Why do some Aquarius women cheat?
An Aquarius wants the unfettered right to do what she pleases. Government and religious institutions only serve to squash her freedoms, and they must be overthrown! Down with the morality police!Face it -- rules are made to be broken, and who better to flout the laws of God than an Aquarius? If she wants to lay down with her neighbor's wife, she'll do it! Independence means more than being able to move out of your parents' house and pay your rent. It's about expressing yourself in spite of society's rigid constraints.
As for the cuckold, well he ought to be liberated enough to be beyond antiquated notions of fidelity. Faithfulness is not about submitting only to your husband's sexual desires. It's about being true to your unique erotic impulses. To do otherwise is to court death, to be a caged bird yearning to explore the expanses of the heavens.
In a truly egalitarian society, we'd be able to sleep with whomever we want (consensually, of course). Is it any wonder that the dawning of the Age of Aquarius coincided with the Free Love movement? There are so many sexual opportunities in life! There's nothing wrong with shacking up with one person, but why does the "couple" label have to have so many shackles?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 9/27/2007
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As an Aquarius woman, I sort of stumbled upon this post with that "WELL I NEVER" kind of mindset which quickly tumbled down into "hey, wait, he's right."
With my moon in Scorpio, I find myself constantly at odds with myself. When I'm in a relationship, I commit myself wholly and completely--sorta kinda maybe. I've never sexually cheated on any lover and the very idea offends all of my delicate sensibilities, but I find myself getting emotionally invested in more than one person at a time. This usually happens when I start questioning my feelings for my current relationship (an inevitable side effect of me mistaking friendship for love; 99% of the time, my romances end in me figuring out that we just should've been friends in the first place). I'll start getting more and more involved in other friends I have. This usually doesn't end in anything more than flirting, but when a relationship ends, I've been known to segue rather quickly.
Moon and Rising in Aquarius. Sun in Cancer.. all i can say is... SO TRUE!
Ayla, I feel this way too @
"This usually happens when I start questioning my feelings for my current relationship (an inevitable side effect of me mistaking friendship for love; 99% of the time, my romances end in me figuring out that we just should've been friends in the first place). I'll start getting more and more involved in other friends I have. This usually doesn't end in anything more than flirting, but when a relationship ends, I've been known to segue rather quickly."
I tend to fall into relationships because of the friendship compatibility, but then I find I'm not really "in love" with the guy after we're in a relationship together. And my eye/mind starts to wonder over to the next best thing, but Scorpio Moon hates the idea of moving on.
I have Cancer Sun, so at least a part of me supports the Scorpio Moon's ability to commit. It must be hard having a Scorpio Moon with Aquarius Sun...
I can't believe i'm doing this but i'm actually gonna confess on something here... i have a boyfriend and we have been together for almost 3 years. He's a libra and i'm an aquarius of course. I met an aquarius male and we are having a love affair. It's very very wrong i know, and when i read this article i had a grin on my face. I thought i could never find someone who understands me so well that it seems like he's inside my head, and that's exactly what my "friend" does. This is the most compatible guy i've ever met, but unfortunately i can't leave my boyfriend for personal reasons. Omg am i crazy or what?
As a textbook case of Aquarius woman, I agree.
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As an Aquarius man, I can feel your pain, my water-bearing sisters. The solution here is obvious: date other Aquarius men.
Unless a person is worth getting really serious with, I feel Aquarius men understand that nobody should be chained to someone else arbitrarily just because they're having sex. I mean come on society, what are you thinking with that notion?
Well, I'm an Aquarian, and in my mind there are two types of Aquarin (ones who will cheat, and ones who would NEVER cheat) The ones who would never cheat are usually the ones who are the most loyal to the principal of not cheating. It's not that they don't want to, it's that their "moral principal' won't allow them to- because they are loyal to the principal. I used to be one of those Aquarians...until I realized that being loyal to your principal dosen't mean that you have to be miserably controlled forever. But EVERY Aquarian has this really unique gift to seperate the physical from the emotional- (and a lot of people don't understand this) but we can go have fling after fling and be totally casual about it- (even if we're with someone), but our feelings remain loyal to the other person. Sex is just sex, but love is love...there's a huge difference there. Anyone can have sex, but not just anyone can fall in love (or even care for that matter) so when we care, we care a lot, and we are loyal to the FEELING...and it's not like we're NOTORIOUS cheaters or anything, but if we're in a relationship and we're feeling unhappy for (well, it could be for any reason I guess) we have the ability to be casual. So let's not call it cheating I mean, afterall, we still love you...and it's very hard to earn the love of an Aquarian. But I'd say that more often than not, we're pretty faithful. MOST of the time, if an Aquarian is even thinking about cheating, they'll tell you straight up and just break it off with you right then and there. So I'd say don't worry about it TOO much, but keep an eye open if you must.
As an Aquarian woman I disagree with this only because there are aquarians who do not cheat at all physically especially because we are loyal and care too much about other peoples feelings,and if were truely in love we give our all to our mate...and can not imagine hurting that person if we are committed....now if we are single and not committed we can careless because we will keep it straight gully if we just want sex and dats it thats all you get.
Then comes good ol karma.Woever had sit by that secretive indecision period while staying faithfull hasto suffer the sorrow of thinking everything was going great.My ex was an aquarius and i thank you for finaly answering the qimportant questions that have been lurking in my mind.Aquarius age freedom of sex but yet karma always brings everybody back to the reality of what is constructive.
The signs were there her ex before played her and had many affairs and completely ruined her self confidence.Some of her other ex's were also players and made her lose her faith in men for awhile.
After it was over(infidelity on her part)i came down to the conclusion that it was just a vicious circle that the relationship part of her life had cycles and it was prettymuch related on the karma she set for herself by being the good old libetarian and experiencing sexual extassy with others
Examples :raped, bank account depleted,constant harrassement through emails and phone calls,a murder attempt by her ex husband once he found out that one of his son belonged to another.
Karma dont lie i\like astrology it is a devine tool or guidance into understanding what is light versus darkness.
Oups did i forget to mention herpes?/
Sorry for my gramatical errors i am Frenchhhhhhhhhh
and yes its true we are passionate
xxxxxx love ya anyways aquarius , great friends and business partners when we all work in the same direction.
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