Getting what you want from a Scorpio male
How do you manipulate the master manipulator? How do you pull one over on "He who sleeps with his eyes open"?If a Scorpio were to give you what you want, it would not be to please you -- he would give it to you because he wants to. The moment he feels you're trying to use him or get something out of him, he knows it. He may not call you on it -- instead, he might deduct points from your tab, and send the Debt Collector when you've overdrawn on your goodwill account.
The best way to get what you want is to ask for it ... directly. Scorpio knows every game in the book, whether you go over his head, behind his back or beneath his gaze. Why would he trust you if you're trying to play him? You'll get much more respect if you're open about your motives.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 3/06/2007
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That is so true about scorpio men although sometimes having the ability to detach from "what you want" may help you in the long run, since what you want may not always be what you need and when it comes to scorpio most people want them to be everyone other than who they truly are...
bottom line. u aint gon manipulate no scorpio. we aint stupid we can see manipulation a mile away cause its our best friend and when its used against us it just not gon happen. askin directly would be alot better but depending on what your asking for you might need to give them a little time to answer. dont start pressuring them or things aint gon go the way you want it to go.
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I got what I wanted (Marriage and a wonderful life) from my scorpio male by letting him know that I've always got his back. My scorpio man is always protective of me and he's got a heart of gold, but even this strong personality enjoys knowing that his firey little sag is looking out for him.
I'm a Leo with an Aries Moon, and have dated a few of Scorpio men in my time. That is was truest statement I ever heard about a Scorpio... they are MASTER manipulators. The last one I dated was a mess... emotionally... physically... and spiritually. I swear, he had to be the most jealous and vindictive person on earth. And moody is an understatement; if you said the sun was shining, he would say it was raining. I didn't know from one day to the next what emotional card he would throw on the table or in my face, but the jealousy card was his favorite to play. I don't care if he had been around me all day, he would sit and think up scenarios of what I was doing behind his back. If we were out together there had to be some guy trying to steal his girlfriend. He had all kinds of spy equipment on his computer to alert him if I was online. If I answered my cell phone and didn't tell him who called all hell would break loose. And here's the kicker...there was the monthly doses of "back down memory lane" which subjected me to hearing all the sexual escapades, financial disasters, personal hygiene and the lack there of, dysfunctional upbringing of every girlfriend he's ever been with (and Scorpios want women who can keep secrets?). I wish I had a dollar for every time he'd say "just be straight-up with me." Which meant, "tell me who you're screwing because I know you're doing somebody other than me." It didn't take me too long to figure out if someone is obsessing like he did than it was time to do some digging of my own, and of course I didn't have to dig too deep. He was involved in all the things he accused me of. And the real crazy thing about it was once he was caught and no longer had the ammunition to attack me with his overactive imagination we were through and the relationship ended. So, I won't say I would never date another Scorpio because I believe that they tend to exist on one spectrum or another.... either very extreme, or very mild...there's no in between.
Sorry about the typo...should have read: That was the truest statement I ever heard about a Scorpio
I'm a Sag woman (12/16) dating a Scorp man (11/07). I met her 3 years prior to connecting in a relationship. We saw each other twice and then just kept in touch by email and messenger. I have no patience and hearing his stories of promises I was not concern. I use to chase him away and that actually made him chase harder. I told him don't contact me again until he is ready because I have a great life and don't need him. Well we didn't talke for about 1 1/2 years then he found me and asked me out on a date. I accepted his offer to go out.
I think Scorp men are crazy. They love the challenge and chase. He is great to me. I didn't tell him I loved him first he told me and it wasnt during sex. After 2 months into dating he set me up without my knowledge to meet his family but that was cool because they love me to death. He started telling me he love me, told me he been chasing me for 3 years and he is tired he feels like he was running a marathon. Well I finally gave in after about 6 months and it has been a ROLLERCOASTER RIDE, BUT I LOVE IT.
