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A Leo woman asks:

Is it possible to have a relationship with someone with a heavy Aquarian emphasis in his chart or is it a lost cause? I have no planets in Aquarius at all but I seem to be attracted to them for reasons that I can't fathom. Maybe it's that Jupiter/Uranus conjunction in Libra? I don't know. Is it bc I'm a Leo Sun? I don't know but either way, that's my question.

Zodiac opposites attract for a good reason. Each axis contains two complementary signs that really can't function without the other.

Aries - Libra	Me - You
Taurus - Scorpio	My Money - Our Money
Gemini - Sagittarius	Facts - Theories
Cancer - Capricorn	Home - Work
Leo - Aquarius	Performer - Audience (or Individual - Group)
Virgo - Pisces	Organized Ritual - Mystical Letting Go

Leo needs a detached viewer to objectively critique her performance. Who else but Aquarius can do that? (I said critique, not criticize, Virgo!)

Your attraction is due to your Leo Sun, not your Uranus-Jupiter conjunction in Libra. This conjunction can last nearly a year -- it's not specific to Leos -- and concerns your need to experience expansion, meaning, revolution and independence in relationships.

In your chart, Saturn -- the ruler of your 7th House of Partnership (with Capricorn on the cusp) -- is in your 11th House of Friends and Groups. The 11th House has a natural affinity with Aquarius. This area of your life is bound with your partnership needs; for example, you might find a future husband in a humanitarian group with which you are involved. And who is more likely to spend time in these endeavors than Aquarians? Hence, this is another factor in your chart that may explain your attraction to the sign of the Water Bearer.

Is someone with a heavy Aquarian emphasis a lost cause? Not necessarily -- you just need to give him lots of independence and not expect much in the way of emotional availability.

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Labels: aquarius, astrology, compatibility, leo

Scorpio man seeks woman who can keep a secret, stay faithful. Must have high sex drive, and must never ever look at another man (or woman, for that matter). Extra points if you have a healthy respect for privacy. Willingness to merge assets a plus -- bringing along debts may be a dealbreaker. You should have completed a full round of psychoanalysis first, and know your dark side well -- I don't want to be your therapist, and I'd rather you have thoroughly examined yourself before I dig up all your skeletons. Tolerance for witnessing emotional extremes and black moods is a necessity. If you want to be possessed, I'm your man.

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Labels: astrology, scorpio

An Aquarius writes about her Cancer man:

He trusted me so much and used to share all his personal stuff with me. He was a little open to his female friends, and I felt insecure about that. I felt that he was cheating on me. I ended up crying before his friends, and ended up telling them our personal things. Not once but twice I did so, and broke his trust. Now he is so angry with me. He told me he can't forgive me so easily. So we will remain friends from now on. I really love him and want him back so badly. I feel very bad for what I have done. How can I get him back? [edited for clarity]

Dear Aquarius,

Two things you must understand:

1) Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and the Moon symbolizes women. A Cancer man feels comfortable with female friends, and he is unlikely to cheat on you with them, because he is so focused on emotional security and the importance of family values. (Or, do you feel he was emotionally unfaithful to you? He's look for caring and comfort from his friends -- not charged intimacy that is all but consummated.)

2) He was a little open with his female friends because, once again, security is paramount to Cancer. He needs to feel safe if he is going to expose his soft underbelly. Obviously, he trusted you enough to share his innermost secrets. To then have them spilled can feel like a massive betrayal, so he has now retreated into his shell. Your Cancer ex will continue a friendship with you, but you won't easily get past his defenses this time.

If you want him back, you will have to be patient. He will occasionally retreat from his bunker to see if the coast is clear, and you will have to prove over and over that you're friendly territory. Perhaps state secrets are not so important to collective-minded Aquarius, but Cancer is more likely to feel vulnerable than the Water Bearer when classified information is released to the public.

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Labels: aquarius, astrology, breakups, cancer

A Taurus writes:

I have asked my friend to pass my number on to a Libra man I fancy. Should I have played harder to get, as it's been nearly a week and I'm still waiting?

Libra is the sign of the scales, and as an air sign, he is both blessed and cursed with the ability to weigh both sides of any issue. As a result, he has earned a reputation for being indecisive. Although as a cardinal sign he can be a man of action, Libra cannot initiate until he's made up his mind. Ruled by Venus, Libra can also be a bit lazy.

