Is Scorpio man cheating on Virgo woman?
A Virgo female asks:I have read a lot of different horoscopes about Scorpios and Virgos. Are we really compatible and are these two signs a good love match? Also, my Scorpio man and I have been seeing each other for over a year now. I have revealed to him that I am in love with him. He has told told me that he loves me, but that he is not in love with me, but that he cares for me deeply and that it takes him a while to fall in love. Is this normal for most Scorpios and does it usually take this long for a Scorpio to fall in love? Also, I have no proof but at times I feel that my Scorpio may be involved with other women and I know that Scorpio's are very sexual and lustful. Is it possible that my Scorpio man is telling me the truth that he does care for me deeply, but that due to his lustful nature he can still juggle other women, while having deep feelings for me? I have asked him in the past if he is involved with anyone else and to please be truthful with me. He always replies that I worry too much and that he is not seeing other people. However, my gut instinct and intuition makes me feel that he is. Should I take it that if I do feel that something is going on that it probably is and that he is being dishonest with me? If so, does that mean that he does not care deeply for me as he claims? Do you think that there is a chance for a Scorpio and Virgo to have a deep love bond, so much so that my Scorpio man will give up all other women and fall in love with me? Please help. Virgo girl not sure what to do."He has told told me that he loves me, but that he is not in love with me, but that he cares for me deeply and that it takes him a while to fall in love."
Since you're a Virgo, you will bear with me as I linguistically parse these phrases (with apologies to George Lakoff).
- When he loves you, he is performing an action, because love is being used as a verb. He is willing to care for you.
- When he is in love with you, both of you are in a box, for LOVE IS A CONTAINER.
- When he falls in love, he is not in control. He slips and falls into the "love box," against his will.
One way to guard against surrender is by having affairs, for it keeps him at a distance from the love box. However, you may just be a Virgo worrywort. Just because you feel something is going on, does not mean that it is. But you also should trust your gut, especially because Virgo rules this part of the body. You likely have good "attention to detail" (Virgos love to put this on their resume). What would be "out of place" if your Scorpio were cheating on you? Would you notice? I'm not telling you to poke around his private affairs, for that will certainly make a Scorpio run for the hills. But think logically about what would be "out of order." Also keep in mind that Virgos are self-critical. Maybe you don't feel good enough to have a man devote himself wholeheartedly to you.
Virgo and Scorpio are a good match, but this is not what your concern is really about. I'd suggest that you look at your relationship history. Have you been cheated on before? Do you feel worthy of being loved? If after your own self-exploration you still feel in your gut that he is cheating, write back and we'll see what we can do.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/26/2007
6 Comments:
I have a friend going through something similar. She thinks her mate is cheating, but has no proof. I think we all just have our ups and downs and need to adjust accordingly.
Sometimes we think of cheating, but dont act upon it. Sometimes we are just unhappy at the moment. It doesnt mean that they will cheat.. It just means they want a change.
I also know that if you push a scorpio, they will cheat by accusing them so often. They will eventually prove you right then be done with you.
Hey, I'm a Virgo girl falls for A Scorpio guy. Your story is incredibly the same as me...I told him I love him and he said he did too but he wasn't -- that was five years ago and he left me for another girl. That break up ruined me for months...but soon I got over him... No it's not the end -- Now he is back and starts playing his game with me again. He just broke up with that girl. I should have said no but I couldn't...
Scorpio is so secretive, can't win them easily. But once you love him.. you can't love any body else...
I have been reading this blog all morning and have found everyone's advice very helpful. I am a virgo dating?? a scorpio. I am going through the same thing everyone else is talking about. Do we stay with them when we feel they are cheating on us? Yes- NO? I have been on this emotional roller coaster with him for the past two years. He has moved across the country twice to be with me. But for some reason we can't seem to just be happy. Yesterday night was another one of those nights. I heard "I just want to work on me for awhile, I'm not into working on this relationship. " I'm frustrated as all hell. I have spent the last two years trying to be comfortable in this relations, digging though my own pile of trust issues and what it takes to have a healthy loving relationship. I have finally figured it out. What I want and what he has been searching for in a relationship for the past two years with me. Now, he wants nothing to do with this relationship, and he just wants time for himself. When I ask him if he'll change his mind, and he just needs time. His response is I don't know? I just need to worry about me right now.
Does anyone have any advice in regards to this situation.? Should I pack my bags and move on, or will he come around and we'll have the amazing relationship that I've had glimpses of over the past two years.?
I am married to a Scorp. Once they commit to a relationship you cannot get away from the pincers or the stinger. If you are even asking what is wrong with your relationship with him, honestly, dump him. They have to be struck by a lightening bolt or something, they know exactly who they want. He told me that he knew, and was very romantic with his marriage proposal..They are loyal and a bit jealous, but worth every hairsplitting moments when they love you because they will try everything to make it work, they are in love and they are the defenders of that state. I hope this makes sense. Give space, they will hunt you down. There is no escape. good luck.
i am a scorpio guy in love with a virgo girl.I do not know how to tell her please advise
I am a virgo girl, write her a letter, expressing how you feel, be very clear in the words you choose, so there is no way to mistake what you are saying(virgo's tend to over think every situation),don't worry about rejection-because she won't reject, then taken her out to a romnatic candle light dinner, we are suckers for romance...
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