Sagittarius woman only needs Cancer man when she's lonely
MJ submitted his birth time (click chart to view) and writes,I've been with this girl since 2002, and we break up since 2006. But, i can't forget about her! She's unpredictable. As an example, I stopped contacting her because she said so, but out of the blue, she called me like nothing happen before.I know you love her, but it's not going to work out. The truth hurts -- and no one's more likely to tell it like it is than a Sag -- but you need to accept it. She only wants you when she needs your Cancerian nurturing. When she's not feeling lonely, she's out having adventures and enjoying her freedom -- because that's what a Sagittarius needs to do.
I don't think i can forget about her. True, i was "cheat" and lie to her while she's complete honest and faithful to me. I don't understand why she wanted me to give an explanation or reason behind all my action. Sometimes, it drives me mad. Even, when we're argued, she talked based on her own logic. In every argument, it was me who's silent - she's on the winning side. Every argument i make, she reverse it.
Are there a future for us for being together again?
Is cancer compatible with sagittarius?
By the way, she did mention she needs me when she's lonely but no longer love me or need me when she's not lonely. Can't she lie a bit? it - honestly - hurts me. But, i love her and wanted her back.
How can win back sagittarius woman?
The time of birth you gave me was right on the hour, so I don't know how accurate it is. However, it's possible that you have Pisces Rising, which would accord with your propensity for lying. Pisces would prefer fantasy to reality, and is willing to pull the wool other their own (or someone else's) eyes to manifest their visions.
In your chart, Venus -- symbol of the young woman to whom you are attracted -- is opposite independent Uranus. This aspect suggests that either you are drawn towards women who are averse to settling down, or that you feel this yearning for freedom in relationships. There's nothing wrong this this, but it conflicts with your basic Sun sign nature, which longs for security and coziness. (Your Scorpio Moon also desires intimacy and can't handle the abrupt changes in love brought on by your Venus-Uranus opposition).
Your North Node conjoins your Cancer Sun in your Fifth House of Romance. Bringing sensitivity and care to the realm of love is a requirement for your spiritual growth. You deserve more than a woman who comes to you only when she needs some coddling.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/07/2007
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As a Sagittarius woman who dated a Cancer man, I would just accept that this relationship will not work out in the long run. For me, I appreciated the nurturing that my ex-boyfriend gave me....initially...but it turned into a controlling and manipulative type of love. This not the type of love that a Sagittarius ultimately seeks. My ex-boyfriend would also lie repeatedly and I found this completely unacceptable. In the end, I found that my Cancer man was cheating and lying about it to me, so we could not even remain friends. Sagittarius has a "live and live" motto, so I would imagine, when your ex-girlfriend contacts you...it is really out of friendship and curiousity...and nothing more than that. My suggestion is to find yourself an Earth sign. I think you will be much happier with a rock-solid woman. As for me....I found myself an Aquarius man....who is my best friend and fellow adventurer......a true soulmate.
Well I am going to try and be nice, but Cancer man:
YOU CHEATED AND LIED TO HER!!!
Of all signs you could do that with, this is not the one to mess with. Sagittarius people cannot tolerate a liar. You have lost all your footing in this relationship, and there is almost no chance in hell you will get it back.
If she wants to forgive you, she will. But there is NOTHING you can do to make her forgive you. It's up to her. Otherwise, let her go, and LEARN YOUR LESSON. I don't think you deserve her.
Have you lost your mind? If you love her, then you will think about what is best for her, and she deserves a loyal and honest man.
If she says she is over you, then she is over you. A Sagittarius woman does not NEED a man, so once you screw up....good luck.
I am a Sagittarius...
I agree COMPLETELY with sagilarious. Sadge women CANNOT be lied to...no matter what. You would have had a better chance of telling the truth...and seeing if she could accept that....or be your friend. This woman cannot be your friend...because nobody wants LIARS as friends. You have no footing...and you have no chance. Lessson learned.
I hate to say this, but Cancer men (maybe because it is a feminine sign) are hard placed. Their manipulations, control, self-absorption...not to mention the WHINING...is not in alignment with the positive and idealistic nature of Sagittarius. You didn't really love her...or you would not lie or cheat. You loved yourself.
As sagilarious said....the Sadge woman doesn't need a man! She will walk regardless....as she cannot be controlled and is too independent for you.
I was wondering how this comment about how cancer and sadge are not compatible would apply to me. Meaning that since Im sagittarius with cancer rising am i crazy? what does my sign mean then and how important is the cancer rising part of it. my moon is gemini and my venus is scorpio.