I don't understand how having your friend give this guy your number is playing hard to get. You're more like being hard to give -- meaning that you're putting yourself in a passive role. It seems so "high school," but for all I know, maybe that's where you really are. A Taurus will surely not be the first sign to subvert gender roles, but geez, can't you be a bit more assertive?

Let's assume this Libra knows you're interested in him. Why would he not call?

1) He's not interested.
2) He thinks you're cute, but he doesn't really know you all that well, and you seem a bit unyielding. There is this nice, sensual quality to you -- you seem really earthy. However, he's not sure if you two would hit it off. I mean, you have a throaty voice -- that's really sexy -- but you don't really talk all that much. Does he want a silent type? He wants somebody to talk to, somebody who can match him mentally. On the other hand, maybe what he really needs is somebody to ground him, and you seem like you could do that for him. Maybe he'll sleep on it, think more about calling you ... tomorrow.

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Labels: astrology, libra, taurus

What is the appropriate response to infidelity? Where do you draw the line between compassion for your partner's "weakness," and saying, "Thank you for that blow. May I have another?"

If you choose to stay in the relationship and make it work, it is important to forgive, but not forget. Another water sign, Scorpio, never forgets -- and will probably bring up past indiscretions twenty years later. But a Pisces ... a Pisces can empathize with her partner's difficulty abiding by the reality principle (meaning that Saturn may be a pain in the ass, but at least he governs commitment and discretion), and conveniently "forget" she's been hurt, only to let herself be walked on again.

Sun-Neptune or Pisces people can be prone to self-sacrifice, taking care of a homeless musician-addict, giving him a place to sleep, money for beer, sharing a bed even though she has no idea where he spends his other nights. She's "saving" him. "What will happen to him if I don't provide for him? He's so talented ... if only he got his act together, he could make something of himself."

Her idealism is notable, but as the aphorism goes, "There's a Pisces born every minute." Being suckered into giving cheaters a free pass ... that's not her highest calling.

So, how does Pisces draw the line between compassion and being a doormat? If it's in your nature to make sacrifices, to give of yourself because if anyone is hungry, you too suffer, then channel this yearning into works in the public sphere, not into your intimate relationships. Is this easy? No. Obviously, if you've got Neptune or Pisces planets in your seventh house, sacrifices in one-on-one relationships are par for the course. But I firmly believe we have a choice in how we express our archetypal dynamics. You can't change your Piscean nature, but with a combination of consciousness and will, you can steer your ship on the right course.

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A sad Sagittarius writes:

He cheated-- my sweet, innocent, "fallen angel" as he likes me to refer. Why? Now what? Does that mean he is over me? As he put it "she literally broke into his house in the middle of the night, and she is an ex ex ex girlfriend, the type he wishes he had spent more time with." Isn't that just about every ex for a Pisces? He did tell me that he loves me, before this obviously, and he said it often. This seems out of nowhere. I haven't cried yet, and I told him I didn't want to speak with him anymore. Now, I want to speak with him and find out the golden question: why?

Is there hope? I still love him too much.

Sad Sag,

It sounds like your Pisces is embodying the very worst qualities of his sign: passivity and martyrdom. Pisces is the archetype of the crucified Jesus -- no wonder he likes you to refer to him as your "fallen angel."

Your Pisces' ex may very well have broken into his house, and I'm sure he wishes he had spent more time with her, but he's with you now. He could have said, "No, I have a girlfriend." Pisces can act as if they are helpless victims, but there are Pisces who have grown up. "Help, I'm a fallen angel, and I can't get up" is no excuse, especially since he can get it up with someone else.

I'm not sure trying to get a reasonable explanation out of him is worth your time. He went with the flow of the moment, as Pisces are prone to do. If you're a guy, and an ex you're still hot for breaks into your house and seduces you, it does take some backbone to save your bone for your girlfriend. I'd actually be more worried about this ex who broke into his house -- is she stable?

There may be hope for the relationship if your Pisces can take responsibility for his part, as well as make a commitment to grow up. That's not something you can measure, but you're a Sag ... either you have faith, or you don't.

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Labels: astrology, infidelity, pisces

When a Leo woman casts her eyes upon a man, the brilliance of sunlight follows. Unfortunately, the Scorpio man does not want his secrets illuminated. Sensing that a woman is trying to get underneath his skin, Scorpio pushes back. If he is going to reveal himself, it will be at his pace.

The Scorpio man may even feel suspicious being the recipient of Leo's warmth and generosity. What is she trying to get from him? What is her ulterior motive? Of course, the Leo woman has no hidden agendas -- but she'll have difficulty convincing him of that.

