How to satisfy a male Scorpio in bed
Sex advice columnist Dan Savage has coined the abbreviation GGG: "good in bed, giving equal time and equal pleasure, and game for anything -- within reason." The Scorpio man is drawn to taboos and the underworld of sexuality, so a few kinks are to be expected. Bondage, domination, sadomasochism ... power and pain are old friends to the Scorpion. This is not to say that all Scorpios like to dole out punishment: The sign is truly about the depths of intimacy, which means exploring every nook and cranny of your English muffin. No! I mean that he will want to connect intensely with you -- staring into each other's eyes (even during orgasm), or achieving tantric bliss through controlled sexual techniques.If you want to satisfy him, you have to overcome your fear -- fear of closeness, fear of exploring the boundaries of pain and pleasure. By all means don't do anything that feels violating (unless, of course, you're into that sort of thing.) But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them.
And if all else fails, stick your finger up his patootie.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 10/09/2007
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ROFLMAO!!!! "Patootie" oh Jeffrey, you are so funny!!! =tears running down cheeks= Great Mercury in Scorpio post!!
I have LOTS of Scorpio and have drawn lovers looking for a bit of pain with their pleasure . . . it's very disturbing to my Libra side to want to deliver said pain. :-)
Never been with a male Scorpio, now I'm curious. . .sounds like a blast!
My two longest-term relationships were with Scorpios, and both left wounds that likely will never heal. They were more into emotional pain and domination than the phsyical variety, although the second had a bad habit of, as a friend once called it, "entering the back door without being invited." He said it was just a case of bad aim in a moment of blind passion, but I think it was a Freudian slip.
ROFL! Oh lardy Jeffrey.. that was funny. patootie! LOL
Well, I dont think that is exclusive to the scorpio male. I think the females are similar.
I do believe that scorpios in general are very curious about all types of sex. What they can do, what they will allow others to do.. etc..
I didn't ever find Scorpio men particularly and especially deep.
But,definitely it *is* rare to find a Scorpio who does not have depth.
Clearly they do love sex--both the men and women and they are emotional(Water sign)--but only in their own way.
There's a rigidity imo(Fixed sign), and they can be very higly principled--just as they can also be the grey lizard under the rock--depending on how evolved and developed he or she is(or isn't!).
Scorpios usually want committment and often mate for life--or at least as long as the other person will hang in there with the Scorpio.
Usually I find them very jealous, especially the women and gay men--but in my experience anyway--more insecure about being replaced or supplanted--.And hostile if it appears to be happening!
Fewer Scorpios are ambisexual than some signs --most are either completely heterosexual or gay.
Scorpios *are* intense and that can be marvelous-- for me, especially in conversation-- but sexually speaking--not special -at least for me.
But how to please them--same as anyone.
Divine his/her mood, and theirunderlying hopes and fears, and play it out in the bedroom.
Just had to comment on this one!I have a scorpio boyfriend.The friendship has gone from one extreme to the other.Confusing to say the least. Fantastic lover,sexual,loving attentive and now ... he has decided on no sex as he thinks too much of me, so I am now his "friend".Peck on the lips and a hug and cuddle in bed.If anyone can explain this scorpio I would be much obliged.
Suze....ok, I am going to tackle that question, at least try to.
Does he have and Pisces in his chart or Sagittaruis?
I have heard that Pisces sometimes don't want to touch their lovers because they think they are too damn perfect and don't want to bring "dirty, natural sex" into their clearly divine, angelic realm.
Also, I have heard (and know it to be true because I am a Sag) that the Sagittarius breed sometimes thinks of their lover as a God, wanting to worship the ground they walk on.
Being a Sag/Pisces combo, I can say for certain that I am afraid to lay a finger on the man I love. I don't want anyone to mess with his perfection, or taint it with something less pure than the love I have for him. It's confusing, I know. But it isn't because I don't want him, but because I don't want to reduce him to a sex toy.
