Waiting for a Capricorn to come back after a breakup
Capricorn is ruled by Saturn, the planet of delay, as well as success earned after years of effort. After a breakup, you expect Cappy to run back into your arms? Think again.It doesn't matter who ended the relationship. If you broke the goat's heart, Cap will be even more cautious than usual about asking for another chance. Rejection only makes Capricorn try harder, but would any sane person try to scale the same barbed-wire fence twice?
If Capricorn ditched you, the decision wasn't made lightly. This sign thinks about long-term consequences to any action, as well as how it will affect Cap's reputation and social standing. A decision was made, and it's likely to be the final word.
In the unlikely case that Capricorn returns to you -- well, it could take months or years! Cap may not be as slow as Taurus, but the goat is much more serious. A thorough analysis of benefits and liabilities will be done before Cap makes any moves.
You don't impulsively propose a merger of two corporations. The board of directors has to be convinced that the risk is minimal and that the shareholders will be happy. The deal has to pass muster with the Securities and Exchange Commission. This process doesn't happen overnight ... so in the meantime, keep yourself busy. Check out the Wall Street Journal -- there are other healthy stocks you can invest in.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 11/14/2007
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Comment below: How long did it take your Capricorn to come back?
It's been 8 months. He still hasn't, and I can't know if he will. Why am I still hoping? Hell... love just isn't passing by, maybe cause I'm a Cancer, I don't know.
But... coincidence or not, I was getting prepared to write a blog post on SC about... well, about my Cappy ex, and then I saw in the box on the right link to this new post here. And Matthew wrote today too about lack of love in Capricornian lives.
What's going on?
And if a Cap decides to come back will he make the decision first and then just present it to the other party directly or will he cautiously test if the territory is safe for him?
OK, I'm the Capricorn, he's Leo (I know...) we split up, my decision, we got back together.. how long between those two events? 20 years.
Yep...count'em... 20 years.
Poor goats...
Marianne, that wasn't really comforting... :)
/me goes to plan next 10 years in detail so that the waiting doesn't get overly boring.
ex.blue, are you a 2nd lifer? I don't know where else people write /me
People using IRC type that, although the function (the result is talking in third person) exists in some other instant messaging protocols.
I don't play 2nd life, but I do use IRC for communicating with people from another online game.
I am a Cap and it took me many years to decide not to remain married to my Virgo husband.
Prior to that The only other long-term relationship I had was with a Gemini. We mutually decided to see other people. Then after a few months got back together and it just wasn't doing it for me. I remained in the relationship another year. Almost a month to the day we were to marry, I called it all off. I just couldn't do it.
I rarely make rash decisions about anything. I can also blame Libra for my wishy washy, I can see both sides of the issue, Ascendent for making the whole process even more difficult.
I wish I could listen to my Mars in Aries more often. When I do, I seem to make better choices and am happier with the outcome.
First, I just want to comment lightly, before I talk about Capricorn coming back.... if he or she ever does.
Jeff K.--I like goats myself, and we had one, a baby, at home at my mother's for awhile.
The most adorable animal ever to come in.
Anyway, re: Capricorns coming back to us:this is interesting, because the man I waited longest for in my entire life was a Capricorn.
He (and all my Capricorn buddies were indeed rather dour, and serious in ways, but were not pinstripe suit materiel either.
They were all though different somewhat in personality, all zany, and all perverse.
Only one was able to keep working hard no matter, and was not an active alcoholic or sx addict either. (quietly wild, yes, but not a lunatic).
Anyway, the one Capricorn I was in love with did, I fear, ebcome afraid and sadly, he didn't even seem to remember it was*that*that deterred him!
He did call me within 6 months, ut nothig ever *really* got off the ground.
I normally don't say this about love -seeking, dating,or reuniting--but with a Capricorn -if he is hinting about coming back, coming to see you whatever--jump on it.