Pluto is also turned off by Leo's displays on the red carpet. He is behind the scenes, more interested in the machinations of the film industry, not the glitzy surface of its starlets.

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Labels: astrology, compatibility, leo, scorpio

A Libra writes:

I have known a pisces man for about three years now. We met when he was in a relationship - of course it was one he truly did not want to be in, but being a pisces I know it would take time for him to get out of the relationship entirely. I never truly understood why I was so intrigued by this pisces man until I started studying astrology. We both went our seperate ways, sending sweet notes to each other every couple months or so. Still not understanding my feelings for him, I got involved with another guy, an Aquarian. I learned a lot over those two years, but of course could not forget about the Pisces. Now, three years after meeting him, he has a girlfriend, a Leo and I am single again still thinking of him. Sometimes we meet and when we see each other it is immediate mysticism. Of course, right? haha. Anyway, so I told him how I felt. He got uncomfortable, nervous as he admits. From knowing him for three years I feel like I can see right through him. In my opinion, he is not IN LOVE with the Leo, only comfortable because he can live his life the way he wants to; he can travel, play in his band, write his novel, and she is there for him to return home to. Both of them are artists and I find that they are comfortable with that way of living together. Notice I keep mentioning the word "comfortable" - that is all I see in their relationship. I am a Libra and as you know I love to love. And I pride on that. I could show him a level he's never experienced before. He used to tell me "one day we will be together." And now he acts like he is completely shutting himself off because he is scared for what I provide him with. We have had some intense times together and I know that could continue. I know this because my best friend back home is a Pisces man and our energy is incredible. Both of my parents are Pisces. I think they are absolutely fascinating. I know you cannot predict that future, but I want to know what on earth is going on with him? I know I bring him back to earth from his dream world. Why is he so afraid of that? I will see him March 3rd I want it to be a time he will never forget. We are friends, but the feelings are so much stronger.

Libra,

Perhaps this Pisces man does not want intensity. After indulging in his creative passions, maybe returning home to "comfort" is just what he needs. What if, with his sensitivity, he does not feel he can emotionally or energetically accomodate both his artistic endeavors and an intense relationship? Maybe you are his muse, and he works better if he channels his fantasies about you into his art, instead of living out the reality of a relationship with you, with all of its daily challenges.

Pisces need to retreat. They access their imaginations in their much needed alone time, and can feel overstimulated with too much relating. Libra is all about relating. Leo is no more compatible with Pisces than Libra is, but maybe his Leo girlfriend's focus on creativity doesn't wipe him out. He can validate her artwork, she's satisfied, and they both can do their thing.

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The two final signs of the zodiac, both Aquarius and Pisces are not really bound to earthly matters. Aquarius theorizes about the laws of the cosmos; Pisces fantasizes about worlds unborn. Aquarius can perceive future trends and conceive technologies that may not be embraced for years. Pisces creates fictions that cannot physically exist.

Pisces doesn't even care about the boundaries of science, the quest to understand outer space. For Pisces, inner space is what counts. For Aquarius, laws are made to be broken; for Pisces, laws themselves are illusory lines drawn in the sand to separate what is from what most people can't imagine.

Interpersonally, these signs can't be more different. Aquarius detaches, while Pisces merges. The latter romances and deifies the lover, while the former finds intimacy too sticky. Think Neo from The Matrix, who can bend the laws of physics and overcome the boundaries between humans and AI, versus Agent Smith, who finds the smell of humans revolting.

Mysticism versus Astrology

Pisces will meditate to transcend the limitations of ego consciousness, and feel love for all sentient beings. Aquarius will study the heavenly bodies to understand the meaning behind events and personalities, and although she may achieve an "ah hah!" moment, she doesn't quite feel the interconnectedness of all things (As Above, So Below), as much as comprehend it. Both ways are important, but these two signs don't see eye to eye.

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Labels: aquarius, astrology, compatibility, pisces

This review is the first in a series. I have to admit that I have never read a pop astrology book in my life, let alone one about sex and seduction. I always looked down on most books that you would find at a Barnes & Noble. However, life should be fun, and there's something to be said for introducing astrology in a tasty package.

Sexscopes: How to Seduce, Stimulate, and Satisfy Any Sign is one of those books. If you're looking for heavy-duty analyses of aspects between your Venus and his Mars, look elsewhere. This book is unabashedly about Sun signs, with a little bit of planetary rulership thrown in for semi-respectability.

