Will the Virgo man commit?
Of course he will! Unless he has strong Aquarian or Sagittarian energies in his chart, your Virgo man is loyal, steadfast and true.An earth sign, Virgo needs a predictable routine to feel comfortable. He's not one to flit around from woman to woman (you know who you are, Gemini!). Virgo prides himself on being reliable, and will feel regret if he lets you down.
If your Virgo man is sitting on the fence, he is carefully deliberating whether this is the relationship for him. He needs to think things over carefully, and will likely over-analyze the workings of this partnership. He will find fault with you, for sure ... but if he feels he can help you improve, your shortcomings are not a dealbreaker.
Only after careful scrutiny will he come to a decision. And if he wants in, he's in all the way.
Comment below: Is there a Virgo out there with commitment problems?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 1/25/2007
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It's the 'finding fault with me' that is a challenge...how can a Libra woman who appreciates balance, beauty, and brains be patient enough and strong enough to get through this? The Virgo man is kind, generous, caring, and seems to love me but he sure can get critical and grumpy sometimes!
Hmm. This question deserves a post of its own. Look for "Virgo finding fault with Libra" sometime next week.
i am a virgo..with a taurus moon, a libra rising and venus in libra..i am made for love i seems with so much venus in my charts and my virgo sun would suggest that i am reliable in love..yet i am a complete commitment phobe and have repeatedly pushed away lovers as soon as they grow too close! why is this??
Anonymous Virgo, You may have a stressful Uranus aspect, which would predispose you towards being independent. If you enter your birth information, I may be able to address your commitment-phobia on the blog.
i am a scorpio woman who just met that virgo man. I think he is romanitc and love to please me but in his own way. Virgo like to cuddle alot. I like everything about him there is a strong connection between us from the first moment we met which is strange. we have big attraction. But i just feel he is critical for some things i do. sometimes i noticed he tells me not to do things while he is doing them ! I am nto sure if this relation will succeed but i will wait and see
Cuddle? Virgo? Ohh, Scorpio...what is your secret?
I am really liking this guy that is a virgo. There is one little problem he has a girl. He has always been upfront about his girlfriend. However, he does things that make me think that he likes me. I really have fallen for him. I have been crushing on him for about 5 months now. Everyday I say I am going to move on but he does things to keep me hanging on. Is he just toying with my feelings? Would he leave his girl for me? Deep inside that's what I am hoping for... I don't want to break up a happy home, it's not like I have that kind of power. He sends me these powerful messages with his eyes...it kind of hypnotizes me. My whole body reacts in a strange way when he is near me.
Iam a leo woman and I love this virgo man !!!! everywhere i have read of our compatibility I have heard less than positive things but why is it that we compliment each other so well??? and the sex is GRRRRREAT!
I was dating a Virgo man. He broke it off, but he still calls me.
Does he still like me or just confused?
I was dating a Virgo man. We are not dating anymore, but he still calls me.
Does he still like me, or just confused?
hi i have ? i want to ask this person who posted this massege.
I am really liking this guy that is a virgo. There is one little problem he has a girl. He has always been upfront about his girlfriend. However, he does things that make me think that he likes me. I really have fallen for him. I have been crushing on him for about 5 months now. Everyday I say I am going to move on but he does things to keep me hanging on. Is he just toying with my feelings? Would he leave his girl for me? Deep inside that's what I am hoping for... I don't want to break up a happy home, it's not like I have that kind of power. He sends me these powerful messages with his eyes...it kind of hypnotizes me. My whole body reacts in a strange way when he is near me.
I just want to know how things worked out between u 2 cause i have the same problem when i read ur masssge i felt like i was then one who added this post anywayz plz lets me know its going to be a big help thnx
IM a taurus woman who had found a Virgo man, whom I knew for a while before we started dating. He has told me after only a short period he loves me, and we get along great. The problem is, Ive fallin in love with him and although you may think well wheres the problem, Im starting to feel insecure and scared that hes going to run and hurt me. My possesivness is starting to creep in and Im scared Im going to push him away. Any advice folks.