I can tell you more, and longer tales about he and I --yes, he did love me I venture to say--but "jump on it, and stay with it" is the most important thing I can share with you.
I dated a Cappy for 2 years before he ended the relationship due to wanting a different life path. I agreed. A year later, he began calling me, even though he was married. He realized that the grass isn't always greener on the other side. I eventually began dating someone and Mr. Cappy finally left me alone.
its funny i got 'should be a capricorn' on another thread on the forum - i am a business school student. although a bad one.
I'm the one that will not let the other go. I keep trying harder to get them. Though I was up the leaving them and I told them that, and I left for like a month and all during that time I felt like I was wrong to have done what I did. Like I was giving up on all my hard work. We are friends again....but I still have this odd place in my heart... like a distance.
I'm a Cap btw.
Capricorn prefers to marry for status, to fulfill a job description, or as a financially and socially beneficial "merger." They seldom marry for love alone.
Remember Mr. Big in Sex and the City? Very much a Capricorn in that role, with that delicious dry sense of humour. He loved Carrie and dated her on and off for six years, even got married to someone else (Natasha)and broke Carrie's heart, then came back to have an affair with her.
The Capricorn is still a man, and regardless of his reasons for choosing a marriage partner, needs satisfying sex. Jodi you were obviously very good in that department, but I doubt he would have ever married you first, for the reasons stated above.
It is good that you refused to get involved again. Remember what happened to Carrie?
(they did eventually end up together, but it was a long hard road for her to walk)
This is True.. My Cappy and I were together for 3 yrs. I'm an aquarian and well.. both of us are stubborn but we do love each other. I ended things because he didn't do what he was supposed to he is still around.. and with what was just written I have faith we will be back together in time. =)
This is True.. My Cappy and I were together for 3 yrs. I'm an aquarian and well..split 6 months ago.. both of us are stubborn but we do love each other. I ended things because he didn't do what he was supposed to and he is still around..he does test his waters every once in a while.. and with what was just written I have faith we will be back together in time. =)
I'm a Cancer, btw. Keep forgetting to mention that. : )
I have broken up with her(caprcorn) several tmes snce we have been in a long dstance realtionship. SHe's in new york fnishng her masters i'm(leo) in florida. we had been together two years before i decided to move and she was supportive even though she didn't want me to go. i have been supportive of her education but the road had been difficult. this time shes not sure she wants to get back together. she says her career is her priority rght now and while she loves me she doesn't want to commit. she is excited about her future so she is confused right now about us. What should i do? please help.
Move back to New York and get YOUR Masters or stay in Florida and find a new girlfriend
Women are like valuable real estate, it's all about
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It's funny how i'm not usually one to thread post or blog but felt compelled to do so. I was never really into astrology untill I dated this capricorn woman. She got me into it saying how she is always attracted to virgos. After some time away from her I started to read up on it. And Its crazy but alot of my ex's and women I really had a love for were capricorns. I'm a 26 yr old attractive & confident Virgo/Leo cusp BTW :)
Anyways we parted I think because of my inmateurity(23 at the time) and cockyness(LEO influence??) I also would over analyze situations(Virgo) and not make a move or show affection when I should have known its all good. After we stopped talking she called me back a few times. Once for her bday, and again for her company dinner. In which I stupidly messed up both opportunities to get back with her(Virgo over-analyzation again)
To make a long story short I trully love this women with all my heart. This is coming from a Virgo perfectionist!! I couldnt find anything wrong with her and thats rare for a Virgo. She was trully perfection to me. If I was dating Beyonce or Eva Mendez or who ever and she came along I would go for her in a slipt second.
I read one time in a book.."the true saving grace for a Virgo is TRUE LOVE" I can vouch for that. Never beleived true love exist untill meeting her.
I pray we meet again.
Me too. And that you're not both married to other people when the time comes.