Scorpio, being a super-sex fanatic, probably craves you so much that he doesn't want to cross that line and then see you as a "toy" or, as many Scorpio's are sex-addicts, his "drug".
You need to find a way to get him thinking sex is divine for you and him. It's special, and that all the dirty, animalistic, crazy impulses are just a path through which to explore the soul of the other.
If that doesn't work....maybe ask him where a Goddess can have her spritual sex needs fulfilled. Why, he wouldn't want you going somewhere else, now would he? If it must be done, I am sure he would prefer to make sure it is done right...so let him know it must be done. (Just be careful with this tactic. If he thinks you are trying to make him jealous, there could be serious consequences. Ask the woman who's tried it with him, if she is above ground still)
What about the female scorpio?????? Would like to see Jeffrey's comments on that one. Sharon
Are you a female Scorpio, Sharon?
@suze, Scorpios go from one extreme to another. They can be prone to black and white thinking, having difficulty finding a middle ground. Moderation is not their middle name!
Re: What Jeff said about Scorpios going form one extreme to the other--yes.Absolutely.
They're not all sex addicts, but those who are, have a tough time changing, that's for sure.
And yeah--when they try to recover they will go from one extreme to another--count on it.
Suze,ask the Scorpio that won't continue having sex if he is taking the 12 steps out of the bedroom. :-)
If not, explain to him that you are a real woman not a madaonna or a putana. ;-)
Proserpine
WARNING: This is going to be a LOOOONG post, I'm a dramatic, story-telling Leo, LOL! so...
Anyway, as I said I am a leo lady, more specifically... Pisces Rising/Leo Sun/Gemini Moon... Mars and Venus in Virgo in an on again off again (FOR MORE THAN 8 YEARS!) HOT, PASSIONATE, CRAZY, SCARY, FABULOUS, TERRIBLE, etc. etc. ??relationship?? with a Scorpio Man... Sag Rising/Scorp Sun/Gemini Moon, Mars in Leo, Venus in Libra. Now, back to relative to this post... GOODNESS, the sex with a scorpio man (at least in my opinion with this man) is so completely MIND-BLOWING. I've found that warming him up is absolutely no problem what-so-ever... in fact, he's usually ready to roll on a moments notice. I'm 31 he's 29 and I can't think of a more passionate and intense encounter for myself. He's definitely NOT Mr. Freaky with me, but maybe that's cause being the Leo I am, it takes quite a bit of "freakiness" to shock me. He's actually very, VERY sensual, and I would have to say not quite as "dominant" as one would suspect. I'm certainly the more "dominant" lover. One thing I should mention... There isn't alot of "foreplay"... that seems to come after-the-deed... the sweet kisses, caressing, holding each other, rubs, etc. It's usually down to business and post-play follows. IT IS INCREDIBLE!!! Ladies, try out a scorpio man and I PROMISE you will not be able to settle for ANYTHING less. DEFINITELY he's a delicious mystery and I can NOT imagine my life without him.
Regarding other posts... As for our ??relationship??... It's either romantic perfection or MADDENING HELL depending upon his mood and my temper. That's right, my temper. The fights are INSANITY between us, but so is the passion and attraction, so go figure. Now, about this on and off thing... we met in college. I was a bartender and Mr. Scorpio would come into where I work and STARE ME DOWN. Being the not-so-self-conscious Leo Lady that I am, I approached him one night and said, "Hey what's your name and where are you from?". His response, "I'm XXXXX, and I already know your name, so where are you from?". I laughed, told him to kiss my a**, and 10 minutes later we were at my place making out on the sofa (no, NO, NO... we did not have "sexual relations" that night!) but of course the rest is history. And after 8-9 years of coming and going, I still don't have a CLUE as to how this man feels about me. In fact, I'm completely in love (yes, LOVE, you'll know it because in my 31 years and 3 serious long-term relationships) I've never experience the deep feelings I have for this man. I just hope one day he will let me know one way or the other because I'm at a breaking point (and the time clock it ticking!)....
