How to seduce a married Cancer man
What are you thinking?Cancer rules the family, old-fashioned values, and the home. Unless this Cancer man has restless Uranus compelling one of his love planets to break the rules of matrimony, you are as likely to break up his marriage as the Moon is likely to stop in her tracks.
And what is this whole seduction-of-married-men thing about, anyway? The planets may be far away, but they are not impartial. OK, Uranus may say, "Go for it!" but Saturn ... oh Saturn ... the god who keeps tabs on your karma -- he doesn't forget. Like Santa Claus, who makes a list of who's naughty and who's nice, Saturn will give you back whatever you put out. The witches say that it'll come back three-fold! And if not in this life, well ... in your next life you'll be born a leper or an orphan or one of those poor saps who's constantly cuckolded.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 2/07/2007
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Does this also apply to people with Pluto aspecting their personal planets?
Are you asking if someone with a Pluto-Venus or Pluto-Mars aspect is prone to cheating? Pluto is attracted to taboos, and Pluto in relation to Venus or Mars can relate to sexual compulsivity. Someone like this can feel that they can't control their impulses to explore the dark side of sex and relationships.
But they're not bent on breaking the rules for the sake of it. Let's say it's a Cancer man with Venus in Gemini square Pluto in Virgo. He'll have a sexy, flirtatious manner, but will he stay committed to his wife? Maybe he'll call phone sex lines, but keep it at that. He could just as easily explore the depths of sexuality and relationship in the confines of his marriage.
Oh, Jeffrey, I meant to post this under the Scorpio break-up item. Duh. That's what I meant. Excuse me. Transiting Neptune is affecting my natal Mercury, plus TSaturn is right on top of the latter and is also squaring my natal Neptune. So, it's all confusion all the time. Sorry.
You mean I did all that work for nothing?
;)
In that case, the answer to your question in relation to Scorpio coping with breakup is Yes.
Well, I did learn something that I... uh, already knew given that I have a Venus/Pluto aspect myself.
That makes sense, btw. I only have Neptune in Scorpio but with Pluto/Moon opposition squaring Venus, I'd say that that sounds on target. I don't know if I'm vindictive so much as definitely someone who stews in misery. Thankee!! You're the tops!
i can't say i agree a cancer won't "cheat", but then again they were seperated when we met and their compatibility is really crappy. Her bday 4-11-80 and his 7-9-74. have some fun with that one and you'll see what i mean. my bday is 7-29-67, not perfect for him either but you'd have to agree it's better than theirs! He is deluding himself into thinking they can give it one last chance before they divorce and i am saying go right ahead and try, see you back in a couple months (not that we even broke up in the first place....) P.S. we were going to have a baby but i got hit by a car and she died on us so there's a lot of heightened emotions right now.
I am a pisces woman who's in love with a cancer man. He says he loves me already and its been less than a month. It's weird because I feel the same way but I didnt want to tell him yet because its so soon. He's telling me things like "I'm getting older and I am ready to settle down", and "I think you're the one", etc. I am very sensitive and I don't want to be hurt, so my question to you is could he be trying to play games with me or is he serious? Also, how do I keep him in love with me if he really is, or how do I get him to fall in love with me if he really isn't?? PLEASE HELP!!
Cancerians don't usually joke about marriage and settling down. They're homebodies, by and large, and they take family and marriage seriously. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't take your time getting to know this guy until YOU'RE sure of what you want. As a Pisces, you probably tend to focus on others' needs and feelings. The important thing is how do YOU feel? What do YOU want? When will YOU be ready to commit? Don't worry about him just yet. Get to know him. You will know when you know and until then you have all the time in the world. He should respect that and if he doesn't, then you know, dontcha?
my secret lover is a cancer an he is i hot lover, hope my bf does not find out, i know he is married but that makes it better
Cook better than his wife can. And get a good boob job if yours leave a little to be desired.
Hi Jeff...
i'm Aries, Aries moon,Pises rising.
he is Cancer, Sag moon, Gem rising.
we have been dating 9 months and we get along great! communication is great! We have had only 2 little biffs, and both times we communicated and ended it quickly with mutual respect fot the others feelings. He seems to good to be true. Is he? He is a great father as I am a great mommy, i love to cook for him and love him up, and he does all the right honey do love things for me too (and we are not even living together.) Iam worried that this will not last. I'm crazy for him and he says he is for me.. he spends all free time with me. me:Venus-Aqu, Plu-Vir,Mars-Leo; Him:Vemis-Vir, Plu-Vir, Mars-Gem
Whatcha think? :)
@slm, I think you should go to "ask jeff a question" as I don't like to answer advice-seeking questions in the comments section.
I think everyone has to remember that we all fall under the "what goes around comes around" karmic Saturn influence. BUT my view is that we are here to learn...we are human.
I'm an Aquarius/Cap Rising, Cancer Moon/Venus in Aquarius/Mars in Cap, married and for the lack of something missing (go figure), fell for a very exciting married Cancer man, Leo Rising, Aries Moon, Venus in Leo.
As it all depends on your composite chart, I'll give you an idea of the type of Cancer man I deal with and the responses and reactions brought on by him in myself.
1. Sex- Very hot impulsive 'let me throw you around' sex, (probably that Aries moon here in this case)and then can be very sweet also
(the variety was like an addiction)
2. Vices~
Mind Games-From passive aggressive to reverse psychology, to the silent treatment...never underestimate a Cancer and the silent treatment...this can go on forever
(This was a challenge, so kept me holding on for awhile, especially with the Aqua in my blood...we love intellectual stimulation!)
3. Personality~Abrasive,Protective, Endearing, Cold/Hot (Gotta love the moon!)
4.Negativity~Always remember even if the wife is crazy, and I mean really mental, if Cancer has kids, he is going to feel guilt, and then no matter how much fun, earthshaking, soul enrapturing sex and time spent together,pychic bonding, pilfering through each other's minds, he will transfer that guilt into being all your fault, because YOU tore him away from his psychotic bundle of happiness, his nest if you will in this life time. It is just simply his instinct as a Cancer.
Of course when he feels better and lets go of some of that guilt, (for us it was when the moon hit Leo, I could mark it on the calendar) then he will come back full force begging for more. Ah, but then the moon changes...and there he goes again.
Again, it is all about the experience, right? I have to tell ya, for all the heartbreak and guilt it inflicted on me, my lesson was this: Intimacy now has a whole new meaning which is very improtant to me as an Aqua, I have learned to restrain from giving TOO much (there is such a thing), learned how to administer the silent treatment if neccessary, and also learned to love someone unconditionally just because of who they are and enjoy an experience here on earth that helped me to grow in more ways then I could ever list here.
Good luck with the Cancer men...let the journey begin...lol!
HIM: Sun: Cancer ---Mercury: Cancer ---Venus Leo ---Mars Sagittarius
ME: Sun: Scorpio ---Mercury: Libra
---Venus Scorpio (oh Ya) ---Mars: Libra
My kids are grown, he has none. Two months in, tells me he never wants to get married again. Has not even said he cares. We see e/o every day and talk 2-3 times a day. He cooks, waxes my car, takes my dog to the vet?
What is up with this guy? Does he care?
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