How a Sagittarius woman can seduce her Scorpio man
Sag and Scorpio sit right next to each other in the zodiac, and astrological neighbors don't have much in common. Sex may be sport to Sag, but for Scorpio it is serious business. Sex is the pathway to intimacy for Scorpio. It has emotional meaning, and is not, as for Sag, just another adventure."That which happens behind closed doors" is Scorpio's realm. The dirty secrets, the stains, all the stuff we don't want our neighbors to know about. How can the Sagittarius woman possibly understand, when she is out in the world, drawing inspiration from travels or lofty tomes? She doesn't spend time in the dark.
Sag's planetary ruler Jupiter (Zeus) is god of the sky, living on Mount Olympus. Scorpio's ruler Pluto (Hades) is lord of the underworld. You can't get much further apart that that! However, these two planets do have one thing in common: wealth.
What riches can be mined in the sexual encounter? If Scorpio can be seduced by bounty, then Sag may be in luck. The Sagittarius woman can see the opportunities in the sexual encounter, and offers such a large number of options that surely, for the Scorpio man, something's there for the pickin'.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 2/02/2007
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i am a leo which is a fire sign and the sign closest in thought as Sag..i have many scorpios in my life but let me tellyou, scorpio men are way too hot to handle!!! they are great as parents and the best of friends but my experience with the men were awful..at first, there is an animal attraction because allthey have to do is stare at you and you are theirs!!! in relationships, they are possessive and take over your life and God forbid you cross them!!! we fire signs forgive easily (we dont forget as quickly unless the person is extremely sorry) but Scorpios don't!!! they sting and they manipulate you...my advice is dont even bother as they are hard to get rid of and they get under your skin...they are too intense for us fire signs and can smother or throw water on our fire!!! good luck
Could not be said any better
They are so vindictive and possessive
Forget it...
Are you out of your mind? Before you get involved with a Scorpio, just consider that the aftermath is worse that whatever it took to get them. That water looks like fun to boil now, but wait till he goes so cold one day that no amount of flame you throw on him will warm him up. I have a Scorpio rising, and I still won't mess with a Scorpio. I did it once and learned my lesson fast.
well i'm kinda dating a scorpio and all the things that are described above sound so much like him. he is always bringing up things i've done to hurt him in the past. things that weren't intended to hurt, things he just took the wrong way. he got me in his bed and i thought he was gonna rape me, cause he was so forceful and controlling. i had to tell him like 100 times to stop before he finally did, just to wake up a few hours later and do it again. i swear i almost had to fight him off me. it's like he turned into a sexual monster and he was gonna have his way with me. as far as the look in their eyes it's true. when he looks at me i feel so weak and i feel that strong sexual animal attraction it freaks me out.
a scorpio is very sexual and im a sag.. but there is this man (scorpio) that I feel like I need him so bad.. I dont know what the hell it is? I mean I had an Ex that was a scorpio and yes the sex in the beginning was great but then ... i think he became satan ...i woke up in the middle of the night tied to the bed... i mean lets talk about being kinky first.. but anyway..I cant help this feeling I have with this Scorpio it's driving me mad..it is the eye's for sure.. but are scorpio's attracted to a sag? I mean we want to get rid of them but they seem to want to stay with us..