PS: I've been a part of this "reading" community for about a year, and I LOVE IT! I love all the posts and comments, but I just never posted any comments prior to this one. I'm thinking that's gotta change because everyone on here is so insightful and HILARIOUS! Truly a wonderful community Jeffrey has built! =)
Signing off now... Love, LeoLady (AKA Princess of post blabbing)
You couldn't be more correct! I'm a scorpio and I dated a scorpio male for a long time. It's never boring, I can tell you that.
I am the "Anon Leo lady above"... 2 things I forgot to mention:
1. When I say he is not "dominant"... I'm talking specifically in the bedroom. In all other relations, ABSOLUTELY He's totally dominant and it totally turns me ON!
2. Also, you're going to LOVE sex with a Scorp Male... I'd be willing to put my hard earned dollars on it. HOWEVER, do not PISS HIM OFF... of else this will seriously be used against you... as in, you "WON'T ME GET ANY TIL HE'S OVER IT". Take it from someone who knows.... and it works, you WILL be pining and whining for it. =)
Why yes Jeffrey I am a female Scorpio. Would you like some help posting the topic about Scorpio females. Now you have to be careful with me I am not only a Scorpio female but I have Venus Conjunct Pluto. giggle giggle Sharon
Sharon, I don't need help, I know female Scorpios too well. But you are welcome to blog about yourself for the writing project.
Yea I can tell you know scorps quite well and I don't even know you in person. You know our secrets yikes. What in the world is a patootie, is that his nose sounds like a sneezing problem. Maybe I need help from you Jeffrey. Are you related to Yanni, you look like him. Sharon
View the Urban Dictionary definition of patootie. I am not related to Yanni. He's Greek, I'm a mixture of Russian and Moroccan. Only you know if you need help.
Yeah, you know?Jeff you do look a bit like that Yanni, LOL
I agree with Jeff looking like Yanni - minus the facial hair. I love that Yanni song: Love is All. Makes me believe in love again. :)
Yanni's a Scorpio, btw.
@Jara, I may grow my hair as long as he has it in that youtube video, but you will never catch me wearing a mustache!
See Yanni's Scorpiolicious here.
"I have heard that Pisces sometimes don't want to touch their lovers because they think they are too damn perfect and don't want to bring "dirty, natural sex" into their clearly divine, angelic realm."
I can co-sign with this. I initiated a very spiritual/religious Pisces into the world of sex and after that he was always fighting his attraction. It didn't help that his spiritual guru was telling him sex was dirty outside of marriage. So guess what the Pisces did. That's right - propose. How romantic. He might as well have had his [/svengali] pick out the ring.
Jara--I just saw this that you posted about the Pisces who believed (or was led to believe) that sex outside of marriage was dirty!fancy that!Not wrong--*dirty*!
But that post was somehow your funniest in a queer way.I can't even tell why--just is.LOL
thats funny. im a scorpio...and im verrry scorpio, born on mischief nite and i will tell you that i have a fantasy of being biten on the neck during making out and bleeding! im not a nut its just a dark thing us scorps possess. hair pulling and slapping is great too.
I've been dating a wonderful scorpio man for a year and a half. I'm a cancer girl.
It is the most wonderful thing in the world.
He is a passionate, attentive lover.
My pleasure is always his focus, and he is skilled beyond what I am always able to handle.
we're a great couple. People tend to look at cancers and scorpios pretty one dimensionally. I am supposed to be a baby-hungry ring hunter who cries all the time, and he's supposed to be a heartless bastard who is a great f*ck.
He is so loving--I know he'd die for me in a second. I love it when he's possessive. I'm dominant and dynamic in my career life, but in the bedroom, my scorpio is in charge. I love it.
yes, he ties my wrists, spanks my ass, bites me so hard I scream, pulls my hair...and since he's very large and physically in shape he also likes to pick me up and toss me into position. He asks me questions that make me blush--which he adores. He would do it any time, and any place.
