Taurus woman wonders if her breasts are too small
I read the blog about Cancer's turn on being the breasts. What if a Taurean woman who courts a Cancer man is flat chested? Will he be attracted to her? Will he be more likely to cheat? I've been courted by a Cancer via the internet for about 2 weeks now and it is slowly progressing. I am wondering if there will be a physical connection.One of the dangers of Sun sign astrology is that one makes grand generalizations. (Guilty as charged!) Of course not all Cancer men are attracted to large breasts! We are all complex individuals who transcend our Sun signs.
But unfortunately, my post planted a seed in your mind which has fed your insecurities. We already live in a culture (this is the USA I'm talkin' about) where big boobs are a significator for sexuality. Women spend large sums of money to "augment" themselves so they can feel more attractive. It doesn't matter what zodiac sign we're talking about. The problem is cultural, isn't?
It doesn't help that you're already hard on yourself. Saturn -- the planet of "not enough" -- opposes your Sun, your identity. You're self-critical. If it weren't breasts, you'd come up with another reason why someone wouldn't be attracted to you. Especially because your Sun is in your First House of Physical Appearance.
But you know what? I bet you're hot. Your Sun is conjunct your Taurus Ascendant, sending out vibes of earthy sensuality. Your true self comes shining through! Also, you have an exact Venus-Mars sextile, which suggests you have a natural sexual charisma. You should tell Saturn to bugger off -- you don't need large breasts to be a bombshell.
Besides, this internet guy isn't even a Cancer. His Sun is in the first degree of Leo. But what matters is your compatibility. His Venus and Mars are in the Earth signs Virgo and Capricorn, exactly trine each other. Your Taurus Sun will surely appeal to his love and sex planets. In addition, you and he share two Venus-Mars interaspects. Granted, they're both squares, so there will probably be lots of fighting followed by steamy makeup sex. But undeniably there will be attraction when you two meet in person.
Comment below: How often is bust size a deciding factor for men?
Correction: Taurean contacted me the same day this post was published, stating she entered the wrong date for the internet guy. He was actually born with his Sun in the last degree of Cancer. Although his Venus-Mars trine is no longer partile (exact), it is still within orb. In addition, their Venus-Mars square interaspects are also within orb.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/26/2008
15 Comments:
First off, I have to say most Taurus girls I've met have all been foxes!
Sex is intrigue, not looks.
I agree totally with what Jeffrey-san said. It's not about the bust size, or the bum size, or how long your legs are or whatever. It goes much deeper than that, and attraction and attractiveness are so individual--and it's just very organic and non-linear as well. There isn't 'one way' to be attractive. You have an innate attractiveness that you really don't need to fuss over!
Honestly...I have huge breasts (G) and I am extremely insecure. I don't particularly like them. I worry about them sagging or stretching out or whatever. I look at women with small, pert breasts and I'm envious. So look at it that way. The grass is 'always greener' on the other side--even if the grass in question is someone's boobs.
Good luck and focus on loving yourself!
Your Uncle,
Hannah
that cancer post is funny lol.
not to demean Taurean's problem at all, as a sun-saturn oppositeur (hm?) i totally relate to this sort of thoughts, these criticisms like a demon possession suddenly turn very ugly. (altho as a neighbor gemini i do not so much dwell on the one as i go from thing to thing to thing, that needs fixing).
you do sound somehow confident though, despite your insecurity that u even ask the question so frankly and cut to the chase- this attitude must turn leo on non?
I AM A TAURUS WITH SMALL BREAST
who DATED A CANCER
and he absolutely loved them :)
I just think that the cancer like them so much that he doesn't care about the sign. Breasts from his partner is the thing he's happy to have :)
but yes
get that leo
about the size*
Interesting.
O.T. : Haha, that Tony dude always says "interesting" in every new post.
We know you're here, buddy. No need to point out the obvious. :D
Okay, back to topic !
Don't feel bad about your (supposedly) "not big enough" boobs. Men love them. Sometimes, they prefer smaller rather than larger. No need to get insecure about it.
And I believe it's more of a Venus in Cancer kind of "obsession" for boobs. I know one guy who cna't get enough of them , and he's a Leo with Venus in Cancer. Go figure !
Oh yeah, Hannah is right. I have F, and it's more a nuisance than a virtue to have boobs that big, trust me. Some guys don't even know you're there. They think they can have a conversation with your boobs.
Riiiiiiiiiiiight .... *pulls up eyebrow*
And besides, if that's all he's interested in, then be the better person and say "hey, there's more to me than meets the eye. wanna find out ?" and you're set !
I with you Hanna who wants the guy who says "Nah. Her rack isn't big enough." Their organs guys!!!! That's like saying, "did you see the size of his kidneys? Shwing!" Um. No. Way. I also belong to the DD club and my back size is 25 inches. Take them, please! My dear, take the back pain, strap digging, underwire gouging, men-no-eye-contact-itis, but don't forget to save up for your inevitable augmentation when they hit your knees and they will. (Hissing and looking at my chest) They will. Tell that little demon on your shoulder to take a hike.
Scaled down from a DDD to a C when I was 18 (I'm literally 5 feet tall) I never looked back...because I got a boost of confidence! I am going to always support women who take advantage of plastic surgery...as long as they do it for the right reasons. Go up, go down, suck, pluck, chisel, and plump all you want ladies..as long as you know whats going on isn't going to change anyones mind but your own!
Men are attracted to confidence..if they weren't only models would have husbands!
Live your life confidently! Do what you like to do and be who you want to be..the men follow.
You know, if breast size (or penis size or nose size) is a dealbreaker, then really, you don't want the person in your life until they achieve some depth, and/or maturity.
Someone once said in an astrology class that men with Mars-Pluto are well-endowed. I haven't conducted a study.
"Men are attracted to confidence..if they weren't only models would have husbands!
Live your life confidently! Do what you like to do and be who you want to be..the men follow."
That is good advice! Thank you Anonymous whoever you are, well said.
I love that saying written by another anonymous I found penned on the inside cover of a well-worn volume:
Be who you are
Say what you must
Those who mind don't matter
Those who matter don't mind
Jeffrey - the penis thing - Mars Pluto Conjunct? I might be able to run a few charts and see if anything matches up. *grins*
I'm sure that there may be some guys that have this "boob" thing (with probably SOMETHING in Cancer) - but if this is the case- then, too bad for them, they won't know what they are missing out on?! (for example- it is a wonderful experience to have eyes meet up on each other!).
I am average size, nothing major, but have somehow always attracted Cancers. I had a best-friend as a Cancer in highschool, whom we almost hooked up (if it weren't for a pesky Aries who loved the chase and dug his nose in fast....), and then, after this sex crazed Aries left my life, every serious relationship I had since then had something in Cancer (Cancer Sun, w/the next serious boyfriend whom I almost married, then the next person I dated and married - he had Cancer mars, and now (unfortunately, after 11 years of marriage - female family members of his, did a big number to end us) the man I am dating has Cancer rising, well, all of these guys never minded that I was not heavily endowed...
The Cancer rising guy I am dating now does have quite a thing for boobs, but in a good way - the way that I like too, he just, in general, absolutely adores them and loves them.... - anyhow- I can attest that it definetely doesn't matter on size for MANY Cancers, and if it does, than they are the immature ones, forget em. I think what a real man loves is the person, your unique personality - which then makes him love YOUR boobs...
BalancedSag (couldn't get the thing to work right... - so it came under "anonymous"
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