What attracts a Leo man?
The Sun provides three vital services to ensure our survival on Earth: light, warmth and gravity. Gravity we take for granted, for we are always orbiting around our star, and would only notice the lack of gravity if the Earth flew out of its orbit and collided with another celestial body. We correlate warmth with the presence of the Sun, because the star's absence coincides with a reduction in temperature. Yet, light by far is the most obvious, because there is a bright shining disc in the sky when our surroundings are illuminated (electricity notwithstanding).You could say the same about Leo, the sign that is ruled by the Sun. There are different degrees to which a Leo man needs to be recognized. (Jara aka Blah Blah wrote a popular post here on the immature Leo man.) The least-developed Leo needs to be recognized, validated, even worshipped like a god. He is like a light bulb that depends on the "juice" of attention. When this energy source is deprived, he gets really bright, and then he blows. The wounded pride, the rageful lion ... you've probably witnessed the narcissistic rage of a Leo who demands to be the star of everyone's show. This variety is attracted to admirers and hangers-on.
The more mature Leo is confident. He does not rely on adoration to feel good about himself. His focus is more on helping other people feel special by being warm and generous of spirit. His dramatic delivery is meant to inspire you to access your creative fire, not to hog the spotlight like the immature Leo. He is playful and spontaneous, hoping to heat up the room to help everyone have a good time. This variety is attracted to people willing to receive and respond to his spirit of giving.
The highest expression of Leo is the most silent. He is the King. He knows that the world revolves around him, and he does not let it go to his head. Rather, he understands it is his divine mission to lead his people. If he does not embody the symbolic power of his role, the people in his kingdom will feel lost and adrift, for we all need to feel there is a benevolent power keeping us on the right track. This rare Leo needs a Queen.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 10/10/2007
5 Comments:
AARRRRGGHHH!!!
I apologize for the spastic emotion. I seem to be full of that lately.
Recently I posted about this fabulous, adorable Leo man that I'd been spending time with during my short lived seperation from my pisces friend.
Anyway, he came across as the King. He was so yummy!! When I got back together with my pisces, I admit that I absoulutely discarded him but I felt bad about it and I've been intending to make time for him.
However, he had this trait that truly irritated me. Whenever his friends were around he'd bully them. This always made me uncomfortable and I could literally feel his jealous vibes whenever someone else around us (especially his friends) caught my attention.
The worst part of all of this, I just found out that he is actually four years younger than he told me he was. I already felt that he was too young for me, with a four year age decrease, I'm lucky that the police haven't come to arrest me yet. What kind of Leo does that make him? hmmm...
I would say I attracted the mature leo, now. I would also say he is now on his way to the more mature leo.
I was not one to admire my leo. not at all.. Im not one to hand out frivolous compliments. If I mean it I will if not, it aint happenin'.
Leos! Gotta love em : )
I wish I could meet more Leos-seriously! They are just so easy to love and SO LOVING themselves, as long as they are not in a mood w/their head up their a**. But I find it rarely takes more than a loving smile and a compliment to pull them out of ANY funk. And maybe give them a little chance to perform for you. And maybe a little applause on your part. Easy! Then again, I'm a Sag w/Leo rising so takes one to know one! But really where else to find such radiance, playfulness and a rare trait in such an adventurous soul---LOYALTY? And also, most of them are pretty good looking...!
I work for a LEO man that's very much a kid at heart. He does have a way of making everyone around him feel better when our spirits are low. And when the shit hits the fan he leads with a kind of grace that I haven't seen in any other sign. There's a kind of quiet integrity about him that everyone picks up on. And all the men around him instinctively know he's the alpha male. He has the cutest butt I've ever seen in my entire life.
I'm a Leo woman who just met a Leo man a month ago, and we are already deeply in love! Our sense of drama, fun, generosity and affection plays off of one another very well...better than I expected. My Leo man is a mature Leo with a quiet leaning toward the King. I see some evidence of nervousness in him that I haven't been able to figure out. But it might stem from past relationships in which he wasn't appreciated, but rather was put down and even intentionally hurt and manipulated. It would be interesting to know what signs those women were. My Leo is very much shining like the sun now, though. I appreciated the article, because it will help me know how to support his positive qualities.
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