I please him mainly by letting him please me.
He likes it when I compliment his body and his sexual skill. I'm never lying either.
I let him get a little rough with me, and I reciprocate because he loves it. This weekend I clawed his back so hard it drew blood. Embarassing, I know, but I couldn't help it. he turns me into a wild woman I never thought I'd show anyone. He lets me be myself, in every way.
I love him!
when did he know it was love?
we were discussing our sexual likes and dislikes.
scorpio: would you be into furry handcuffs?
me: furry ones? why not real ones?
scorpio: furry so they won't hurt your wrists
me: what's the point of that? No, I'd want real ones.
scorpio: (sly smile) we are so perfect for eachother--I love you so much!
Wait,Anonymous Cancer girl, as much as the furry handcuffs sound great --*that* is love?
Scorpio's passionate, whatever, I've been w/ one for 4 yrs, we've had sex hundreds of times and I can count on one hand the # of times he's looked into my eyes. He's never explored my body, never performed oral sex (not even close), does not know how to give of himself during sex, I've never felt like what we were doing was making love but says he loves me on very rare occasion, expects to be satisified, he's even refused to have intercourse w/ me because he wanted to get oral sex, but w/out intercourse I get absolutely no satisfaction what so ever, he lays there like a dead person taking taking taking but never giving in return. Of course this could all be because he's a poor little victim of love lost over 20 fricken yrs ago (some people take longer to get over things than others I guess) alcoholic, pot head who's mother is IN LOVE w/ him.
Leo bartender w/ Scorpio man I am in need of advice. Leo woman here as well w/ Scorpio man, met while I was bartending, we are going thru hell. Not a member of sight, unsure how to connect w/ you but would be greatly appreciated if we could find a way.
@Sick and Tired, what keeps you with your Scorpio if he's so ungiving?
yeah thats a real good question
maybe he's got her under his wicked scorpio spell
stinger so deep it don't let go
or maybe she's a pisces martyr they gluttons for punishment
I don't know much about astrology, but I am trying to understand what is happening between me a Gemini (5-25) woman and a Scorpio (11-7) man. 4 months ago I left a 20 year boring marriage and was not interested in finding romance yet. 3 weeks ago I see him across the room and sparks fly. We can't keep our hands off one another, but have only fooled around once. He was intrigued and surprised at my sexual forwardness. I am spending the weekend with him. He is very deep and mysterious. I on the other hand wear my heart on my sleeve. He keeps saying that I have no idea how much he cares and respects me. The sexual tension and deep emotions scare the heck out of me. What should I expect this weekend and should I worry about keeping him. I have never fell so fast for someone.
Sounds like you're on to a very good thing. A very good thing, with a very good man.
Just don't lie to him. Don't flirt around, and learn when to shut up and occupy yourself with other things.
And whatever you do, don't try to change him in any way, shape or form. Scorpio is fixed; you are mutable (changeable). In this relationship it is you who will have to do the compromising if any.
Unless by miracle or miracles you are entirely compatible and no one has to change at all.
Wouldn't that be nice?
i'm in a relationship with a scorpio man and it was a roller coaster ride.but i learned a lot about him as time goes by.he's possessive and a dynamite in bed.just a match for a leo like me.we both argue a lot but sex is a blast everytime we patch things up. now reading all these scorpio stuff almost convince me to believe that every thing that is said here is true lol!
and not to mention as long as a woman that if we played our cards right in bed.he's all over you.not to mention as long as u know when to please and tease him.expect all the praises he gives u after sex. and im talking from experience.i noticed i get to turn him on after an argument.is this me or this is a nature of a scorpio man? *smiles*
That's actually bull s#@$. I've been dating a Scorpio male for at least 3 years and this man is not only "straight missionary" he has NO clue as to what to do for me in be. I guess that's one of the reasons why we recently parted ways. Don't believe the hype ladies. I'm not even talking about extremes in bed, he can't even handle my extreme sensuality and doesn't know what to do with that either. Reciprocity does not come it to play for this man. He's strictly meat and potatoes. No appitizers...no desserts. I fought with as long as I could...I simply could not take it any more..being the self indulgent, sensual Taurus woman that I am and had to move on.
