My male Pisces dumped me. How do I get him back?
First off, it takes so much initiative for a Pisces man to get off his butt to break up with you, that he must have really wanted out. Maybe the real you didn't compare to the fantasy you, and he just couldn't bear the dissonance between the two.Regardless, you want him to give you a second chance. Remember, the best way to woo a Pisces is with lowbrow Piscean pleasures: drugs, music, movies, video games. Send him a CARE package containing a dime bag and a DVD you think would turn him on. Throw in a burned CD of some hard-to-find Dave Matthews gig, and he'll know you mean business.
Other Pisces men are too "beyond" to be seduced by media items. You must convince him that you are an embodiment of the Tantric Love Goddess, and you must never reveal your mundane flaws lest you burst his bliss bubble.
Frankly, it would be a lot easier to distract him from the day-to-day problems of relationship by keeping him high. Either that, or make his life so easy -- by taking care of dreary tasks like paying his bills and brushing his teeth -- that he won't feel challenged by life's difficulties, thanks to your efforts to shield him.
It's not easy to get a Pisces man back, but if you're willing to drape a Neptunian veil of delusion over his eyes, he may let you into his graces once again.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 8/16/2007
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This is really interesting because I have no idea how to get a Pisces to break up with someone. They just kinda wander off, if anything.
Why do you want him back, honestly? I love Pisces men....well now just one....but anyways, what do you love so much about him? If the care-pack and media doesn't work, they love compliments. Maybe tell him why you love him.
Also, why did he dump you? Didn't he give a reason? If you did something bad, maybe you deserved it. If he already has his sights on another woman, you may be too late because he is on to the next dream.
What does play into your favor, however, is that Pisces are VERY indecisive. Maybe you can convince him that he didn't mean to do it, that he was having a confused moment, and that he really loves you. Pisces change their mind a lot, and maybe you could get him to play along if you laugh it off like a big flubber moment he had....just don't offend him or make him think you find him indecisve or too stupid to know what he means. He will catch on to it, so be sneaky....very sneaky, as if he can hear you when you aren't speaking, and as he is watching you when he isn't even in the same room....cause he is.
As a Pisces sun, I say understand why he dumped you in the first place. Understand the reason and if the reason is legitimate, then work on rectify it.
Speaking for myself, I don't dump relationship because my friends or partners do not live up to my idea of who I think they are or what I want them to be. I accept flaws in other people as I know I've flaws myself.
What have led me to end some of my relationships is this - lack of emotional reciprocity which left me feeling alone, unloved and unwanted in the relationship.
The only relationship I truly value in my life right now is with another Pisces. Even though we have different placements in our charts, our differences are subdued by one single thing - appreciation of each other which leads to incredible emotional reciprocity. We've been together for three years.
Want mine? I have one of those too....cannot get rid of him....side effects include lying, however.
LOL sagilarious
Sagilarious, FYI ... this question didn't come from an "Ask a Question" person, it was just a search phrase I found in my blog statistics, so I'm not sure anyone's going to respond.
I find it really interesting that Pisces men loves drugs? My boyfriend loves to get high and when he is high it seems like he is happy and calm ... but isn't that bad?
Wow--this so explains the Pisces in (and out) of my life. Do they tend to float into and out of and into a woman's life? He claims I am the only woman he has ever loved but he had no contact with me for years. I am a Gemini and so mutable myself and when he disappeared the first time I moved on and found other pursuits to fill my time (with him on my mind as just a whisper no longer a burning feeling in my chest--yeah us Gemini's can feel).
Well, he seems to have vanished again . . . just days after telling me how much he has always loved me
what do you mean by a Neptunian veil of delusion ?
What do u think of a relationship between a pisces and capricorn?
My pisces just kinda of wanders off too but always keeps a connection? He is also caught up in self pity and playing the victim.
I had a Pisces man tell me he wanted to marry me at 5:30pm, and that he wanted to make a committment to me. By 9:15pm, he told me we should just be friends. LOL.
Oh, and FYI, I am a Pisces.
I don't fully know why he did it. But I don't care. We only knew each other a week. But I have to admit, I felt a very strong connection with him. We met on the expressway. LOL.
Yes Pisces can find a date ANYWHERE! This isn't even about him, it's about me. I met him on the expressway, and turns out he lives three houses down. So now, I think about him whenever I go outside. But my plan is to have fun with, or without him. I was hurt, but I had another date with my Ex the next day!
I would break up with someone. But Pisces will break up with you, and tell you. Oh we are so nice about it, that you didn't hear or believe us. No need to shout it. No need to be mean. Why upset myself? Besides, I may need you later.
People are my passion. I want as many as possible. Not sexually, but to love them and be loved by them. But there was a day in my life that I realized I couldn't have EVERY man. That is why we are not possessive. I mean, it's good to leave some for others. But most of them are mine for the taking. That's how we think.
The person I have been with for a long period of time is Sag. He's safe, and an amazing lover. Wealthy, and when I go "under water", he always has a towel waiting for me to dry off with when I come back up. He has a dry off towel, a nice chair to rest my feet, and a nice cocktail waiting for me to feel comfortable on land.
But I gave up drinking, and smoking, so now, he gives me a "compliment buzz." I heard a woman pastor say "If you plan on breaking up with me, please let me know a week in advance, so I can have time to find someone else by the time you do." That's me, but only with me, I think: "Let me know before I get dressed, because if I go out with "Tony" instead, he may require heels for where he is taking me. You not the only fish in the sea!"
I don't know if the pastor was a Pisces, but...I am, and that is how I think. So is my brother. Also, I don't like people very easy. I can spot a reject a mile away. And I just be nice, and let them know politely "Hell to the No!"
My story is very upsetting. I am a cancer and my partner is a pisces. Very intense relationship, very loving and caring. Got to the point where we moved in together combinding our families. Bought a house together and with in weeks he said he wasn't in love with me any more. Still loves and cares for me very much. How do I make this work. We are still living together and it's very strained. I try to give him the space he needs but nothing is seeming to work. I would like to get back to the place we were at.
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