Sex with a Mars in Pisces person
Have you ever achieved transcendental bliss during lovemaking ... not just your everyday orgasm, but a moment when "you" cease to exist? Mars in Pisces seeks this experience. Placed in the most spiritual of signs, the planet of sexuality seeks to dissolve the barriers of self.The Downside
Mars the lover may be passive, for it is difficult to meet the needs of one's ego in such a watery sign. He may prefer to have sex under the influence of drugs or alcohol. His sense of boundaries -- where he ends and a lover begins -- can make for divine sex, but it can also lead to confusion -- as when he forgets that there are also two (or more) discrete bodies in the room.
The Upside
As Jara mentioned in Mars in Heat, this planet's idea of foreplay would be to dance seductively, put on sensual music, share his emotions. Mars in Pisces is an intuitive lover, and his empathic sense helps him to know exactly how to please you, because he knows what it's like to be in your stilettos.
Comment below: What do you know of Mars in Pisces ... in the bedroom?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 10/18/2007
7 Comments:
My sweetie of 12 years has Mars in Pisces -- it's on my Sun actually and connects with lots of other stuff in my chart. He's a wonderful lover. "Swimming with the endolphins" has been a sustained highlight of our relationship.
I love talking a guy into my stilettos..and other things. :)
I messed with a Mars in Pisces. He likes to drink, dance, and perform (though not necessarily do all three in the bedroom). He was verrrrrrry giving and thoughtful. It took him awhile to express that he liked me, but the Sun and Venus in Aries took care of that part. What I liked about him is that he never came across like he was out for sex.
I'm a Scorpio with Mars in Pisces. I just love sex, and do seek physical, emotional and spiritual transcendence in it. But the passive thing... I confess that, while I try to be a lively lover, my favorite position is missionary, in which I get to lie back and just respond and experience it all. I've always felt a little sheepish about that, like I'm not living up to the Scorpio mystique.
Hey Moni, now that's an intriguing topic:
Do Scorpios feel burdened by the "great lover" stereotype? Are all Scorpios good in bed? Maybe the fascination with Scorpios stems from this stereotype. Who doesn't want to be with a great lover? But what if the Scorpio is like Moni and doesn't feel like she or he is "living up to the mystique"?
Maybe it would be more accurate to say most (if not all) Scorpios are preoccupied (some say obsessed) with sex in some way (exploring, experiencing, avoiding, etc.), so that provides an opportunity for them to be experts at it more than the average zodiac sign. :)
I monogamously dated a Mars in Pisces Leo for two years.
Passive is not strong enough an adjective.
This guy was a marshmallow in bed. I had to do ALL THE WORK, ALL THE TIME.
Sensitive, sweet, spiritual, sure all those nice things.
Who needs it?
Give me a Mars in Scorpio or Leo to get the job done ;) Or at the very least, a Mars in Cancer so I can nurture his fetish and get some satisfaction.
Mars in Pisces is ok with certain Sun signs. As a fixed sign, Leo can be lazy (likes to be worshiped and gets stuck in a rut of reusing the same positions), so match that with Mars in Pisces and...yeah, Marshmallow city. Match Mars in Pisces with a Cardinal Sun sign and it's nice. :) Btw, the Leo thing is an educated guess on my part because I've never actually "been" with one - so my words come with a grain of salt on the side. If you were with the passive Leo for two years, something must've been working for you. ;)
I'm gonna add that it was the Pisces Mars' passivity outside of the bedroom that frustrated the hell out of me. He had the patience of Job when I can be very impatient, and we didn't balance each other out at all in that way. For example, I took him to the airport to leave for an international flight (long wait times). After waiting almost an hour to get to the front of the baggage check line, this huge family with 10+ bags just cuts right in front of us, which pissed me off. Mr. Mars in Pisces was all "It's alright" about it while I'm looking at him in shock. I reminded the parents that the line didn't start in front of us. It literally took me about 10 seconds to get them to the back of the line, but he would've rather waited another 20 minutes behind them than to confront them. Ugh. That kind of "patience" is not sexy to me.
My boyfriend has Mars in Pisces(his sun sign also),and the sex is wonderful,he is the most giving and creative lover I ever had,but he's not passive,more open to suggestion,very intent on my pleasure,always gets me off,certainly the best at eating me out,and theres always lots of foreplay.He's wonderful and the most kinky bf I ever had.Also out of the bedroom he's a great bf,and is extremely nice.btw I'm a Virgo.
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