Ok im a Cap and im not for sure if i follow the guildlines. I tend to play women and i never try to get involved with a relationship. the longest one i have had is a few months. Is it unusual for a Cap to act like that? plz post back
I am a capricorn and I have to say that when I am done with a relationship, I am done. I do give the relationship a fair try. More than fair sometimes, but if I am done it is because I realize that this relationship is not going to work for me. I have even remained friends with some if they are sensible enough to continue a friendly relationship. But if I am truely done with the relationship, then there is no more sexual attraction, even though I may still care for them, so what is the point. Besides, a lot of people confuse love with infatuation and sexual desire. They are all different and should be kept that way.
Sorry guys and girls who are waiting for the Capricorn to come back, i promise you it won't happen. I am a Cappy female so i know both sides female and male. I say this because we are climbers and we are striving to get up the mountain not to go back down, not even to pick up something we may have dropped on the way up. I don't even have to know what happened in either of your situations, but i can say to the person who has been waiting for eight months, unless you want to wait the rest of your life and then eternity, then you better move on because your cappy has already done so. Not to say that he is with someone else, but he is recovering from his wounds in your relationship. He probably warned you several times that you were heading in the wrong direction with him and you probably asked why are do you keep repeating the same thing over and over to me....well that was done so when he finally had enough of you not taking him serious and when he decided that he had enough, that he could just go on and when you even thought about asking what went wrong, you would be able to remember the times he kept warning you! I hate to tell you this but he is done! We have a tendency to cut you off physically then emotionally and when that is done so are you. He will however depending on how he feels you violated him, may be able to talk to you later down the road, but for now all your efforts will be in vain if you try to get back with him. He is saying in his mind that now she finally realizes how good I was to her, but now it's too late! Hope this gives you some insight, I know how the not knowing can cause anxiety, but for now you should move on.
Sorry guys and girls who are waiting for the Capricorn to come back, i promise you it won't happen. I am a Cappy female so i know both sides female and male. I say this because we are climbers and we are striving to get up the mountain not to go back down, not even to pick up something we may have dropped on the way up. I don't even have to know what happened in either of your situations, but i can say to the person who has been waiting for eight months, unless you want to wait the rest of your life and then eternity, then you better move on because your cappy has already done so. Not to say that he is with someone else, but he is recovering from his wounds in your relationship. He probably warned you several times that you were heading in the wrong direction with him and you probably asked why are do you keep repeating the same thing over and over to me....well that was done so when he finally had enough of you not taking him serious and when he decided that he had enough, that he could just go on and when you even thought about asking what went wrong, you would be able to remember the times he kept warning you! I hate to tell you this but he is done! We have a tendency to cut you off physically then emotionally and when that is done so are you. He will however depending on how he feels you violated him, may be able to talk to you later down the road, but for now all your efforts will be in vain if you try to get back with him. He is saying in his mind that now she finally realizes how good I was to her, but now it's too late! Hope this gives you some insight, I know how the not knowing can cause anxiety, but for now you should move on.
Oh my god Anonymous, you are so correct. I am a Capricorn woman. I went through the same thing with my last two relationships - I was patient, explained what the problems were, and then explained them again, and again. And again. And then I was done. It seems to happen quite suddenly, but to us Cappies, removing oneself from a relationship is a process and during that process, we warn the hell out of our mates (who never believe us). So by the time we have severed ties, we have done it for good. Both guys have come back -- one with offers of marriage (his non-commital ways were the cause of our break-up)but I just cannot go back. I wrestled with it, but I cannot seem to put myself back in that spot -- the spot I mean is that certain place and time when I thought that the relationship was a good one with hope . . . The failure of the guys in my life to hear me during the relationship was a part of the death of it for me. So once a cappie is done, it takes years or never for them to go back. Unless you can catch slip through the window before it shuts for good -- but then you must heed them when the tell you what is up!