Stuart Hazleton has written for Cosmopolitan. He may have had to use sexual innuendos for the magazine, but in this book he's virtually pornographic. I have to admit that I found myself getting steamed up while reading this book in the subway, and had to put the book away because it felt inappropriate to get hot and bothered in public. (Could it be my Virgo Rising?) Needless to say, you'll learn about every sign's proclivities towards oral sex and more in this volume.

Stuart structures SexScopes by devoting a chapter to each sign. He starts with Sex Stats, outlining the sign's ruling planet, trademark color, favorite position, ultimate outfit (for each gender), favorite music for the bedroom, best sex toy, and preferred post-coital cuisine. He provides an introduction to the sign, followed by what to expect from, say, an Aries man in contrast to an Aries woman. This is insightful, as an Aries woman has to negotiate expressing an assertive, "masculine" identity in a female body, and often does not get the same response an Aries man would for similar behavior.

Stuart then provides ways to break the ice with each gender. If you want a pick-up line to get a conversation going with the sign of your choice, you will at least have a springboard from which to jump.

The only planetary astrology involved comes into play when the author discusses decanates. What is a decanate? Each sign comprises 30 degrees of the zodiac, and can be divided into three 10-degree subsections. Each of these decanates relates to the element (fire, earth, air, or water) of the sign. For example, Aries is a fire sign. Aries also relates to the first 10 degrees of this sign, and is subruled by Mars. The second 10-degree group relates to Leo, and is subruled by the Sun. The third group relates to Sagittarius, and is subruled by Jupiter. Providing birthdays so you can easily identify your lover's subruler, Mr. Hazleton provides more detailed information about how they express their Sun sign. For example, an Aries with a Jupiter subruler will be more playful than one with a Mars subruler.

Stuart provides compatibility guides, both for sexual and long-term compatibility. Taurus and Aries may initially experience fireworks in the bedroom, but will drive each other crazy outside of it.

Finally, the author provides astrologically accurate erogenous zones for the sign in question. (For example, Aries rules the head, Taurus rules the throat, and so on.) A list of celebs of that sign ends each chapter.

One plus of this book is that Stuart is gay-inclusive, making sure to provide graphic examples for gay men, lesbians and heteros. Most importantly, he is an entertaining writer. As long as you're not put off by terms like smutty samba, mounting, and muff diving, you'll enjoy yourself thoroughly, and even learn something in the process.

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A reader asks:

I have a question about Sun/Moon connections between same sex couples. I have read that a great indication of whether a couple will get along well in the emotional area is to take the male's sun sign and compare it to the female's moon sign. But what if we are talking about a same sex couple? I am asking because I am a Cancer with my moon sign in Libra and the woman who has caught my eye is a Capricorn with her moon in Cancer. So my Cancer sun sign to her Cancer moon is perfect. But my Libra moon to her Cap sun is not so good. What happens then? Do we then alternate between emotional understandings and misunderstanding?

In a Sun-Moon conjunction between charts, the Moon is the "wife" and the Sun is the "husband," regardless of gender. Think of "husband" and "wife" as archetypes, bare-bones concepts that underlie these constantly evolving roles. If you two were to hook up, you'd both "lead" in different areas. You'd be the dom in the home front, and she would support you. This is where you shine, after all -- Miss Cap would depend on you to run that show. However, as a Capricorn, she'd assert herself in the outside world.

Overall, you two would have a strong emotional bond, and building a family (however you want to define it) would be important to both of you. Your Libra Moon does throw a screw into this Cap-Cancer, work-home balancing act, though. Why do you have to bring the issue of "fairness" into the relationship? Isn't it enough that Miss Cap brings home the fakin' bacon and that you steam it? What, do you expect her to do the dishes, too? I suppose with a Cancer Moon, she would.

Miss Cap knows what she wants; you can be indecisive. She can feel impatient when you hem and haw. You can offer a wider perspective when she's stuck in tunnel vision -- not that she'd appreciate you diverting her from her goal. Later, though, she might begrudgingly thank you for thinking about the relationship.

Overall, both of you have so much cardinal energy that, as a couple, you'd be able to get things moving in whatever area of life you apply yourselves.

Good luck!

Cafe Astrology provides a good primer on Sun-Moon compatibility.

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Labels: astrology, cancer, capricorn, compatibility, libra

I hope you like to talk, because Gemini gets turned on by the art of conversation. She feels connected in the midst of banter, chat, gossip. It doesn't even matter what you gab about -- Gemini don't go deep, anyway. Just keep your tongue wagging.