Astrology says Sag and Scorp are not a match I totally disagree. You must go into a relationship expecting nothing but accepting everything (as long as it is not hurt and pain). My scorp boyfriend is secretive, manipulative, controlling, cunning but his is also loyal, a great provider, great in bed, and although he doesn't say much he does listen. I find that I will tell him something, he doesnt respond but days or weeks later I will see the actions that shows he listen. Yes they are homebodies and like to sit privately in their own space. I say let them be. As a Sag we are very outgoing and sociable so I have learned to not entertain those times he wants to be alone. I let him sit in the den play his games, online, etc for hours and then I use this time to go out and be the social butterfly I am and go hang with friends, go get my nails done, etc. I believe Sag and Scorp are perfect if the Sag learns not to take things personal. When my boyfriend makes a statement about control, Ill play into his lil game I be like Yes Master, believe me its more fun than serious. He laughs or smiles when I do that and in return he comes back giving me what I need. Relationship is about give or take. As a woman I have no problem letting my man be a man. I am frivilous, spend my money on silly things, dont like responsibility and this is where my Scorp boyfriend comes in and teaches me to have a little discipline and patience. In return I don't give him the option to always sit home alone Ill go buy the movie tickets, concerts tickets..etc then tell him what I done then he gets excited and we have a great time. I don't know about cheating but I will say Scorp men attract women with their eyes and their personalities. I know I am a successful, beautiful woman because most Sags have high self esteem with our no care attitudes so I don't get jealous when other women try him or even his flirting. Will or has he cheated as most will say Scorpios will do, he may but I don't sit around looking for things. I enjoy the happy times in our relationship and don't dwell on our differences. I take advantage of his neggative traits to win in the end because when he comes out of his private time believe me thats when he will shower you with everything your heart desires. He always tells me how pretty I am and boast my self-esteem which is what I like. So I say the heck with astrology we been together 2 years now and Im loving this relationship and have never met a man quite like this Scorp. For the record all men can cheat regardless of his sign so just learn to have fun with your mate as long as there isnt abuse physical, mental, emotional and he supports you then ride on the coaster until it stops
All men cheat, regardless of their Sign? This is news to me. Perhaps it is precisely your freedom-loving Sagittarian attitude that helps you to overlook it if your Scorp is indeed cheating, and if that's cool with you then it's cool with me. But I'm sure many women would not tolerate it.
I don't think her Scorp is cheating, or will ever cheat. It's not in the Scorpion nature to cheat. Both men and women with heavily weighted charts in Scorpio tend to be loyal and devoted to their mates to the umpteenth degree. Particularly if they are happy in their relationship, as her Scorp seems to be.
Have never known or heard of a Scorpio who cheated, unless it was for revenge and they could care less about the person they were cheating with (with, and not on). Revenge is usually the female motive if she cheats at all, and pure sexual release is usually the man's motive (but he won't invest any emotion into it).
So once you've bagged a Scorp, you can pretty well rest assured they won't be cheating on you too soon, unless you really deserve it.
I have to disagree with Victoria on the fact that a scorpio will never cheat, "What your eyes don't see will never hurt the heart". A Scorpio will die before revealing a double life, you could be with one for many years and never really know them. I should know, I have never met a scorpio that was truly faithful; although, their partners thought they were angels and still do :) To every man their will always be the perfect temptation and we are only human not saints. I am a scorpio with my sun, moon, mercury, and uranus is scorpio...
Never say never ;)
Just because I never cheated doesn't mean other Scorps haven't, and yes, there's an exception to every rule. But generally speaking Scorpio is a very faithful and loyal and devoted sign, if they are in love. If not, well, anything goes . . .
But there are worse things than cheating. And having that much Scorp in your chart you know what I'm talking about
@ Victoria, yes u r truly correct, I do know what u r talking about. I swear being a Scorpio can b good 2 a degree, however, it does feel like a curse having that much of it in my chart. I feel things to an extreme level of sensitivity and everything people say about scorpio's i feel at a high degree..really creepy. Scorpios are weird in general, they pick up on other people's feelings almost exact, we know when people r lying, cheating, hating us, or even luv us, we know. Best way to get what u want from a scorpio is definitely to ask we hate it when people aren't honest, since scorpios are truly one of the most honest signs out there as far as when u ask, we do definitely tell, so pay attention..
yup u got that right
So, I walked around him last week. He sends me an email (to my work, I don't get it for two days) telling me he's "Uncomfortable" and that he sees what I'm looking for and it isn't him...I bounce a reply, telling him, yeah, you might be all these things but you're not this one thing I really need, and btw, please don't come to the neighborhood park the time that I do...
You guessed it. The whole past week, he's been there while I am. He's walking in the EXACT SAME TIME as me. His pooch loves and kisses me, etc, but we walk on by...then today, I'm sitting on the bank of the pond, he walks down and sits accross from me. I get up and walk over to him, and he just gives me that hot look and says my name...so I turn and walk to my car. You guessed it. He's standing right there with those damn eyes, starts telling me how he's "just uncomfortable", I tell him, yeah, I am too...and then he storms off, shouting over his shoulder, 'you can't even honor my request not to communicate for a while'.
Okay, sure. Then why is he at the park when I specifically asked him not to be? And then following me around? And letting his dog (whom I adore) get all over me ( I don't mind this)?
I'm betting...anything...that he'll be there tomorrow, same time.
Sigh. Am I making any headway?
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