Possessive Scorpio man doesn't want Aquarius woman to have friends
aqua gurl provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,I have been dating a scorpio for a month and I have fallen madly in love with him, but I don't know how he feels about me. He calls and text me everday and all day. He is so nice to me and then he could just lash out any time. One minute hes like i miss you and calls me baby. Then the next minute hes like im about to stop dealing with you real soon and then he's back to nice mod. He is very possessive he does not want me to have friends but he can have friends. We have never been on a date cause he doesnt like to go out late when he has to work, We do talk on the phone all night. He doesn't want anyone to know were dating not even my friend and she the one who hooked us up he says he doesnt want people from his job in his business. I love him and want to stick it out because I feel like his attitudes is just a way of showing me he loves me. What should I do? Does he love me or should i just move on?Your Scorpio boyfriend is showing classic, stereotypical traits of his sign: possessiveness, secretiveness, reclusiveness. But so what if he loves you? What are you getting out of this relationship? You have generous Jupiter conjunct the cusp of your Seventh House of Partnership -- in loving and compassionate Pisces, no less. You want to experience boundless, idealist love in a relationship -- not to be controlled and have so many limitations placed on your love life.
You've never been on a date with him? He doesn't want anyone -- even your friend -- to know you two are dating? Half the time he lashes out or implies he's going to stop dealing with you? If you've fallen madly in love with him, I'm not going to question the validity of your feelings. Or maybe I will. Why would you put up with being treated this way?
You were born on a Leo Full Moon. You may be an Aquarius who's cool with the distance afforded by this arrangement, but your Leo Moon wants to feel special, to be seen. And how can you receive validation when this guy doesn't want to go out in public with you?
Did your Mommy and Daddy get along? A Full Moon baby can have parents who are constantly in opposition. Maybe you're setting yourself up to repeat this pattern -- by being in a relationship in which your needs won't be met. I'm just saying.
Stumble It!
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/07/2008
3 Comments:
Hey Aqua girl,
I'm an aquarius myself and my second boyfriend was also a scorpio. Unlike you though, I always knew I didn't truly love him, it was definitely lust and something else, but anyways... from my experience it'll only get worse, I remember when my scorpio ex started like that, no one could know we were dating, then he finally introduced me to his mom and stepdad after 1 year later, and when we got engaged, it was the worst proposal ever, very detached and no warm feelings, then he said I could use my engagement ring at work or if I went out, but I couldn't use it in front of his friends, parents, family or neighbors. After 2 and 1/2 years of stupid rules and possessivenes, I finally realized he wasn't the guy for me and gave him my ring back, which was a great decision since he was having sex with his neighbor/friend/band mate's niece. At that time he was 38 and I was 21, and his friend's niece was 19. I hope to God your scorpio friend is this delusional, but they can be too much of a headache for a smart aquarian girl, we are in a different wave lenght so don't try to ignore your instinct. If you already took the time to write this letter asking for advice on whether you should move on, then you must know what to do.
Correction:
I meant to write "I hope to God your scorpio friend ISN'T this delusional. My bad lol.
Interesting.
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