Gemini is a flirtatious sign. Playful innuendo, double entendre ... word games keep this witty sign engaged. A bored Gemini will move on to the next table if you can't keep up with the verbiage.

The sign of the Twins also rules hands and fingers. Lightly touching the tips of her digits will send chills up her spine. A thorough hand massage will get her fingers to do the walking later on. (Keep your Yellow Pages ready!)

Gemini's ruler, Mercury, rules the nervous system. Gemini can be easily stimulated, and if she has too much nervous energy, Gemini may have difficulty settling down. It is wise to temper your approach. You don't want someone too much in their head if you're heading for the bed.

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If there is one sign that is straight and to-the-point, that cuts through the bullshit and tells you like-it-is, that sign is Aries. Aries doesn't care how you feel -- either you meet his needs, or you don't.

You can understand Aries better by looking at Libra, his opposite. If a Libra man is rejecting you, he will do it in the nicest way possible. Libra will make sure to cushion the blows by mentioning all of your positive qualities. He can see all parts of you, good and bad, and he's graceful enough not to focus primarily on the negatives, although he won't neglect to mention those too. (How else would he be balanced?) He'll reject you in a manner that makes you feel like you received a compliment, but that there was something in there that felt like a little cut ... you just can't quite place it.

So be grateful you're being turned down by an Aries, instead. If he's not interested, he'll tell you so. No hedging, no cushions. The Aries package does not include empathy and sensitivity. If you're gonna get rejected, isn't it best to take all the ambiguity out of it?

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I can only imagine a Sag falling for a Cap if she has her Venus in Capricorn -- why else would she be drawn to such a dry, old fart? Whatever area of the zodiac our Venus inhabits, we are attracted to the qualities of that sign. However, these two Sun signs are totally incompatible. Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, and Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter. Contraction, expansion. Cynical realism, boundless optimism. Hard work with distant payoff, good luck and opportunites.

How can a fiery, inspiring and enthusiastic woman seduce a melancholic and conservative man? Would he be attracted to her Sagittarian qualities? Or would he be turned off by her arrogance, her inability to focus on details, her tendency to go overboard?

If this Sag woman has Venus in Capricorn, then she can lure the Cap man with her very own Cappiness. This is how she expresses her femininity, after all. She can be brilliant at converting the masses with her fire-and-brimstone sermons, but she can do it in a grey pants suit and low-heeled shoes.

If she has Venus in Scorpio, no one will be able to resist her. And besides ... she loves power and Cap loves status, so it's a match made in heaven!

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Labels: astrology, capricorn, compatibility, sagittarius

You know that deep, dark hole you dig after you've been dumped? Where you stew in the juices of your resentment and despair for months and months? Well, the first hole of despondency was dug by a Scorpio.

In a relationship, Scorpio explores every nook and cranny of the intimate space shared by two people -- sometimes even looking into recesses for which her partner has not granted her access.

As a result, Scorpio knows her partner really well, and if she's gotten to the point where she trusts him, Scorpio is not willing to let him go. So when the day comes that she gets dumped, Scorpio goes into one of two modes. She withdraws into her own private hell, or she gets even.

You know that saying, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned?" That surely must be about a Scorpio. Because she has all the dirt on her ex, she is willing to bring it to the light of day, or at least manipulate him into staying so that she will keep his secrets safe.

And Scorpio's private hell ... she can live there a while, commingling with her demons, brooding over past wrongs. However, Scorpio is the sign of transformation -- after she has burned through her resentments, she will be a new person. She may tread lightly the next time a man shows interest in her, but she will bring a deeper insight into her own process. This latter option is preferable; revenge may be sweet, but it leaves a bitter aftertaste.

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Labels: astrology, breakups, scorpio

What are you thinking?

Cancer rules the family, old-fashioned values, and the home. Unless this Cancer man has restless Uranus compelling one of his love planets to break the rules of matrimony, you are as likely to break up his marriage as the Moon is likely to stop in her tracks.

And what is this whole seduction-of-married-men thing about, anyway? The planets may be far away, but they are not impartial. OK, Uranus may say, "Go for it!" but Saturn ... oh Saturn ... the god who keeps tabs on your karma -- he doesn't forget. Like Santa Claus, who makes a list of who's naughty and who's nice, Saturn will give you back whatever you put out. The witches say that it'll come back three-fold! And if not in this life, well ... in your next life you'll be born a leper or an orphan or one of those poor saps who's constantly cuckolded.

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Labels: astrology, cancer, infidelity, marriage

• Open PowerPoint.
• Clearly type out the reasons why this arrangement does not suit your mutual interests.
  
