Pisces man is not the one Libra woman is looking for
A Pisces man writes:I have been trying very hard to get this Libra female, but she is always telling me I am not the one that she is looking for and is constantly reminding me to give up on her. I really don't know what kind of a guy is she looking for.You may well have some fire in your chart, if you're decisive and you take initiative. Aries immediately follows Pisces, and many Pisces have Mercury and/or Venus in this sign. And if you're refined and even "neat at times," you may very well have your Moon in Libra, which would account for your emotional connection with this woman.
I am not a typical pisces, I have a high ego, I take initiatives, being decisive, refined and I am neat at times. I feel that my personality is more to a fire horoscope.
I don't mind changing myself to suit her and that is the pisces part of me. Therefore, I think I have a mix of both pisces and fire horoscope qualities.
I will really appreciate it if you could help me out on this and figure out what is on her mind and what kind of a guy she is searching for. Thanks in advance :)
Aries sits on the opposite side of the zodiac from Libra. In general, fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sag) and air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) get along. It could be your fiery nature that makes your friendship possible.
However, as shape-shifty as you are, Pisces, you can't meld yourself into the man of this Libra woman's dreams. If she constantly reminds you to give up on her, she means it. After all, she's a Libra -- she's doing her best to not hurt your feelings. If she were an Aries, she'd communicate her unavailability in a less-than-polite manner.
I suggest you cherish your friendship and search for love elsewhere. If you like air, find a nice Gemini girl.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 2/05/2007
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as a libran who was pursued by a pisces for 4 years....even after i told him i wasn't interested, over and over, i can tell you that it doesn't work out...
you two will have great friendshippy feelings...but libra wants something more visceral.
pisces is very imaginative, very fun, but not something libra can put on pedestal...
we want something that makes our heart freak out, because we are always striving for the scales to balance, but in the matters of love, we want that scale to tip right off the chart! we want rockets and everything going off.
if you don't do that for us, we feel sad, because we don't want to hurt your feelings, but we know what we want, and though we can go along with you for a long time, we will always be looking out for that someone who will provide it. this will just make you feel used. and we will be sorry, but not that sorry, because we have been telling you that we weren't interested. See? Let her go....i should take my own advice now, and stop playing with an aries, who is doing the same thing to me, except not as nicely as i would to them...
hi! i really 100% agree with this guy in fact im a piscean.... and i really hv ths feeling for a libran girl frm past 9 months.. and 100% felt the same as told by that guy about that libra girl.... now i guess after reading ths i will move out and let her go...... really i nw trully understands wat u libran's girl think abt pisceans... just wann ask u if u could answer... Can't a Pisces and Libran's a husband n wife........????? plz reply...
I'm a libran guy and whilst I like a certain aspect of pisces womens personality I have to say she would do my head in after a while pisces are very sensitive and overly emotional and also dreamy wheras librans like me crave excitement passion and balance my personal trainers a piscean and allthough I like her I just can't work her out I'd never get involved with a pisces girl on a personal level I'm more an aries girl bloke allthough aries girls can be very insensitive which libran guys don't like the passion electricity and excitement between them is unreal(believe me sparks fly between libra and aries fire and air)a relationships not a good idea but as lovers it cannot be beaten.
Did you know that Libra is the most abundant sign on the planet?
Gaurav like Libra girl says, she wants someone she "can put on a pedestal"...
if you can fulfill a Libra's ideal... go for her... but, you will sacrifice your soul...
more than any other sign, Libra is about appearances... how you look to the outside world... and you will be judged on 1st impressions...
my mom (Sun Libra/Moon Aries) once said to me, "the only reason I put up with you is because you are my son. Why would another woman put up with you?"
a water sign would have said, "I love you because you are my son"
an earth sign would have said, "I support you because you are my son"
Look at this quote: "I am here not to quarrel or convince, but only to reason as reasonable men do everything possible for us all to part friends too." - comes from the Godfather (Mario Puzo was Libran)
Very few Librans have a spine... they sit on the fence for a long time... once they make a decision... it's final... no point in even showing them new evidence because they won't consider it... they're masters of using guilt (one of the few feelings they understand)
now, ask yourself Gaurav, is this what you want?...