Wow, I have to say this does not leave me with much hope that my capi female will come back. I'm a gemini male and I've never loved anyone the way I've loeved this women. They way "anonymous" describes a capi's finite decision making process fits her to a tee though. It started fast and strong and two months later ended just as quickly. She claimed she got caught up int the fairytale of it all, when in retrospect she never saw herslef getting married, having children and living the white pickett fence dream (although we/she talked about it daily) So she left this gemini wondering "Why" and at one poiitn becaem quite frustrated that i did not get it...she also claimed she had "warned" be early on. Frankly I don't and never saw it. So here I am 6 months later, still very much heartbroken and searching for answers and hoping she'll come back...I'm losing faith :(
As a true Cappy, I can guarantee that any Capricorn who has made sincere efforts to make a relationship work, & has finally made the painful decision to terminate the relationship, will NEVER ever come back! When we are done, we are done!! It's almost like a light switch goes off in our head & after that the person who broke our heart does not exist for us. But please understand that we put up with a lot & give many many warnings before getting to that place of no return...
I am a Caporicorn female here, 24, and so happy to read these post! I am not alone! I am dating a gemini man now, actually going to break up with him today! He is wonderful but he there is no terra firma with him. I need consistency (I probably went to the wrong sign for that). I have given him many many many many chances and nothing has changed. I don't expect him to change as a person but show some consideration for my feelings, which he hasn't. He just doesn't get it and I am exasperated!!
Capricorns will NEVER move backwards! Once we break up with you it is because we have thought LONG and hard about it and realize there is no potential for growth. Don't wait for a Capricorn woman to come back! I repeat don't WAIT, even if she loves you, if she cannot see a relationship working and she broke up with you, that will most likely NEVER CHANGE!
does it also work with capy men?...
i`m pisces & is having trouble getting this capy guy to like me again... we started off good... even though we were far, he did call me once in a while, and txt me everyday... but my pisces side got the most of me, & i started 'testing' him to see if he really was sincere.. (mind you, ive been through shitty relationships.. one even got me pregnant..so im quite cautious)...
He was okay with me having a kid... Anyway, after a few weeks, he started telling me that we should be friends and started txting me less... I know his career is taking up a lot of his time... We just recently txtd and he told me he misses talking to me.. then after a few txt, he doesn`t reply.
It`s really confusing.
I`ve been having so many thoughts (mainly bcoz it`s in my nature/sign to worry even about the smallest details)... I wan`t to get him back.. What could I do to get his him back?.. What should I NOT do incase we talk again?... A big part of me wants to confess how i feel.. but (from the resent posts) it seems like it`d be a waste of time & effort.. HELP!
My boyfriend the Cap and I were having great sex up until I went on business. We lived in a gorgeous home in a great neighborhood, have lots of amazing friends, great careers, were very respected. I came back and found that he had purchased a hilariously large box of condoms. We used two of those, and I found a third one in the spare bedroom. I was nervous and didnt freak out, but calmly asked him about this extra wrapper, he replied calmly that he had just wanted to try it on to see how it fits. I thought ok I will believe this one and let it go. Within two days relationship did 180. He didnt want to sleep with me, have sex, barely talking to me. I asked, and I asked, and I asked if something was wrong that we should talk about anything that was bothering him. He kept making excuses his blood pressure medicine was bothering him, he was exhausted, or he had a lot of studying to do. This was really frustrating for me because he would not communicate AT ALL. My intuition, and his actions told me that everything was off kilter, I wanted an answer so bad. So two weeks of these excuses no talking, with him dropping little hints about his lab partner in school. (trust me they were barely noticable hints but enough for me to keep notes on b/c of the condom thing)
I came home one evening, and his car was not there, (very strange he is always on time) I called him up and asked him "whats up?" he replied he was volunteering at a rest home. I immediately replied are you with your Lab Partner?, he said "Yes" I said well have fun, and hung up. I immediately called him back and asked if he was on a date? He said well no, um, I dont know. (cautious capricorn here-knows what the outcome will be with a direct answer) I told him he needed to come home and pick up all his stuff and get the f*** out. I left the house for hours. I came home and he was sitting in the dark on the couch holding a beer. I asked him if this was true if he had an attraction to this lab partner? He said yes but he wasnt sure. (cautious again-he knew what he had to lose) I told him he had made his decision by going out with her tonight. I got really really pissed and I started throwing his stuff out of the closet, down the stairs, and finally out the balcony. I felt so much disgust,hurt, and disrespect.
