Aquarius woman wants Capricorn man back
Nicki provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,hes got a moon in gemini. mars in taurus. venus in capricorn.This guy didn't break up with you -- he just said he wanted time to think for a few days, and then he'd get back to you. In your Aries Moon/Mars/Asc impulsivity, you essential cut him off at the pass. You tried to clarify your relationship status, and he responded defensively.
me- i have a moon in aries, mars in aries, venus in saggitarius.
He broke up with me yesterday and then he said he needed some "mental clarity" and then he wanted to call me back in a couple of days. I dont think I need to answer the phone if he calls. . He knows I don't:
1. I'm NEVER friends with exes. (he knows that)
2. I'm NEVER friends with benefits with an ex
said ok to be polite but im trying to figure out what would be the point as he knows i dont believe in friends with exes. So why would he want to call me? i havent decided yet if im gonna pick up if he does but im curious to get others opinions. Thanks! he gave me 2 reasons really. not a BUNCH sorry lol
honestly to me whats the point. he said he needed "mental clarity". i feel like he couldve gotten mental clarity with a break, not a break up. he never actually came out and said it. i had to ask him if i was single. then he got snappy and was like yea do whatever you want.
How do I get him back?
Now you are wondering if you should even pick up the phone, because you're never friends with exes. With an Eleventh House Aquarius Sun, friends must be very important to you. Yet the combination of your Aquarian inflexibility with a square from all-or-nothing Pluto in your Seventh House of Relationships results in rigid boundaries. No doubt the Plutonic realm in relationships (jealousy, possessiveness) can feel threatening, but ruling out friendship with former lovers only protects you from growing up. In addition, having decided not to be friends with someone who just needs some time off removes the possibility of dialogue with this Capricorn man.
If you want to get him back, don't be so darn stubborn.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 7/13/2007
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Good stuff, Jeff!
I wonder if these two stubborn signs can make it work. Someone's going to have to modify his or her thinking to accommodate the relationship.
I say wow Nikki, chill out. You are making too much drama out of this. Anyway, I say go find yourself an Aries fellow, might be a better, funner match for you. If you really love the Cap though, take it easy and give him the space he wants right now and try not to be so inflexible. It also looks like you are pushing for a break up with your behavior. What on earth is wrong with anwering his phone call if he calls? Have you ended it and told him never to contact you again? If not then talk to him. You evidently cared enough about him to get into a relationship in the first place. He said he needed a couple of days. If that is all there is to it then you must be extremely insecure with him and that could drive a wedge between the two of you. Have faith and trust and believe in him if you really want him.
Just out of curiosity, what's wrong with being friends with exes? I mean, it's one thing if it ended atrociously and he was abusive, cheated on you, etc. But people don't always have traumatic break-ups. So I'm curious as to your reasons, Nikki.
The capricorn man got away from you nikki because many things in his life were too overwhelming. Also he might have got some feelers from you that you dont dig him so much. So before you could reject him, he rejected himself by breaking up with you. Now he realizes that was foolish and wants you back. Talk to him but let him know that you want all or nothing.
He will not leave you hanging.
[From A Capricorn]
I thought I was the only Cap flipping out then. I did the EXACT same thing to my Cancer around the EXACT same time. I had just visited my Cancer and everything. Yes, things had to be to overwhelming for him (work, family life & friends will all have pull).
[Mine was work]
Also he had to feel like he was not needed or wanted at the time. He had to be thinking about this for a week or more [I know I was].
In order to solve the issue he just ripped up everything [devoured] because he was tired of dealing with everything in his life [this is all a guess..I'm reading more into how I was feeling around the same time].
On my end- I REGRET what I did. VERY MUCH SO- I knew I should have kept my mouth shut then. I knew I was to tried to have anything good come out of it. And I called my Cancer back and asked could they talk to me when they had time. They said okay and never called. And will not contact me.
[sigh]
We Caps will do that from time to time [not often].. we don't THINK properly when we get to to to overwhelmed. [I was dead dog tired/exhausted when I did it]. But for my sake- talk to him.
Go to him very clear and calm and ready. Don't be stubborn because he will be stubborn right back. When you asked him that question he was not ready to deal with it [or had not had the time to think about it] so he got frustrated with you. When we get that way; we'll just let you go and do what you want.
You two have to communicate; but be every clear and calm about it.
Capricorns do need their space- but once they get it- we come right back.
Let me echo that last statement: Caps do need their space, but once they get it they come right back.
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