Now, I'm fortunate because I'm a Piscean male who happens to share the same Atlantean card with my mother... we have common ground which is communication...
I've had female partners (and my father) who envy my ability to reach this woman...
the biggest caution that I will give... Libra has no problems f@#kin' with your head... and you'll f@#k with her heart... are either of you willing to survive this?
Librans can't stand solitude... so, when you take time for yourself... they'll feel insecure...
I had a Libran employer (very successful) who said, "he couldn't deal with conflict"... his fortune came from an ability to negotiate (reason), and a lot of times by exaggerating the benefit of his services... so, if you need friction... you may not get it in a relationship with Libra...
BTW, it may seem like I am bashing Libra... they do have admirable qualities: joie d'vivre, seek equality, dedicate themselves to a family ideal, selflessness, appreciate beauty, color the world, peace loving, and *gulp* rational thought has it's advantages
my son is Sun Libra/Moon Virgo/Asc. Sag, and am not looking forward to that Earth, Wind, and Fire combination when it develops...
P.S. a Piscean's sexual appetite cannot be matched by Libra... for them sex is an event... everything that leads up to the act, and after it are just as important... try spontaneity... like driving along the highway, pulling over your car, and bending 'em over, so you can lube your shaft... won't happen
Anyone out there that is in a relationship between a libra man and pisces woman? It seems as though that this match rarely exists which I find is really disappointing since they appreciate the same things.
I'm currently involved with a fishy of my own (I'm the libra) and when we are together everything feels so right...
I couldn't help but smile when reading the post by chip when he wrote that libras will f@#% with your head and pisces will f#$% with your heart. The first time I asked her what's the first thing on her mind when she looks at me she replied.. "stress". And needless to say she tugs at my heart pretty hard, sometimes I don't even understand this feeling..
So is it ever possible that the two scales will ever work out?
I'm a pisces woman and for the past 8 months I was pursued by a libra male. He was actually dating someone and tried to pursue me regardless. He said the right things and contacted me almost every day and after him saying the right things over and over again, I finally gave in.
His girlfriend broke up with him, and despite him always saying he would be with me if they broke up, it never happened. But he was still with me, and in fact was with me the day he got back together with her.
And since they are such factual people I will never know the emotions of what he really felt, whether it really was real, what I was to him or anything.
Me on the other hand feel emotional and crushed like a typical heart broken pisces. I dont understand why he would pursue me for so long, or what the point was to any of it. It makes me feel sick.
I think libra men are too harsh for the piscean woman. We need someone to protect us and cherish us and make us feel wanted and we go by what we feel more than facts, whereas a libra male won't even admit he is attracted to you unless there is a point to it... i.e. he'll never tell me what he really felt now, he would see no reason for it.
And if I didnt find out through other sources they got back together, I would never have known. He would have continued to keep me there.
They seem to say the right things, I dont think they are really bad deep down, they just hate confrontation and avoid it and don't realise how much they can hurt those around them.
SO NO in my opinion a pisces female cannot feel the love and moreso empathy she needs from a Libra male.
im a libra woman. and i am head over heals a pisces. but he drives me crazy! i never know what he is thinking and it seems as though he doesn't like me. even though he has already told me he does. he confuses me. like he plays hard to get. and just makes me want him even more. he is sweet and loving when we are together, alone. but when we are no longer alone its as if i don't exist.
Chip said "Did you know that Libra is the most abundant sign on the planet?"
being that it's nine months after the Christmas-New Year's holiday, small wonder
people all comfy cozy indoors partying feeling generous drinking themselves to oblivion fighting and making up and what better atmosphere to **** around in
I'm a Libra Female and Had a relationship with a Pisces Male who pursued me for months. He swore he was in love with me. He could not control his emotions or jealousy. Eventually he left me. To this day I don't think he knows how much he hurt me. I don't think Libra's show as much emotion as the Pisces needs. Pisces are high maintenance and need constant attention.
I am a Libran female and I used to have a persistent Piscean male who liked me for months.
My advice for piscean males is to completely ignore her and forget about it. Move on and find yourself a nice scorpion female "friend" and give her your attention. Once the libran female sees that you've moved on she will be SO cut. Libran females are sometimes b!@#$ because of their desire for perfection in their lovers so play around with her. Show her you CAN be that perfect guy :)
i completely understand what your going through as I am a libran woman yearning for this pisces man to cum bak 2 me. It's been years and theres no gettin ova him. I love the way he is so innocent looking but really he's defo not innocent, I watta take care of him luv his eyes. his cute laugh n omg i need help!!!!!!!
