How to seduce a Gemini who has a girlfriend
For a Gemini, two is better than one. Does this mean that he won't be happy with just one girlfriend? Not necessarily. But I wouldn't put it past him to having roving eyes. For the sign of the Twins, variety is the spice of life.To seduce a Gemini who has a girlfriend, you must first know how to seduce a Gemini. The same tips work. Unless he has Venus in a conservative sign or has a strong commitment-focused Saturn aspect, Gemini will feel quite tempted. Whether he bites is another matter.
Gemini is ruled by Mercury. The messenger planet does not live by a code of ethics. He is the most slippery astrologod in the solar system. Gemini may not think there's anything wrong with having two girlfriends.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with having two girlfriends, as long as both women are fully in-the-know and consenting. It's called polyamory. Unfortunately, not all signs can "swing" this. Scorpio, for example, doesn't like to share.
If his girlfriend hasn't given him carte blanche to date other people, then the ethical thing to do is stay away.
Comment below: Have you ever shared a Gemini with another woman? (And I don't mean at the same time!)
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 4/02/2007
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No, I havent. But I have a friend (Leo, gemini rising and moon) who thought after 25 years of marriage he wanted to introduce another woman into the relationship. His wife obliged. He now regrets his decision greatly. His troubles doubled. :-) He thought he'd be center of attention with two women! HA! It doesnt quite work like that.
I have shared a Gemini with another woman--it was long ago.(37 yrs ago)
Even though I'm a Libra, and I understand flirtations, and having more than one lover(I was polyamourous for years myself), my Taurus moon did not at all like sharing *this* Gemini.
I didn't mind when it was lots of different women--I minded when he was serious with one, and I was left in the background.
Plus she was a supposed friend of mine.
In short it was a disaster.
Any possessive signs (Taurus, Scorpio) would not likely qualify for the "poly" lifestyle.
I shouldn't think it would be hard to seduce a Gemini man with a girfriend.I would say don't come on too strong, but be playful, light, witty.
However as Jeff said, if his gf doesn't know and you have to be sly--it isn't really worth it.
It is unethical, and you'll be regretful later.
Also,if you get truly interested in him, you'll always be wondering if he is being faithful to *you*--and he probably won't be.
Jeff,:-) was that last directed to me?
It worked while I was young, and while completely single.
In the end I love security though.
No, proserp, not directly. But your comment certainly inspired mine :)
I'm a Leo woman dating a Gemini man for the past 3 years. I am pure Leo! I have to tell you, this man can be the most wonderfull liar.Lie Lie Lie! Illusion of grander. They cheat and lie!! I myself will never date another one again! False promises! Because I am such a fixed sign, this is the reason I stayed and tried to conquer. He is constantly distracted unless your doing something for him and then you can still see the distraction. He will make you feel like your the one he wants to marry and in the same breath he will disappear, thinking he did nothing wrong. He can go for days without a phone call. This drives me absolutley mad!! I know from reading that he needs his freedom... so what better way to give it to him than to cut him off completley? I personally don't advise a Leo woman and Gemini man to get together. It is wayyyy to stressfull for us woman.. We need constant attention and they just can't provide it
Then leave, fellow Leo woman!! If you stay, you must be getting something out of it. Come on, I'm a Leo myself and that's no excuse for staying with a schmuck.
True, my Gemini man is always distracted. Unless, I am doing something for him. I have been in my relationship for now 11 years and I do not know how to get out of it. I tried 4 years ago and now what holds me together is our son now 3 yrs. old. He has a way of twisting things and making to be the one with the problem. Any suggestions.
have you ever shared a Gemini with another woman? (And I don't mean at the same time!)
oh yeah! name of Harvey b*stard of the highest order and I hate that name ever since he didn't think there was anything wrong with dating multiple women and encouraged me to date multiple men to justify his existence and what happened served me right because I never cared about the bastard in the first place
money makes the world go round
and thats the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth in case you think its not and the truth stinks worse than sardines sometimes
yeah, i have.
actually, right now i am/:
we were friends at first, but after awhile he realized he started having feelings for me, and i found him hard to resist;]
i wouldnt really say i 'seduced' him, exactly, but i did get his attention, and not just in a friend type of way:)
he attracted him by being 'original, witty, sarcastic (but not in a 'make you feel dumb' kind of way), showing him affection, and not coming on too strong.'-according to him(; it's just best not to get too caught up into the relationship, especially if he's serious about this girl. otherwise you'll be left with the short end of the stick; or at least that's how you'll feel at times. those gemini men sure do have a way with confusing people!
ok itsxjasmine let me getthis right, you say you r sharing ur guy with another gal and you dont care that hes sharing himself all around like that?
ok itsxjasmine you got urself a real Gem allright what you want to do with him is more then i wanna figure out rite now
sounds like harvey to me b*stard keepson poppin outa hell like my broken toaster keeps poppin burnt bread cant eat that stuff, no way
As I read the comment posted by the Leo woman who has been dating a Gemini man for the past 3 years I couldn't help but feel like I wrote it about myself. I'm a Leo Woman and I was involved for years with a Gemini man...I know I stuck around for so long because I thought I would "conquer" him eventually. I didn't, it was too stressful to keep trying.
i read the comment posted by leo women.....i myself is an leo.....but i dnt agree with her comment atol.....im dating an gemini since past 3 years and hes still the same......hes love 4 me increases day by day.......he gives me sooo much of attention...he loves me like anythng......whnevver he gets tym he comes to see me......hes soooo sweett.....
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