LOL Jensagg
asking people if you're crazy is a rhetorical question
don't go there because they'll ass-ume you are ;)
and ya, Moon in Gemini is usually half-crazy and Venus in Scorpio is brutal in bed
@jensagg, it just means that -- like most people -- you're complex. You come across initially as sensitive and nurturing, yet your essential nature is adventurous and freedom-loving.
I'm a cancer sun with a sag moon and my boyfriend is an aquarius with a libra moon. I have a cancer venus and scorpio mars and saturn and he has a pisces venus and aries mars. And I have two other planets in sag. What is up with this? We're not supposed to be compatable,but he initiated the relationship and calls and texts me more than i do. I don't even feel the need to call every day. I thought aquarians were supposed to be detached and need a lot of space, but I feel like I need more space than he does. I even feel safer when I'm not in a relationship, but I have stong feelings for him and care about him and I don't want to be with any other man. What is up with this?
I'm a Sag woman who was attracted to a cancer man intensely for some time. I loved the Cancer energy, seemed to reach deep down into my more insecure areas. Very nurturing. However, even with little things like crossing the road he'd want to keep me safe when I just like to dodge the traffic quite happily and safely my own way!! After being in his company for about 6 months I'd had enough, I became very confused as he seemed to have set ways with everything which conflicted with my come what may attitude. We just didn't get each other. I think of all the signs I would never consider again Cancer would be right up there with Gemini men. Previous comments are so true in that Lying to or questioning the truth of a Sagittarian is enough to drive them far from you. You see we do always tell the truth (as we see it) for better or worse and we do appreciate the truth in the same way.
You ask why she wants reasons for your actions, I would guess that she is trying to understand the root cause of why you do the things you do or because you've lied to her before and she just doesn't trust your word in anything that you say.
How to win her back? All I know is that to cheat on her shows lack of respect for your relationship with her and that trust has been broken, this will never be forgotten. Personally I would learn the lessons from this relationship and move on with your life in a more positive and honest way opening the door for new experiences and people. If your crabby claw can't let go this could also be too much for her, it's kind of suffocating to be held onto too tightly - for a Sag!
The only way to begin to mend or make the peace with her is to speak from your heart - BE HONEST with her and give her the best of your being....Sorry and meaning it is always a good place to start. But my Sag Brain tells me that if you cheated on her then perhaps you aren't meant to be.
HONEST HONEST HONEST...
These sag people love to brag about their honesty. But their "great virtue" is for their own sake only.
I am a cancerian man, I definitily condemn this man's cheating: it is a personal weakness not something about astrology.
On the other hand let me explain the legendary Sagittarius honesty.
You like someone when you are still engaged to another one. And you say to your partner "ı am sorry but ı like someone else goodbye." Wheter he loves you or not is not important. You leave him alone in the half way and go for the sake of your own pussy. This is virtuous sag honesty! No commitment, no respect to a unity or feelings of one. Just yourself and nothing important.
So don't brag about your "truthfullness", think about your selfishness instead.
I AM SAG WOMAN.
I K33P FALLIN N LUV WIT CANC3R M3N 4 SOM3 STRANG3 R3ASON.
IM NOT SUR3 IF WAT YUU HAD GOIN ON WAZ GONNA WORK OUT ANYWAY.
YUU PROBALY SHOULD HAV N3V3R CH3AT3D AND LI3D.
3V3N THOUGH DATS HOW M3 AND MY LAST CANC3R BOI FRIEND BROK3 UP.
NOW IM WITH A N3W CANC3R MAN.
I KANT STAY AWAY 4RM TH3M.
To SAG WOMAN: defy stereotype, lower your voice.
I am a sagittarius and I really like cancer guys (my mom is a cancer). I am not a typical Sag though because I have lots of and water signs in my chart.
IM SAG WOMAN & IM RIDICULOUSLY IN LOVE WITH A CANCER MAN....I FEEL OUR PERSONALITY'S ARE ALOT ALIKE BUT THEN AGAIN WERE ALOT DIFF TOO...I LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM EXCEPT I FEEL LIKE HE DOESNT PAY ENOUGH ATTENTION TO ME WHEN WERE NOT TOGETHER..(WE LIVE VERY FAR FROM EACHOTHER) BUT WHEN WERE TOGETHER EVERYTHING IZ BEAUTIFUL!!! LOL...ESPECIALLY THA SEX.......I KNO IM BETTER OFF WITH A GEMINI OR AQUARIUS LEO BUT WHEN I DATE THOSE SIGNS IT FEELS LIKE WERE MORE ON A FUNNY HAPPY FRIENDS LEVEL NOT SOMEONE I COULD FALL IN LOVE WITH..................IS IT POSSIBLE THAT MY CANCER MAN AND I COULD HAVE TRUE LOVE?????
Yes it is possible for a Sag and Cancer to have true love.
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