He told me he had no where to go..I told him I knew he had plenty of money saved that he should go get a hotel somewhere, or go stay at his new girlfirends house!! He told me that it wasnt like that that he wasnt dating the girl. I told him I felt that whether or not he felt like he had done anything wrong, I felt cheated on because he went out with this woman with intentions of starting something. He disagreed. Either way he is out of my house.He didnt come back for two days until I was leaving on business once again. He said he needed to pick up his dog (which I had arranged for the dog to stay with family 40 miles away) the BF wanted the family members number, and I refused to give it at the family member's request, and told him I would have my family bring the dog back to now MY house so he could pick the dog up. He insinuated that I had dogknapped his precious little dog (which I know he loves, but that I also love too!)I very much wanted him to have his dog. He knows me better than this.
I called him the very next day to let him know my family was dropping off the dog, and find that he has changed his number. Ok I find this entirely cowardly, so here is capricorn cutting you off physically, and now entirely. LOL
cautious cappy, I have some anger towards him because of the situation he has left me in (home,bills) which is the reason for my blog. I dont feel that is an evolved way to move along after you have hurt someone, I feel my anger in kicking him out was justified, strangley enough I think he felt it was also. He also told me he was planning on moving back in, before I had told him he was my worst enemy, and that I hated him. I told him he was living a fantasy that he would not be moving back in, enemy or friend.
Moreover, I dont look at Capricorns as people that are climbing mountains, social climbers yes,sociopaths DEFINITELY! Ultimately I look at this capricorn as emotional coward who gets his big long depression in the end. This is my second Capricorn, I can tell you when they cut people off this way, decide to end it and move on they put a lot of thought into this (years,and years )re-grets,re-strictions,re-sentments-all the "re's." Whatever it is they choose to not face (because they are weak goats) carries over into their long term depression, they carry the weight of the world, and I finally feel free from it. Do you think he will come back? I dont think so, I have shamed him publicly, he is probably hiding somewhere. I would LOVE for him to call me, and have a sensible rational conversation about our feelings,our friendship, our responsibilities, more or less so that we can both have closure otherwise I will stay angry,and he will carry this into his random dark black depression. For now though I am disappointed that he took a shortcut to cutting off from me.
So, I'm the caricorn girl and I have to say doesn't matter how much we love someone, once we're done we are done. I was in relationship with this guys (scorpio) for 3 years. We had the perfect relation, i'm still in love with him very much. But I knew he is not the best choice for me since he didn't go college and didn't have enough education, i broke up with him..sad.. i know..but we make decison with our brain not our heart..but still in love with him :(
I am sorry capricorn girl,but how shallow. That is Capricorn curse, you know. You attract people that dont have true love for you, but like you very much, and want something from you like a paycheck. You know this all along then your depression finally gets the best of you because you are sensitive to how others take from you/use you. I say get back with that man you LOVE. Good grief how judgemental, you only live once, and true love/devotion comes from within your soul, you are going to deny that because someone doesnt have a college degree? There is no law of the universe that says you are a Capricron and you are done! That is your ego..let that go, and you might find true happiness.
P.S. I am a scorpio.
Also another p.p.s. sweet cap girl.
If your dealings with the person you are in love with work out like a business partnership and love is the benefit why the hell are you so concerned with the person's educational status? I know many people who have college degrees who work such low paying jobs they can barely pay their student loans.
