Why does Taurus take so long to commit?
Taurus takes a long time, period. This fixed earth sign prefers stability and security over anything ... except maybe chocolate cake. Taurus will want to make sure she is safe before saying "I do" to a relationship. She will never jump in -- she is not the spontaneous sort, unless she has Uranus in Scorpio opposite her Sun, or some other impulsive combination.Earth signs in general are cautious. Their physical environment is precious to them, and it can be unsettling to share one's space with a person who doesn't value possessions and placements to the same extent. Virgo may be finicky about having the papers on her desk shuffled around, but Taurus can be just plain rigid about you messing with her stuff. The security she feels in her environment is what grounds her emotionally. Whether you cut down a tree in her backyard or move around her Hello Kitty ornaments, you best be prepared for her Bull to come out.
You see, it comes down to trust. She needs to know deep down that her material world will still be predictable once she gives you the keys to her home. And on a deeper level, that her preferences won't be challenged on a daily basis. Taurus likes what she likes, and she's not going to change for you. It's OK if you like mint chocolate chip, but don't make her give up her Cherry Garcia.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 10/19/2007
3 Comments:
I have *moon* in Taurus and I need to be safe to truly commit.
But really? I find a Taurus man to be rather good about committing.Not all of the Tauri I knew loved me forever--or even at all, LOL.But they usually wanted just what I did.
So, he committed to love, friendship or an affair accordingly.
As a Taurus, I must agree I have an appetite, and now really understand why my ex took me to various restaurants.......to woo me. Besides feeling "safe" before I enter into a deeper intimate relationship, I have to take in consideration of how my actions/decisions will affect my children now. I know that I have frustrated several suitors over the years with my reluctance to move quickly in a romance, but I have to be sure. I do believe in taking chances, but I have seen so many crazy situations dealing with relationships of family and friends, that I believe if the person is right for me, they will have the patience and endurance to see things through. I have done so in past relationships even to my own detriment, but I feel that those were lessons that needed to learned.
The Taurus females I have met go after married men and dont seem to care who they hurt when they want to be with someone. Tendency to have one night stands (unlike the other earth signs) and when the guy shows interest...(might just be another night)...pow...they don't let go. Emotionally needy and willing to use sex to get their way. They become possesive and take ownership after the first night. They erase all others out of their partners lives (which once the blinders are off I bet plenty of Taurus relationships fall apart due to that type of isolation). Seem to have a hard time relating to other women and really are a greedy sign. Jealous. Will play the part of out going, social girl just to get the guy to be sitting at home with her 6 months down the road in make believe domestic bliss. Willing to spend $$$ to keep her man.
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