Should Virgo woman take friendship with Cancer man to the next level?
Miss Worried Virgo writes:OK so its resorted to this. Me Miss Virgo, just recently started dating a Cancer man. We have been long time friends but the romantic connection is so very strong, at least for me anyway. Talk about romance. He knows exactly what to say and do. He broke up with some one about 3 months ago. He went so far as to change his phone numbers and moved and doesnt care that she cant reach him. I knew she hurt him because he would come crying to me to often. Never in a million years did I think we would be dating!!! At times he can get moody and the predictable Virgo that I am cant take those mood swings. This is sort of weird because we were friends first and never in a million years did I think we would be going out on dates. He knew my boyfriend and I knew his girlfriend. I dont want to ruin our friendship by going to the next level in the relationship but he is persistant and I must admit that I am willing. Should I just call it off now to save our friendship? The thought of him being with some one else would kill me however, even though we have never been sexually involved.Friendships are sacred, but romantic relationships are even more rare. I know you are being cautious, as is Virgo's inclination. However, you only live once. (At least in your current body!)
Virgo-Cancer is a fine combination. You may analyze your feelings more than necessary while he wallows in his moods, but you both share a risk-averse nature that will keep you tied to the work-home routine, without too much disruption.
Be careful, though. Cancer can get defensive, and if he completely shut out his ex to the point of moving and changing his number, what's to say he may not do the same to you if he feels sufficiently wounded? Cancer is ruled by the habitual Moon and serves his past -- he may be a slave to old patterns that are hard to shake. Virgo has been known to nitpick, and the Crab may be too sensitive to bear too much criticism. Harp on him too much, and he'll retreat into his shell. After that, you won't be able to reach him on his cell.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/13/2007
7 Comments:
Thank you. Your reply helps a lot. I have now noticed the mood swings and am not sure if that is something I want to deal with. Sometimes this Cancer is so happy and other times he seems so withdrawn. I am going to re-think having a continued relationship. Typical of Virgo I guess.
You're welcome :)
I am a Virgo to the tee. My soon to be ex husband is a Cancer. We were great in the beginning until I started to do exactly as he mentioned and so did my husband. James is a great man and I love him dearly BUT I couldn't take his moods anymore and in turn made me more of a nit picker.
Don't know if this helps now but maybe it will someone else!
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Ada, you asked a while ago how to know when a Cancer man is interested in love?
You will know.He will be sweeter, and gentler.
If you don't notice anything , he is not interested, or, not feeling safe around you.
I am a Virgo woman who was married to a Cancer man. A negative Cancer man. He knew all the right things to say and the right moves to make but once he felt that I had fallen for him he became lazy and more of a reciever than a giver. A negative Cancer man will try to criticize you because he knows this can cause you to become insecure. If you notice any of these signs cut him off. It is better to be safe than sorry.
I am a Virgo and I broke up with my Cancer boyfriend six months ago. He was the biggest ass I have ever been with. He was an alcoholic, a drug addict, a food addict and smoked pot more than five times every single day. I could never have a decent conversation with him, because he was either high from drugs or drunk. Or both. He was also manio depressive and took a lot of medicine every day. When he was drunk he couldn't remember what he had done (including driving his car) and he would shout sexist comments to other women, even though I was standing right next to him. It took me three months to fully see the extend of his lies and his dubble life. He even used me to get hold of his old dad's money. He always wasted a lot of money on booze, drugs and useless, expensive things. In the end I was very bothered with all of his overweight, even though I wasn't in the beginning. It was a nightmare. Perhaps the worst part was that he tried to manipulate me into staying - and other thing. Sick bastard! I don't feel sorry for him at all! I think Cancers are avoiding and hiding problems instead of wanting to talk about the issues. It's like when they don't talk about the problems, then they don't exist. I always face issues head on, so maybe I shouldn't be with a Cancer. They are also too quiet for me anyway.
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