Its a piece of paper, and they still cannot get anywhere in life. Ambition, goals, and passion is what gets those who do and do not have degrees the places where they want to go. I find "the way" a little devolved and dated. Just my opinion, I am sure you are a great person, but seriously be objective about this.
I agree. That attitude is extremely shallow.
My boyfriend has 2 Master's Degrees - Internet Technology and Business Management. BUT he can't get a job because of his age (50).
So you know what he's doing? He's a fork-lift operator.
I'm a Cancer, btw, who loves security...but I love 'him' more.
Caps are opportunistic men who get with a women only if she has some sort of material status and can make them look better. They are big liars and cheaters. The worst lie they can tell is the one believed. And my opinion is you can't get rid of them they ALWAYS come back!!! Especially if they think you don't want them, you can't wait for them or pursue them jsut pursue your own path and I assure you they will follow.
Caps are opportunistic men who get with a women only if she has some sort of material status and can make them look better. They are big liars and cheaters. The worst lie they can tell is the one believed. And my opinion is you can't get rid of them they ALWAYS come back!!! Especially if they think you don't want them, you can't wait for them or pursue them jsut pursue your own path and I assure you they will follow.
Caps are opportunistic men who get with a women only if she has some sort of material status and can make them look better. They are big liars and cheaters. The worst lie they can tell is the one believed. And my opinion is you can't get rid of them they ALWAYS come back!!! Especially if they think you don't want them, you can't wait for them or pursue them jsut pursue your own path and I assure you they will follow.
@anonymous 8:18- So I take it you are not waiting for your cap man to come back??
LOL this is 8:18 am In response...No not waiting for Cap to come back waiting for a truck to hit him!!!
Now dont get me wrong Cap women WORK for their money, the men however mooooch from women, and most either still live home or are 47 and still renting, they are only ambitious when it comes to preying on women with cash or when it comes to packing their bags to move in her place. The are private men because they don't want you to know that they only have 5 dollars in the bank, but they will have on $70.00 swim trunks hangin on a $10 dollar beach. They want to go to Aruba but Belmar will do... Best men in the zodiac are Aries, they give with no motive and they are nuturing supportive men!
Are you KIDDING me? My dad (an Aries) is one of the MOST selfish/self-centered people I know. I also have an Aries sister-in-law who I can't STAND!!! lol!
I know there is more to a person than a sun sign (rising and moon, etc.) but 'these' 2 people have soured me on the sign.
As a Cancer girl-am going through this right now and it's horrid.was seeing a cappy and it was progressing very nicely but beign guarded i kept the defences up (sit is complicated-hes moving to another country shortly & im afraid of gettign attached as it is without that complication)-but still going good until the moment he started emotionally feeling things...and had no clue what on earth i was feeling (i kept it all hidden like a true crab scared of vulnerability)...anyway he said i made him feel like rubbish and was the only girl to ever make him feel not good enough-(he was clearly used to girls chasing and making feelings be known & im hard to get) and then he laid all his cards on the table...and i didnt quite respond as i should (being scared)...needless to say he snapped at me endlessly over the reminign few days together, then blanked my calls till i forcefull got him to spk to me over the phone where he denied beign upset at all by me.he got really defensive...eventually hung up.and now we're just not talking.sent him a long letter telling him my feelings and trying to communicate what i think/feel and why & asking him to talk when hes ready the following day after that convo but nothing other than a simple message sayign thanks for the email and that was that.now have no clue what to do-have resorted to doing nothing in fact-it appears hes cut me off without even explainign why-not even apologising for beign rude to me after the 'emotional conversation'now im angry and upset and he clearly doesnt care at all. what you think?
I was with my Cappy (I'm also Cancer) for 2 years. I knew it was for a limited time because he wanted to rejoin his religion, while I was happy with my spiritual (but non-religious) life.
The reason I let go was because he was VERY moody and always put it on me. In other words, when he was mad (not necessarily AT me), he took it out ON me.