To: "That's actually bull s#@$." Venting is one thing, and I don't dispute its benefits, especially if one's words are colored by pain and disillusion. But to invalidate another's experience simply because it doesn't match your own seems short-sighted, if not impolite.
At the same time, it's unfortunate not to have available the views of your former meat & potatoes Scorpio. It could be, for example, that he felt an emotional and spiritual emptiness in your lovemaking, and this left him feeling unrecognized, unappreciated, or seen only in the flat, one-dimensional lens of sensuality without soulful bonding. How are we to know?
I don't feel there's anything wrong with being self-indulgent or sensual. But, in a true intimate relationship, Scorpio often seeks connection at a far deeper level, one that may have little to do with sensuality, as such.
It's natural, I suppose, for us to first point an accusatory finger at the Other when love crashes against the breakers.
At a very painful time in my life, my oldest brother held me and said, "there's always enough blame to go around."
I often fail, but I try to keep those words in mind. Be well.
It really surprises m e that Scorpios have such a reputation for being good in bed. I have had three scorpio lovers and the sex was kind of bad. Each one of them thought of themselves as very sexy but the fact is that they were really not that great in bed at all.
I'm a Libra seeing a Scorpion man. We've known each oher for over 10 years....time has past until we ran unti each other again and the attraction between us is so intense. For the most part we chat here and there via phone or text.He claims he really likes me a lot but how am I certain that he really does besides the great sex we have? I had suspicion he was involved with someone and of I was right. When approach he later explain the details....Scorpion are not who you think they are. You will only know what they want you to know. BOTTOM LINE!!
jeff, you are ABSOLUTELY on point w/the patootie comment!
i'm a female scorp myself, and the sex is NEVER boring w/my scorp man!
the first time we did the patootie thing, i was SHOCKED! but now, it's almost a norm!
i'm not as "deep" as the rest of the posters on here, so i don't know that much about our signs, but to "mirror of aphrodite"...GO FOR IT!!! you SURELY won't be disappointed!!!
"Scorpion are not who you think they are. You will only know what they want you to know. BOTTOM LINE!!"
Whoever wrote that knows what they are talking about. I'm not who I think I am half the time, and I'm a Scorp. Sometimes I scare myself.
I only tell people what I want them to know, but usually that is too much ;)
Okay, I'm a scorpio sagittarius, i don't understand the pain thing for me personally although, oddly i hate to admit this I do have a fascination with emotional pain, not giving or receiving it, but emotional tension in general...uh I think I would go more in the category of people who are scared to touch the person they like because they almost idolize them...i would totally agree with that...if I were not religious and totally opposed that, I probably would have idolized my 3 crushes...not that they gave me any specific reason to (or to not) but just because that is how intensely I FEEL ...i never understand this sex crazed scorpio stereotype as I myself never have felt that way, i always look around to spot these folks, I have seen some who I can tell clearly THNK they are, but not really...and yet I can tell you we DO think about the person we like all day every day, and we do crave them, but it is something that for me went beyond physical attraction, the first two people I liked I was not at all physically attracted to them (although they were considered good looking and physically attractive)...the third I was physically attracted to (he was a Sagittarius) but we both were physically attracted to each other from AFAR, as soon as we were within 3 feet of one another we'd get a look on our faces like we needed to flee in the other direction, so for him i was attracted but I was much more fearful of that attraction....uh for male scorpios I have noticed they seem to view sex at times as a hostile attack they can inflict upon others sort of a like "invading territory thing", not necessarily a gift, but like a punishment, I never