Some sayd that Libra can't get along with pisces and there's no actractive between them. I disagree, when there is love, there is love. All of us know that Love can't be force right?, so don't force it. Well, I am a Libran's wife and my husband is Pisces. Were married for 6 years now and we have a son and a incoming baby on June 26 (Thank GOD). We lived in a happy life style. Both of us are very romantic. We are like fire and ice, sugar and spice.
Libra female here. I think if the combination were to work it would be Libra man/Pisces woman.
I lived with a Pisces when I was younger. He was the hot, new bartender that all the girls were hanging all over at one of the hot clubs.
There was that 'connection' and things just moved crazy fast. As a matter of fact Chip (interesting name-since it sounds like you're still carrying one around on your shoulder)the first time we had sex it lasted for 3 days. We both almost lost our jobs and our families/friends thought something had happened to us. Maybe it's you that wasn't turning your Libra femme on.
btw there's a huge difference between spontanaiety like having me seduce my boyfriend by jumping him and having sex in a moving convertible and having a jackass pullover and telling me to bendover so he can lube his shaft!! You're right it won't happen because we DO have a spine and refuse to be treated as a brainless object.
Oooo, lookie there, a perfect segue, the real spineless one and the ultimate reason for the demise of the relationships was the pisces male. It was almost like having a puppy around.
I also don't agree with wanting someone I can put on a pedestal. I want an equal. I want a strong man that isn't going to change anything about himself JUST to please me. I don't want a clone, I want intellectual and physical stimulation, even verbal sparring. Having someone follow you around day after day after day after day with their tongue hanging out asking how they can make you happy really is not that attractive.
no,i dont agree with that.I am a libra girl and i am very crazy about stars and i just love pisces males ,their personalaty and every thing in them. Their way of thinking is so unique and pisces guys are very handsom and goodlooking.
and one more thing i advice all libra girls that pisces males are so different and they are the one for libra girls and i am very sure about this bcoz i am a typical libra girl.
all pisces are handsome!
AHHH! I am a libra girl (although i rarely feel it & ppl. can never tell..i have had several guess me to be cancer or scorpio!), but I was deeeply deeper than his darkest ocean in love with a pisces man, even though we had major problems w/him cheating i trusted when he said it was now just 100% commitment. we were into "soulmates" getting married, the whole idea for years even as he was in the service. Then all of a sudden he met a scorpio chick in his branch, fucked me over, 7 i stayed tryingto be understanding,he still told her & i that he'd still get 2 marry me (engaged), then he left me for her & married her withing the first 3 months they were dating (the first 6 months they even knew eachother!!!) He stayed close "freinds" with me, i wouldn't have phone sex w/ him although he begged me until a year later i still hadn't seen him, but talked with him weekly,i started to give in, he had always been telling me how he wished he had stayed w/ me, & misses me, i understand him & he i even after all the time & space between us, how we're soulamtes, but he can't break his vow, etc. then he comes to visit (as a married man) for the first time in almost 2 years (less than a year of their marriage) telling me how she hits him & how they got close to divorce several times...then he actually almost RAPED
ME! Then cried, told me he & his wife make it through everything & he has yo now be loyal (didn't he & i make it in love through more?) then he took me to meet her "don't tell..." I tried to ditch him where we were going to meet her b4 i could, but then i ran into her crying & she kept asking me to tell as i tried to leave & i told her everything!!! She hit him & I told her to stop as he acted SOOOOO well as if she was crazy! i couldn't believe it1 like he was someone else! Then told me he'd take her home & come back to take ME home, but I left b4 he could get back. I haven't heard from him since. I miss him, i hurt, i have disgust for what happened & wished i hadn't told her but i couldn't keep living like that either. So much of me still wishes to be w/ him & it's so pathetic but even he had mentioned before that that we are too obsessed for eachother. I don't know if it has to do with astrology, but....chea....
I am still pursuing her with the hope of breaking this zodiac jinx and giving a chance for letting love triumph
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