How to come back to Aries
Aries is always right -- for there are no other viewpoints to consider -- so the best way to come back is to yield. You probably broke up because you locked horns with the Ram, and realized that he would never concede. So you left, and realized either that you were wrong, or that even though you are right, you are willing to brush pride aside to be held beneath his powerful arms.You don't need to plan an elaborate apology. He burned through his anger weeks ago! Just admit the error of your ways, and pledge that you will follow his lead on all matters. If he has not already moved on to someone else, Aries will likely take you back.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/16/2007
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Oh PLEASE- these men are retarded.
I am a Cap and we never really argued-he was usually so sweet and nice-until he decided he wanted to go and have other female friends-then I would EXPLODE and he would not listen so I would resort to passive aggression-and he would always be bewildered why I acted like that-so I left him in Europe and told him I was doing it the day I had to get on the plane-
back to the states and I would not yeild one inch-well he was not that persistent anyway-
15 years later, he is married and we spoke on the phone for HOURS and have been in touch regularly ever since-as friends only-but one thing he said to me after 15 years was "What happened to us?" I went beserk and could not believe he forgot our "infamous" parting-he really did not but I think he was asking why it did not work out-
B/C ARIES is so SELF CENTERED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that is why-despite my attraction to a lot of them.
When he wanted other female friends did he mean real friends or friends with benefits with whom he slept?
I'm a Libra woman and I lost my Aries man and I want him back. I didn't understand the complex simplicity of an Aries man until now. In short I said something that wasn't insulting at all but was completely insulting to him and he hasn't spoken to me in over a week. He wont talk to me or see me. I know he cares about me a lot and what we had was something great but I dont know how to fix it. I understand now that I'll have to be the one doing the pride swallowing and I'm ok with that so long as he doesn't know what I'm up to. And an appology isn't going to do it either. I think its going to take much more than that. Suggestions from an Aries man would be much appreicated
Just out of curiosity, what did you say?
I am also a Libra woman in love with an Aries man who has me completely confused. I really need advice on how to get him to take me back. I didn't know he was so sensitive (first time dating an Aries...).
He is so brusque sometimes & we all know Libras bristle at that. I told him to 'be a jerk to somebody else' via text because I was hurt - he gave me another chance. Then I asked him a question about dating other people, which he took as an ultimatum - and it wasn't - and he says he is done with me because of this and that I hung up on him (which I didn't think I did). The 'last straw' came about because I didn't know how he felt about me (mixed signals - to me) & I was hurt. Turns out I had it all wrong.
I have apologized, admitted the error of my ways, tried to explain myself & it's not enough. I haven't cried, which I doubt would work anyway. His heart is hardened & I am heartbroken. Please advise. FAST! :-)
For the Cap: AMEN!!! They are self-centered.
the person that responded doesn't get the fact that he brought up that he wanted female friends is just like saying, "I want to leave the door open." If he was serious (which they usually are not), what the hell does he need to make a priority out of friendship with females instead of building the one he has with his significant other?!?!?! They are not "friends" if they relationship with them has to be outside of the one with his woman.
The libras: it's a challenge for the 2 of you because Libs are naturally designed to be a partner while the Aries is designed to be a loner. Libs will try so hard to keep something the aries knows they'll live with or without fixing.
I am in love with an aries man with whom I work. Im reading those stories and can see myself in them. We are intimate but not exclusive although none of us are sleeping with anybody else (cuz I honestly think that both of us would probably loose it if we ever found out) I am a virgo woman with alot of Leo in me.
He claims that we cant be together because of our working situation plus his ex is part of the company. But he is jealous and doesnt want me to see anyone and gets so frustrated when anyone tries to talk to me. He is sweet and passionate and has great qualities but the occasional distance is driving me insane...
One day its hot between us, then I dont hear from him, then its hot again, this man is driving me crazy what is the solution?
To the Leo woman. I am a Scorpio and work with my Aries man. And one thing about Aries men is they are natural rebels. and If he wants something he doesn't give a @#%^ what ANYONE thinks. Otherwise how could he have an 'ex' who also works there? Sorry to curst your bubble but he wants to have his cake and eat it too and I can guarentee he is probably still WITH his EX.
I know it is hard but having been on the winning end of this ..I was the one trying to keep things secret..he made it VERY obvious he was into me and makred his territory with every man. If he was into you he wouldnt be able to help himself. They are like little kids in a candy store. When they are really in love 4keeps the scream it from the mountain and 4sake all others. Virgs tend to want to please and Aries like to win...but in the end your to much of a pushover and not enough challenge. Don't change yourlsef.. change your man and move on.
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