Can two Scorpios be happy?
Can an excess of smoldering intensity lead to spontaneous combustion? When two secretive people meet, is there any hope of direct communication? These are the questions that arise in a Scorpio-Scorpio relationship.But before we answer the question, "Can two Scorpios be happy?," we must first ask if one Scorpio can be happy. Why, in fact, does our culture place such value on "happiness"? Fulfillment, rather, is what we ought to seek. From a Scorpionic point of view, how can anyone be happy in the face of death, torture, manipulation, abuse, garbage, Hell and discarded biological fluids? There's just too much crap in the world. Even if you swim the waste products of your own psyche, happiness is just too much to ask for.
So imagine throwing two clinical psychologists or private investigators together. How can they resist the temptation to search through each other's files, to probe into their partner's cavities in search of drugs or wiretaps? Will they, as a unit, dig their own graves and bury themselves, locked in a casket of black magic rituals and BDSM roleplaying?
The best we can hope for is that two adults will respect each other's need to have a private self, and will trust each other enough to expose their flaws without fear of blackmail. And, of course, that they'll have a killer sex life.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 9/06/2007
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I think that when two Scorpios have it good together, they do experience moments of sheer ecstasy
crowded round the pain.
They just are too intense and passionate not to feel everything deeply.
So sometimes, yes, two scorpios can be happy for a little while, anyways, imo. Just don't expect them to be content for long. Also, if you have a tormented past or soul, no one can make you feel more accepted than a Scorpio. I mean, really accepted bc he won't look at you through rose-colored glasses the way that a Piscean would.
I think two scorps can be as happy as any other couple.
It would definitely depend on the type of scorpio.
There are three levels of scorps: immature(the worst), growing and fulfilled(the best).
I agree with Eme Kah about there being nothing like a Scorpio's acceptance. They see (almost) everything and will ride with you until the wheels fall off. As long as you don't try to pull a fast one on them. :)
An even better question is "Can two Scorpio Moons be happy together?" The short answer: Hell to the No!
Why not, Jara? I'm curious, if you care to share.
I guess I'm biased here, because I've dated several people with Scorpio Moons. There's always an immediate connection, but there's something I don't trust about them. When they play their little mind games, I can see through it too easily. Although I understand WHY they're doing it, I just can't ever let my guard down around them, and vice versa. It's even worse when they claim they don't know why they do the things they do, which I interpret as them having no control over their emotional responses. A Scorpion Moon with no impulse control? Be afraid, be very afraid.
Imagine what you know of the sign Scorpio. This is the sign that will cut off its own nose to spite its face or sting itself to death rather than admit defeat. Now imagine this is how two people act when they get emotional. Not pretty.
How would two Venuses in Scorpio act together?? Would it be different from two Scorpio Suns or Moons together? Hmm...
THANK YOU! I have spent so much effort trying to explain this as my reply to the question why are you always so serious, or some variation of it:
"how can anyone be happy in the face of death, torture, manipulation, abuse, garbage, Hell and discarded biological fluids? There's just too much crap in the world. Even if you swim the waste products of your own psyche"
i had once started writing a post on scorps and piesceans on my sisters birthday (she is a fish) and somewhere it turned into a scorp and scorp post. it was way back when. if i could have found it i would have shared it with you as my take on scorps with scorps
Laney the scorpio said....
Well.. Its weird when I cook up with another scorpio.
We get along really well but we are both subborn, aggressive, Like power and refenge...So when we fight it can get pretty ugly.
Hello, i am a full blood scorpio, i was in a six year relationship,
first four years, love over board,
fifth year lies started, my mate was a cancer, i was powerful when needed however on the sixth year i came into full power when i got the proof cheating had started.
Year seven we made a pact with total honesty and cheat when you want, i really did not want to make this pact but to have honesty in the relationship i put it on the table, the answer was i love you and i will not cheat on you.
The cheating started because i did not want to have sex every night, my responce was i do not love you and i just cant,i was drained and wanted it over and the fall of the seventh year i walked the person i came to dislike out of my life.
I requirer honesty in a relationship, and that is why i have chosen to remain alone, we all long to have some one near at times and i am no differant, but, i made my choice, someone said to me once, when she left she took the best part of you with her, to this date i still can not understand what my friend meant.
can to scorpios live and have a happy relationship? i say yes but each has to allow the other to express power and above all, love and truth has to be the foundation.
Two Scorps together (Sun/Moon/whatever) can be the epitome of passive-aggressive guerilla warfare. Usually ending in a stalemate, unless the wiser acquiesces. Both would rather die than admit weakness and relinquish control.
It's a Romeo-Juliet kind of thing, very passionate.
I have loved two Moon in Scorpios (deeply) and it was mutual. But always the proverbial stalemate with both parties standing at arm's length to see who will leave the field open to move (or cave) in. No one moves, no one caves. Forever frozen in time. Framed works of art.
In both cases we hypnotized each other, observed each other with a mutual fascination. Similar to an exhibit at the Museum of Natural History, taking turns viewing the other from behind the glass.
Sex with these types may be phenomenal, beyond words-- but as such ill-fated. The man needs to be wanted, the woman wants to be needed. In essence both desire pursuit but neither wants to pursue.
This formula lacks the necessary ingredient for the loaf to rise, leaving us half-baked. I wait for him to need me, he waits for me to want him. A sordid standstill affair, since it wounds his pride to need her, and wounds hers to want him.
Would a Scorpio ever grovel for someone's affection? Hardly. We prefer to obsess, research and analyze the situation, then wait it out. And the clock keeps ticking.
I'm a scorp and I tend not to get along with my signmates. I've only had maybe 1 or 2 scorpio friends my whole life. However, scorpios tend to come in two varieties: (1) the low-level scorpion, a malicious coward who stabs you in the back when you lest expect it and (2) the self aware scorp who can rise above the destructive tendencies as a phoenix. My troubles are generally with scorps of the first variety. Also, some people are just dicks, regardless of their sign ;)
I'm a scorpian (Female)
My Scorpio mate and myself have been together for 17 years. I think our relationship worked because one of us is more dominant than the other. It really is a rewarding relationship, and does have its rough spots. But scorpio partners can be dynamite and thrilling. He is 6 foot 6 and tells people that I am the bouncer and he is the cooler lol. He means MY cooler, as I'm the one that tends to need the cooling off. I have control of the house and all it entails as well as the children, because I'm the one home more often than he is. He takes care of everything else. He is hilarious and always keeps me laughing, even when I don't want to. Trust me! It does work.
hi, can you help interprete my chart and husbands..we are both scorp sun..my moon is caprcorn and his aries..mercury is scorp for me and libra for him..venus is scorp for me and sag for him...what the heck do i make of it?? i love this stuff
Whether or not two scorpios can be happy together depends entirely on how possessive and secretive they are. My longest and most meaningful relationship was with another Scorpio and he was only minimally possessive and actually very open. The only Scorpio-like quality he had was the intensity of his feelings, but he rarely acted out because of them.
I on the other hand am very intense and I show it. I'm very possessive, sometimes without realizing that I am, and I'm very hot and cold sometimes.
In the end I, the more intense and true-to-form Scorpio, broke his heart. I believe that union between two Scorpios is possible, but you need to have at least one moderate Scorpio if it's ever going to work.
Also, I completely agree with eme kah in that Scorpios can make you feel more comfortable with your demons than anyone. I have ALWAYS found that to be true, because I don't think I've ever dated anyone without serious baggage - then again who doesn;t have at least a little bit? Scorpios can make you fall in love by accepting what you think are flaws but later the Scorpio may resent you for the very same reasons.
Liz
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