i am a sagittarius currently in a realation ship with a scorpio man. he is great to me! he treats me soooo well, but at the same time it could get annoying sometimes! i feel like i can't stop digging to find out who or what he is! its driving me nuts!!! but at the same time when i take a break from digging he finds me and makes me dig more! but then when he wants to be alone it is at the time where i don't want to stop digging! i wanna learn more about him, and then when i try to talk to him when he wants to be alone he just flips out on me! then i go and hang out with one of my other guy friends and he explodes!!!!he litterally tells me off and then walks away! then i don't know what i did wrong! we don't talk for a while and then he comes back and tells me that he loves me and wants to talk ot me again! WHAT THE HELL! so i considerate and tell him that i need time to understand what to do, so he gets angry again! but then i come back and everything is fixed...he likes his recent little group of friends and he tells me off in front of his friends ot make himself look cool. well i get mad and then he leaves them to catch up to me later on and he tells me all of this sweet stuff and then i tell him that i can't talk to him right now. but it is sooooo hard to resist him! there is like something about him that makes me addicted like marajana!(i don't smoke, just saying) and that drives me crazy b/c it makes me look whipped! then later on he likes to be sensative and stuff when hes alone on the phone, and its sweet. but he is so incompitable and ruthless when we are with friends! sometimes when we are around friends he makes all of these sex jokes and stuff and that bothers me greatly! but we have been together for almost 7 months!!!! and people tell me that we look great together! so i think that we will be fine if we actually put aside our differences!
To Angel: your guy sounds like a handful. But I'm sure that's part of the attraction. However, no one needs to be driven nuts for the wrong reasons.
You might consider simply leveling with him. In other words, take some time to sort through all your feelings, get a read on what works best for you, what you will not accept because it makes you unhappy, and whether there's some compromise position that you could learn to live with, a point halfway, so to speak.
Once you do this (and write it all out, if that helps), try a practice run with a guy friend; ideally, someone who knows the two of you.
Note: feel free to say that while you have a pretty strong sense of who you are (self-confident), you shouldn't be expected to eat it in front of his friends or anyone else, simply to feed his perverse sense of humor.
Kindness counts and he should know better. Would he treat other loved ones that way?
And, if he values fairness so much, why doesn't he practice it himself?
Then go to. Be direct, clear, and concise. If need be, insist that you be allowed to state your case without interruption. If it feels right, let him have some time to mull it over. But (and this is the clincher), be sure in your heart that what you're saying is the bottom line. The dealbreaker.
In other words, don't bluff. And, painful as it may be, be absolutely prepared to go your own way if he insists on compromising your feelings.
You have to be strong as well as direct to pull this off. The advantage you have is that he'll respect your fair mindedness and direct approach. And, contrary to what so many seem willing to conclude, he can change. But he has to want to. Either the pain of losing you hurts more than changing, or it doesn't.
I know that reduces emotional complexity to a single sentence. On the other hand, Capricorns have a point when they talk about the value of time.
Good luck.
I am a Aries and I really like this Scopio guy and I think it can acutally work. I'm not like typical Aries, I mean I am but not all the time and alot of how Scorpios act is how I act Occasionally I can be moody and i Like to think but at the same time I like being talk to and in converstions I can be impulsivce but I also think alot about how I act or react to situations, that could be because I was Born on April 19th. We both have alot of the same intrests and when problems arrise with people socially I get mad don't care for a while then want to fix it or fix it right away in a Peaceful mannner.
I think that I'd work with this guy but I'm not sure what do you think ?
Oh and he's gonna ask me to be his girl so that's why I'd like to know.
HAHA WOW! Ladies, we're not all that bad. I'm a scorpio guy. Yes, we can be vindictive, but that's because we don't like to be crossed. I can't speak for other guys, but I'm 100% loyal, and unlike some of the comments I read, I'm not forceful, a woman NEVER has to tell me to stop, I always know and if she does, it's only once. I have never dated a Sagitarius, but I just wanted to post my thoughts. Hope you don't assume we're all bad!
I'm a Sag woman (12/16) dating a Scorp man (11/07). I met her 3 years prior to connecting in a relationship. We saw each other twice and then just kept in touch by email and messenger. I have no patience and hearing his stories of promises I was not concern. I use to chase him away and that actually made him chase harder. I told him don't contact me again until he is ready because I have a great life and don't need him. Well we didn't talke for about 1 1/2 years then he found me and asked me out on a date. I accepted his offer to go out.