Sounds (kinda) like what this guy is doing. You're not ready to fall at his feet and it's (in his mind) your fault. He also might be bummed that he's moving, and, instead of 'talking' it out, he's 'taking' it out on you.
Just my .02 cents
thanks for that.Taking it out on me is an understatement...any opportunity to cut me down he did, after he put his cards on the table that is (and didnt get the answer he wanted).he always mentioned he hated the fact that i had emotional control over him & hated feeling like he wasnt in control & can't read me etc etc i didnt open up the way i wanted to and should have and then when i did he didnt want to know.the convo we had that evening he pretty much asked me to coem away with him and i wanted to talk it out-but the cancer in me stopped myself -too sacred of the risk but wanted to take it.just didnt communicate it that way.after that he emotionally and physically shut me out and spent the rest of the days snappign, havign a go, everytime i said anything he took offence and cut me down, even innocent and sweet gestures were misread by him as me putting him down and making him feel worthless.im so confused now because after i spent ages sending him a lertter bout how i feel and everything else-ghe just didnt bother.its actually like he hates me.i am not exxagerating when i say he spent the entire time givign em that impression-he cldnt ne near m,e-pushed me away endlessly (we were stuck together for 3 days after that so you can imagine it was awful!)...adn finally when we were away from each other physically/in distance-he completely cut me off.i spent 1 week feeling rubbish for hurting him and trying to talk to him.when i eventually did he was cold abrasive and told me i never hurt him.its been 4 weeks and well nothing. The problem with me is-i just need to understand and have pproper closure so i can move on.and i like to talk things otu properly-both sides and then leave it or make a go of it.he on the other hand refuses to talk/take rtesponsibility/hear me out...i just dont get it.its liek he doesnt care at all.
i made mistakes-didnt open up when i shld-my cold exterior and playful banter obviously agve him mixed signals that messed him up...he misunderstood all my mixed signals for a sign of nto carign and thinking he wasnt good enough.or well eh thought i thought that when the oppsoite was true.all i was was just too guarded-scared of gettign hurt because i did liek him a lot.fine, i messed up there....but the rest?need some insight.is this what cappys are like when they feel out of control/too vulnerable?im so fed up now but upset and confused too.
Like I said before Capricorns always come back, thats why there is never a grand exit...they need to leave the door open to come back even if it's a year later. They shut down and ignore because they think they are punishing the one they were with. Reaching out to them is a waste of time, because when they want someone nothing stops them, they will stalk until they are ready to pounce. They leave to see if anything else out there is lucrative for them or to see if there is better. As far as their emotional feelings no they can't handle it if they are so takin with you that they can't walk right. And if they are in law enforcement it's worse!
I got backtracked to this post...
To person who said the following (some no-name person)::
He probably warned you several times that you were heading in the wrong direction with him and you probably asked why are do you keep repeating the same thing over and over to me....well that was done so when he finally had enough of you not taking him serious and when he decided that he had enough, that he could just go on and when you even thought about asking what went wrong, you would be able to remember the times he kept warning you! I hate to tell you this but he is done!
It didn't go that way. We were perfect and for some idiotic course of events he had to leave me. I'm not into explaining details, but there were no warnings and there was certainly no lack of respect or commitment in that relationship.
i do hope cappies do coem back because right now for me-the indifferent- sound of silence is awful.ive personally not done anything for 2 weeks and have heard nothing.am starting to get very angry that he has ignroed my letter from 2 weeks ago-not said anything towards it-not really bothered to explain or accept ym apology...or even apologise for his behaviour.
the least id liek to know is where i stand...but maybe thats just it-mayeb the blankign and not replying to my 'pouring my heart out' letter & my text from 2 weeks ago is his way fo saying 'i dont want to talk to you-dont want to say anything to anything-get lost'
what a mess.
cant help that i care so much....i just dont like not understanding they whys and whats happening!
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