Libra woman worried about compatibility with Capricorn man
mona provided a birth time (click chart to view) and writes,i met this wonderful man n i am in love with him. . we been dating like a year now but i been reading all these theories that libra n caprocorn will not matched. i am worry. my question will be what i can do to fortify thsi relationshipYou're worried, based on what an astrologer says? Hogwash! Trust your own experience, mona! Astrology is just a system, not the truth.
You have Pisces on the cusp of your Seventh House of Partnership. Jupiter, the traditional ruler of Pisces, is in Capricorn in your Fifth House of Romance and Play, conjunct Mars. Mars in a woman's chart signifies the type of young man to whom she is attracted. Hence, the sign placement of both Mars and Jupiter correspond with your attraction to this hard-working sign.
Jupiter and Mars in Capricorn 'make' you productive and results-oriented, hence this aspect of yourself jibes with your boyfriend. Your Mars may even drive him to succeed, depending on the degree of his Capricorn Sun.
In a way, whatever challenges you'd have with a Capricorn man, you'd also have within yourself. Your Libra Sun's purpose is to find balance and beauty, to socialize and to please. Yet your Mars, which acts to fulfill your Sun's will, goes about it in a purposeful, pragmatic way, with little concern for feelings as he moves his way to the top.
Currently, transiting Saturn is making a square (or 90-degree angle) to your natal Venus, planet of love. If you want to fortify your relationship, this is the time to do it, as Saturn is all about building and strengthening bonds that are meant to last. However, to do this you have to let go of relationship patterns that weigh you down. It's up to you to determine what those are by doing an inventory of your current and past relationships. Looking at your love life seven years ago -- when Saturn was opposing your Venus -- will help provide some clues regarding how this current transit will play out.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 6/21/2007
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I'm a Libra (moon-Sagittarius and ascendant-Libra) and I've been with a Capricorn (moon-Aquarius and ascendant-Libra) for nearly 10 years. At the beginning of our relationship I felt that he was very special for me. But soon after it started to feel like he was kind and gentle but no fun and passionless. I felt like if he didn't get excited about having sex with me and etc. And it sometimes still feels the same. I tried to talk to him about it - It looked like he found it difficult. On the other hand he's very hardworking, honest, loyal, generous and makes me feel very secure, and I still think he's very special for me. Maybe that's why I couldn't leave my Capricorn when I fell for a Gemini (moon-Leo and ascendant-Gemini) a year ago. I almost did everything to not to get involved with the Gemini who also fell for me - it was like if we were soul mates and his sweet talk and passion opened new channels in me. Now he's (Gemini) got a girl friend and I'm still with my Capricorn but still can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will never... I wish I could have made my mind up then because this way it's very upsetting..
I have been worried for the past couple of months about my boy friend having an afiar with a taurus girl whos really pretty and since I am just a leo I feel small compared to her what should I do???
@anonymous 3:33- I am beside myself! I have never heard the phrase "I'm JUST a leo"...you might as well say "I'm JUST one of the most awesome types of people on the planet!!"
Why are you insecure and "feel so small" compared next to the girl?
Confront him in a gentle way about your feelings...ask him if he finds her attractive, and if he says yes don't be offended...he's not dead yet!
I would just let him admit it and then you can go from there.
Usually I find the girls my husband finds attractive..attractive too so instead of turning it into something between us, it's something shared.
Silence and not acknowledging the elephant in the room is the worst thing you can do.
99% of men will compliment you after the acknowledgment of another womans beauty, and will offer sincere reasons why he's with you and not her.
Above all else...you are awesome, who wouldn't want to be with you, anyway? Fabulous Leo!
Dump that loser and go on with your life...he is not for you...aren't you bored out of your mind with him....All he talks about is work and money its boring...get someone who stimulates your brain and makes you see things in a different light..Go with the air signs, the are intellectual and will understand you beter...This guy is probably cheating on you, thats why he doesn't want sex...use your Libra instinct...
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