really can understand this, maybe because I'm a female and that's why, but I don't think that if I were to be involved with someone I'd see it as a hostile attempt of me trying to one up them in some way, even if I were a man, I always am a little confused and scratching my head looking around, wondering isn't that something people should be looking forward to...but yes in my case I fear it very much, and do not see myself at all as some irresistible force of nature to be reckoned with sexually, in fact I see myself as the total opposite, almost asexual, and I find this stereotype to be so off i find it humorous when I sense someone is possibly thinking it after knowing my birthday, emotionally is a totally DIFFERENT matter, I am totally protective, possessive, absolutely dictatorial, suspicious, watchful, committed, defensive, almost I would say uncomfortably reverent of anyone I love (whether they deserve it or not is a totally different matter, although that all disappears if I sense any form of betrayal from ANY relationship), particularly any men I have had crushes on, basically this is a hard and fast thing I noticed about myself, the more I love someone/am attracted to someone, the more fearful (and yet absolutely fascinated) of this attraction I am, and this rule applies even for my immediate family, the deeper my love for ANYONE, the less I can make a display out of it and expressing it is out of a question, that way I feel like what people say about men, I can never ever say I love you to someone I ACTUALLY love...but a casual acquaintance who means nothing to me I can be very kind, charming, fun, open with (or appear to be at least)...it's very hard to explain, because I'm still young, this is from what I've experienced so far
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I must agree with december, I have my sun, moon, mercury, & uranus in scorpio and on this it depends on the connection that a scorpio feels with someone, if there is minor physical and spiritual connection, or you have done something to piss us off we harbor resentments on stuff like that and you'll definitely see it in the bedroom. But if the passion was never there in bed must be because we are missing a connection. My sexual experiences have varied throughout the years, with some I haven't felt that connection therefore, the lovemakign wasn't that intense at all and didn't really care for satisfying them; however, on others I have been unleashed to the point of obsessing over their bodies and wanting to satisfy them on every level 4-6x/day. Scorpios are definitely sexual and very passionate. We luv a little bit of pain if not alot, and yes the whole patootie thing doesn't hurt either :) LOL
I like what December said up there. And hey, what's wrong with meat and potatoes? People don't serve them enough.
All these fancy shmancy designer salads with curly red onions and artichokes and parsnippety doodads and who knows what else there's so much garnish there's nothing to EAT.
@ Victoria & December sorry, O Wow! I meant to say that i disagreed with Sick & tireds comments about Scorpio's not being very passionate in bed...my apologies... We are truly sexual just need the right connection :o)
OMG that is soo true so. so true. and yes morror of aphrodite it is a blast dont ask how i kno*shifty eyes* uhh yea and they are long termish
Interesting.
Hey sick and Tired was his ex a virgo? I can tell you that Scorpio's if they really aren't that interested they don't want to perform.
Well first, if he dominate you, you dominate him, and its just, you need to be a dirty slut for him, that want every little touches, from toe to head, you need to resist if he is licking your ear off, or tickleing your breasts... he is very maniplative in sex, and willing to give you a mind blowing session, you would scream it out loud...
"But be willing to turn lovemaking into an attempt to excavate your hidden turn-ons and wounds, eroticizing power dynamics and family traumas to gain a sense of mastery over them."
Family Traumas? What?
@Anon re: "family traumas" -- from a psychological perspective, many people attempt to "work out" their family traumas by eroticizing abuse of power. Read Jack Morin's 'The Erotic Mind.'
@ Anon - what would his ex being a virgo have to do with anything? I'm curious...