I think Scorp men are crazy. They love the challenge and chase. He is great to me. I didn't tell him I loved him first he told me and it wasnt during sex. After 2 months into dating he set me up without my knowledge to meet his family but that was cool because they love me to death. He started telling me he love me, told me he been chasing me for 3 years and he is tired he feels like he was running a marathon. Well I finally gave in after about 6 months and it has been a ROLLERCOASTER RIDE, BUT I LOVE IT.
Astrology says Sag and Scorp are not a match I totally disagree. You must go into a relationship expecting nothing but accepting everything (as long as it is not hurt and pain). My scorp boyfriend is secretive, manipulative, controlling, cunning but his is also loyal, a great provider, great in bed, and although he doesn't say much he does listen. I find that I will tell him something, he doesnt respond but days or weeks later I will see the actions that shows he listen. Yes they are homebodies and like to sit privately in their own space. I say let them be. As a Sag we are very outgoing and sociable so I have learned to not entertain those times he wants to be alone. I let him sit in the den play his games, online, etc for hours and then I use this time to go out and be the social butterfly I am and go hang with friends, go get my nails done, etc. I believe Sag and Scorp are perfect if the Sag learns not to take things personal. When my boyfriend makes a statement about control, Ill play into his lil game I be like Yes Master, believe me its more fun than serious. He laughs or smiles when I do that and in return he comes back giving me what I need. Relationship is about give or take. As a woman I have no problem letting my man be a man. I am frivilous, spend my money on silly things, dont like responsibility and this is where my Scorp boyfriend comes in and teaches me to have a little discipline and patience. In return I don't give him the option to always sit home alone Ill go buy the movie tickets, concerts tickets..etc then tell him what I done then he gets excited and we have a great time. I don't know about cheating but I will say Scorp men attract women with their eyes and their personalities. I know I am a successful, beautiful woman because most Sags have high self esteem with our no care attitudes so I don't get jealous when other women try him or even his flirting. Will or has he cheated as most will say Scorpios will do, he may but I don't sit around looking for things. I enjoy the happy times in our relationship and don't dwell on our differences. I take advantage of his neggative traits to win in the end because when he comes out of his private time believe me thats when he will shower you with everything your heart desires. He always tells me how pretty I am and boast my self-esteem which is what I like. So I say the heck with astrology we been together 2 years now and Im loving this relationship and have never met a man quite like this Scorp. For the record all men can cheat regardless of his sign so just learn to have fun with your mate as long as there isnt abuse physical, mental, emotional and he supports you then ride on the coaster until it stops
Geez, you're all so mean to the poor Scorpio. Come on, give them a break! Imma Sagittarius girl currently dating a Scorpio guy.
Not all scorpios are bad, all they want is to get into your head, know your thoughts and beliefs. My guy is so sweet when we're alone talking, he may put you down when he's around some of his friends, but he makes all better at the end of the day.
Yes, Sags are fun, carefree, and a little hyperactive at times. Scorpios tend to love that enthusiasm in a women.
Scorpios are mysterious, kinda like a puzzle. But that's what you love about him, right?
"His eyes dig deep inside your soul, making you feel as if you were weak. He loves to be alone and yet still have you at his side. You fill his heart with joy, and when the time comes he'll show you so much passion that you won't be able to handle it" my personal quote. DON'T STEAL IT!!
I don't know what else to say, so don't put down a scorpio just because he's a little forcefull. Go along with it and it won't be as rough.
I hope I helped anyone^^
-Sam
Ok well I am a Scorpio woman and most of the woman in my family are scorpios. Yes we are passionate but none of us are vindictive. I just stopped dating another Scorpio male and let me tell you he has a few screws loose! He is vindictive, possesive and he just wants all woman to pine after him. I moved on and now I am dating a sag male, he is great! No we don't have anything in common but we love that about eachother, we are teaching eachother new things and that is what makes it so great! He is a little more reserved than me but he is starting to open up.
One last thing about Scorpio's, yes there are some out there that are a little crazy but not all of us. We are extremely loving, loyal and passionate people, wether it comes to my lovers or my friends. They always know they can count on me.
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