• A graph would help. X axis = months from past to present. Y axis = the amount of satisfaction you have derived from the partnership.
  
• Define "satisfaction" as Return on Investment (ROI) of emotional resources.
  
• Quantify it, using a scale from 1 to 5, with 1 being " extremely dissatisfied" and 5 being "extremely satifisfied."
  
• Visually, there should be a clear decrease in satisfaction over time.
  
• Save presentation. Shut down laptop.
• Bring laptop and projector to Capricorn's office. Although you do not have an appointment, do not let Cap's secretary prevent you from interrupting Cap's quarterly meeting with the Board.
• In a calm and collected manner, run through your slides, clearly explicating the rational reasons for your need to dissolve the partnership.
  
• Open discussion for questions and answers.
• Closing words.
• Goodbye.
  

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Labels: astrology, breakups, capricorn

A Pisces man writes:

I have been trying very hard to get this Libra female, but she is always telling me I am not the one that she is looking for and is constantly reminding me to give up on her. I really don't know what kind of a guy is she looking for.

I am not a typical pisces, I have a high ego, I take initiatives, being decisive, refined and I am neat at times. I feel that my personality is more to a fire horoscope.

I don't mind changing myself to suit her and that is the pisces part of me. Therefore, I think I have a mix of both pisces and fire horoscope qualities.

I will really appreciate it if you could help me out on this and figure out what is on her mind and what kind of a guy she is searching for. Thanks in advance :)

You may well have some fire in your chart, if you're decisive and you take initiative. Aries immediately follows Pisces, and many Pisces have Mercury and/or Venus in this sign. And if you're refined and even "neat at times," you may very well have your Moon in Libra, which would account for your emotional connection with this woman.

Aries sits on the opposite side of the zodiac from Libra. In general, fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sag) and air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) get along. It could be your fiery nature that makes your friendship possible.

However, as shape-shifty as you are, Pisces, you can't meld yourself into the man of this Libra woman's dreams. If she constantly reminds you to give up on her, she means it. After all, she's a Libra -- she's doing her best to not hurt your feelings. If she were an Aries, she'd communicate her unavailability in a less-than-polite manner.

I suggest you cherish your friendship and search for love elsewhere. If you like air, find a nice Gemini girl.

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Sag and Scorpio sit right next to each other in the zodiac, and astrological neighbors don't have much in common. Sex may be sport to Sag, but for Scorpio it is serious business. Sex is the pathway to intimacy for Scorpio. It has emotional meaning, and is not, as for Sag, just another adventure.

"That which happens behind closed doors" is Scorpio's realm. The dirty secrets, the stains, all the stuff we don't want our neighbors to know about. How can the Sagittarius woman possibly understand, when she is out in the world, drawing inspiration from travels or lofty tomes? She doesn't spend time in the dark.

Sag's planetary ruler Jupiter (Zeus) is god of the sky, living on Mount Olympus. Scorpio's ruler Pluto (Hades) is lord of the underworld. You can't get much further apart that that! However, these two planets do have one thing in common: wealth.

What riches can be mined in the sexual encounter? If Scorpio can be seduced by bounty, then Sag may be in luck. The Sagittarius woman can see the opportunities in the sexual encounter, and offers such a large number of options that surely, for the Scorpio man, something's there for the pickin'.

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A Taurus woman writes:

A Pisces man wants to have sex with me and I him and we both have known each other for years, but what concerns me is the fact that he is rather pushy about the subject. He assures me that I won't be disappointed, and after being in a very sexually unpleasing marriage with a Scorpio man, I am scared to become sexually involved with the Pisces man. Should I be or should I allow myself the experience?

You should wait until you feel safe. As a Taurus woman, you know your body is sacred and that you need to feel secure if you're going to share it with another. And God knows, Scorpio men know how to hurt those with whom they are intimate.

Your Pisces man ought to be sensitive and empathic about your fear. He probably has a pushy Mars. And of course, men can be overly focused on sex, but this guy's pushiness sounds like a red flag. Not that he's Scorpionically dangerous, but he's not listening to your resistance. Your Pisces man may very well be good in the sack, but how can you appreciate it if you're scared?

If you haven't already, communicate to him why you're holding back. If his response helps you feel comfortable taking the risking of being with someone new, then it's OK to "feel the fear and do it anyway," for sometimes all we need is a new experience to disprove old theories. However, if Pisces is not sensitive to your hesitation, then maybe your fear is justified.

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