@Anon If his exgirlfriend was a virgo, she probably let him play his head games, but a virgo will play them right back once she gets the feel of what he is trying to do. I can also tell you that scorpio's are attracted to virgo's because they act aloof and pretend to ignore them. Scorpio men hate to be ignored it makes them try even more. Once they get the attention they want, they never want to give it up because the virgo made them work really hard to get it. Once they do get the attention if the virgo flirts with someone else in front of the scorp, look out because he will get pissed. Scorpio's are very controlling and when they work that hard to get attention they don't want someone else coming in and getting in on their ride if you know what I mean. Scorpio men and virgo women have really intense sex which is another reason the scorp doesn't want anyone trying to come into their territory. It's all games and they know how to play them with each other. The virgo analyzes the games and twists the scorp to her favor although I will add that when the scorp figures out what the virgo has done he does come up with a new plan of action which keeps the relationship exciting.
Hold On...Virgo woman here jus got past the acting aloof part....finally gave in. Yeah, mind blowing, sensual, all the good stuff, etc! Any advice on how to play the Scorpio mind games...I think he wants me to beg for it now...don't want to, but I'm this close! How can I beat him at his own game?!?!?
Don't beg for it. Flirt with him, but flirt with other men in front of him it will kill him. One thing though Scorps are extremely jealous to the point where they will beat the heck out of someone if they think they moving in on their turf (so to speak). If you can't handle this kind of heat then don't play that game. If he won't give you any just tell him that it's all good, you can just as easily get it somewhere else. I guarantee he won't want that. Be very careful when playing their headgames because when you turn the tables on them they really get aggressive. If you can't do any of these that I have mentioned flirt with him, but when he tries to get your attention act aloof again this will drive him crazy.
just found this and i think is great!!! I'm a gemini woman, dating and aquarius and last week i had a thing (sex) with a scorpio. It's been only 5 days and i'm already obsessed with him!! I'm getting crazy wating for him to get in touch with me!!!
I have searched high and low for my scorpio man and found him two years ago after I came out of a longterm relationship with a Libra man. Being a scorpio woman myself, I found Librans very needy, insecure and manupiltive and minus that last trait, the rest are meant to be unique to scorpios.. It was no wonder we came to a hostile end eventually. Scorpio - Libra, don't bother..
I have now found my long lost scorpio love after a lengthy search and although this reltionship is said to be fueled with extremes and possibly never a lasting one, I cannot imagine being without my scorpio man.. There are days when we make each others blood boil and we both play the mind games and try to bring out each others insecurities. He would see a good looking woman on telly and talks so passionately ebout her that you'll alsmost be forgiven for thinking he's actaually made love to her, but I am a fast learner so I sometimes do the same.
When we work as a team, we make a bloody good one too. What scorpio men sometimes lack in my view is innovation. They get easily relaxed in relationships and if you are a none-mover and equally lacking in motivation, you could easily kill the flame that was once there and life will become a routine, minus the good sex, because he is possibly getting that from someone else..
As I expressed earlier, I am a fast learner and have come to learn that you can't always rely on a man to lead the way to an exciting relationship. I treated my scorpio to a nite's stay in a 5* hotel and instead of staying in and having sex untold times, I insisted we went out and I took him round all the trendy joints. The look on his face was a picture.. He was so thrilled, it was like taking a child to a candy store and telling him he could have whatever he wished for.
We had a spectacular time and he was attentive, loving and you could see the pride in his face as we walked from one wine bar to the next. We sealed the night with sex like I've never known it.
It was a delightful night and he can't stop talking about it.
I did maintain my composure the next day, refrained from calling him and it worked like magic.. We must have spoken about 4 times that day, each conversation lasting more than an hour.
It seems like we've fallen in love all over again and sex has gone from 70mph to 120mph and it's great!!
I know he's racking his brains about how to get even with me and this makes me feel excited.
Final thoughts are- Don't allow the scorp to settle into a home body. They do like to be led and they like a good time especially when it's done with passion, comes as a suprise and packed with exciting things they've never tried before - this does not include bungie-jumping. Take them to a lapdancing joint, classy hotel, trendy bars, candle-lit dinners or for a massage, spa and hydrotherapy or something similar and they will be jelly in your arms.
TAKE IT FROM A SCORPIO GIRL!!
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