlessly pursued by a guy with sun in taurus, moon in aries, mars in cancer and venus in aries. finally i develop feelings for him and tell him and he completely changes. now he’s busy all the time. so i ask him directly if he wants the relationship or not and his reply is yes but i have to understand he’s busy a lot.now, im left going ‘what the hell.’ any insight?
To anonymous …
regarding your first date with the aries that was a one night stand. I totally feel you. I am cancer with aquarius moon and aquarius rising… (alot of aquarius) and had a similar situation…. all i can say is there’s a rythm and a reason to life that we can’t always pinpoint… I suggest you just be yourself… and be honest with him…. show him that you don’t need him and give him his space… think that’ll pay off in the end.
I met this particular Aries man about six years ago. I was 20 and he was 15. I actually had a little crush on his older brother who was my age. Aries would be around and I always thought that when he grew up he would definitely be a heartbreaker! Well, six years later, I am almost 26 and he is 22… we are find each other on facebook. He starts the chase. Turns out we live really close to each other so he invites me to his place where he and some other people were going to be hanging out. We send flirty messages all day. I go to his place… I was a bit late and the drinks had already been flowing for these people. He was very charming, very attentive but not overbearing. His friends were really nice and fun. He made the first move by kissing my temple while sitting on the couch, but it wasn’t until we decided to go to his bedroom that things got steamy. We didn’t have sex, but we definitely fooled around. The next day, no text, no call, nothing. Later that night I text him a simple hope you had a good day message and he wrote that he was in the gym and he would text me after. He didn’t. Oh well! I am not a repeat caller… I will give it a go once but it I am disrespected afterward, I don’t hound anyone. Too bad… he was hot! Funny thing was, before we fooled around, I asked if this was a one night thing or if he was interested in more. He said he was interested in dating. I told him either way was fine, we would fool around anyway, I just wanted to know so we were on the same page.
Aries men suck!
(PS - I am Pisces)
I am a Taurus Woman 22 my aries man 20, we are both extremely independant, responsible driven individuals and well on our way in our careers as if we were accomplished mid-30 yr olds, The first night I met my aries man, we quickly connected and I literally handed him my phone and said put your information in there, after the exchange it was immediate first thing lets do coffee tonight, a complete gentleman and very respectful we saw each other every night for a week straight for coffee dates he was very patient super direct and attentive always making eye contact when having a conversation after the first week he was ready to introduce me to his friends and his family but asked how I wanted to be introduced as his girlfriend or as his friend, I left it to him saying whatever you feel best! From that point we have been inseperablewe waited almost 3 months before getting at all sexual I found myself making out for hours though, simple as that nothing more… and it was well worth the wait… This will be my 3rd Aries bf.. I have done a seemingly good job at turning these playboys into relationship boys, My first love an aries 4 years older we seperated of course becuase we wanted different things in life and I did not want to get married or have kids, my second aries boyfriend a really close best friend but 3 yrs younger, again both hit the fork in the road where you go okay we are going different places.. but I remain close friends with both and remain extremely happy and satisfied with my current… The trick seems to be that they want a best friend where you can be easily included as one of the guys with no huffing and puffing from the instictual girly routine, being witty and clever and sometimes a ballbuster keeps them on their toes tehy like to see the girl in a dominant female empowerment role, they dont like pushover, needy, dependant personality type, but like a girl who is capable of keeping their interests in the bedroom allowing them to please as they want to please and rewarding them with the reinforcement that they are extremely gifted in that department, All My life I have associated and attracted Aries men, and it has fullfilled me greatly!
WELL I AM… AN ARIES WOMAN YES… THE BEST OF ALL SIGNS. I WILL GIVE YOU WOMEN A TRICK TO SCORING A GOOD ARIES MAN BECAUSE THE MEN AND WOMEN ARE MIGHTY SIMILAR. WE LOVE TO GET OUR EGO’S STROKED. ITS SAD, IT REALLY IS, BUT ITS THE TRUTH. THE MEN ARE SOMEWHAT VERY SELF CENTERED SO HEY IF YOU ARE REALLY INTO HIM JUST STROKE HIS EGO, AND AT THE BEGINING LET HIM WIN ALL ARGUMENTS BECAUSE IF NOT HE WILL STRAY TO SOMEONE WHO WILL. SO LADIES DONT BE DOWN WE ARE NOT AS COMPLICATED AS YOU THINK WE ARE JUST REALLY INTO OURSELVES, AND WE LOVE TO SEE PEOPLE REALLY INTO US TOO!
P.S FIRST DATE SHOULD BE LIKE MOVIES, OPERA, OR SOMETHING OF THAT NATURE.
IF ITS LIKE A MOVIE AT YOUR PLACE MAKE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR GAME HELMET ON BECAUSE HE WILL TRY TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. IF YOU ARE INTO THIS THATS FINE BUT SOME LIKE TO GET TO KNOW FIRST. JUST A LITTLE FUN FACT FOR TODAY!
LOVE AND BLESSINGS
-RAUXANNE MARIE
I’m an Aries woman too. We are the best! Anyway, kochic and the women before me are both right. Aries men want the best friend, the slut, the sophiticated, the intellectual, the comedianne- the best! They want a woman who will never let them forget that they are awesome- because deep down inside they really question that (even under all that bravado)- and that you genuinely care.
However, Aries people are crazy. You have to also have the right balance, because too much of one side is also a turn off. Good luck!
Here is the scoop….He is an aries and I am a leo. I am married however, just on paper. Our first date was coffee..we couldn’t keep our eyes of each other. Later that evening we met and it was the hottest sex I ever expierenced. We match really well. I am married, he knows, he seems to have an issue, even though he says he is afraid of commitment. I am confused. He wants me and he is afraid of me…please explain…There is a connection emotionally, physically, and sexually…please advise….
I love my aries man and i am a gemini. Its funny how we met because i left my boyfriend for this aries man. They are sweet and would do anything for the person they are with; until you make them mad. Yes, i had a one night stand with this Aries, couldn’t resist his passion. We are currently married and i love every minute of it