I seem to attract alot of leo men. My current boyfriend is a leo and there are times when we are so in love and there are moments where I just find him to be soooo...arrogant and obnoxiuos and I just end up ignoring him! I read once that my passion sign is in leo and we both share the same love sign in taurus. So would you say that we make a good match? Whenever I read about leo and virgo relations "they" make it seem as if leo is the spice and I'm the boring one and I find that with us its the opposite,he's more laid back and I'm more outgoing. He says that he wants to marry me, so could a virgo and leo have a happy marriage?

Your outgoing nature [view natal chart] can be attributed to Sagittarius Rising. Sag is an optimistic, enthusiastic fire sign ruled by Jupiter. In addition, you have a Jupiter-Uranus conjunction rising (i.e., conjunct the Ascendant). Jupiter Rising amplifies the meaning of Sag Rising and makes you especially buoyant, while Uranus adds an electric, exciting, unpredictable quality to your persona.

Your passion sign is Leo? That must be referring to your Mars -- planet of sexual energy, as well as symbolic of the type of man to whom you are attracted -- in this outgoing sign. Do you attract them, or are you attracted to them? (Something to ponder...)

Your boyfriend [view natal chart] actually has three planets in Leo: Sun, Moon and Venus. His Venus in Leo is expanded and energized by a Mars-Jupiter conjunction in sexy but secretive Scorpio, and his Moon may receive these aspects as well, depending on his exact time of birth. Your Mars conjoins his Venus, resulting in a hot hot hot connection. But if your Mars conjoins his Moon, you may end up wounding his pride, thus leading to all manner of self-protective Leonine defensive maneuvers. (Read Loving an immature Leo for some insight into this sign's "lower self.")

One potential difficulty in this relationship may lie in your sensitivity to his criticism. Although you have the Virgo Sun, he (like you) has communication planet Mercury in this discerning sign. But his Merc is opposite your Pisces Moon. This Moon placement is very porous and vulnerable to outside energies, and his possible mental nitpickiness may leave you feeling raw and exposed.

One positive about couples whose Sun signs are consecutive on the zodiacal wheel (meaning that they're right next to each other!) is that they often have planets in each other's Sun signs -- which leads to some level of understanding. You have Mars in Leo, he has Mercury in Virgo. You both have some attunement to each other's basic life energies. As long as you each are kind to each other's sensitivities (Moons), I see no reason why you wouldn't be happy together.

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