Im a taurus woman and have met the virgo man of my dreams. We have known each other long before we got together and he has told me he loves me quite early on, so whats the problem you may ask. Well Im falling completely in love with him and Im not starting to feel insecure and scared that he will leave me, because sometimes he will be rather quiet and doesnt hound me with the usual text. I feel the possessiveness beginning to creep in and I dont want to scare him away. Any advice would be greatly accepted.
Ren: My advice is to sit with those feelings of possessiveness and fear. In other words, you are aware that these feelings are not concordant with how your boyfriend feels about you. You know it's your mind playing games with you. What no one tells you about love is that it is often very scary, especially at the beginning. It is wonderful but it is by no means just all highs and endorphins. There is the realization that you are becoming attached to another human being and that the attachment may end up being severed. In order to love, one has to be vulnerable and that's scary! In addition, maybe in our own pasts the people we loved were not dependable and that also colors the nature of our present attachments. Only you know this part for sure but at least you have the clarity of mind to realize that you're not seeing your boyfriend clearly; in other words, that your jealousy stems from within. So I recommend really feeling that. I recommend actually going to a meditation center and meditating on that. The solution is not to push those feelings and thoughts aside but to experience them without letting them overwhelm you to the point where you act out (ie, calling him, accusing him, or whatever jealous behavior you might've exhibited in the past under similar circumstances). Just remember that you're already way ahead of the game since you have enough clarity to see your part in it--most people jump at the chance to place the blame on someone else.
Virgo men are cheapskates which a woman needs to understand is WRONG. If a man can't give his Lady everything then he's junk. Virgo men are LIARS and creeps, don't give them the time of day, they'll stab you in the back if they find some biumbo who flirts a little and dump you and fight to keep you out and won't support you, He'll lie, cheat and be a grumpy smelly thing. You can't change these drunkls, they think life is all about PUNISHMENT and they're a DRAG.
lol Rachel--those bastards!
(aren't we being a bit harsh?)
I wanna know what happen to this...if the posts actually happen ( Jeffrey Kishner said...
Hmm. This question deserves a post of its own. Look for "Virgo finding fault with Libra" sometime next week.)
I am a libran and currently head over heels with a virgo man who is a commitment phobe. I need to know how I can handle him. He's too complicated for me to decipher.
Virgo finding fault with Libra
I was having an affair with a married Virgo man about 1 1/2 year ago. I'm a Virgo as well and it was some of the best sex I have ever had in my life! He's married to a French lady and they have one kid - not sure if they have the kid together. Anyway - he always complain about his wife and says that she's a bitch etc. etc. Well, what can make a Virgo man cheat on his wife? Does he really like me or what is going on? I thought Virgos were faithful to their partners - at least I am. What should I tell him? Because he still mails me even though I have moved far away from him. So what is going on do you think, Jeffrey? Some advise would be very much appreciated...
Can't I get any advice on the above? It's been a week now or so.... I don't know how quick you are in responding....
@Anonymous Virgo, my advice is to not expect a man to leave his wife.
I am a gemini female. My mother is a virgo and I have had 3 relationships with virgo men. They think about everything and if they are not ready for the answer or question you hand them, they will run. However, once they decide that you are the one for them, they can get super scary. Stalker is such a strong word but it fits.
I am a Scorpio and I have had exactly the same MISERABLE experience with two different Virgo men. They like to mess with your head and scratch little pieces out of your heart. Also because they are such spineless individuals, they will never have the courage to reciprocate your feelings or admit that things aren't working out, so you will have try and guess. This can go on for years until you wake up one day to find your scratched little heart is a bloody painful mess, and your emotions are twisted up and broken. Meanwhile your Virgo won't be remotely affected because he is cold hearted and feels absolutely nothing.
I am a gemini with an aries moon and my partner is a virgo with a libra moon, I love him more than I have anyone but, he makes me crazy. I realize our approaches are quite different and both of us have issues expressing emotion but sometimes he is so guarded. He told me he was in love with me and then it was like we both pulled back and now are waiting for the other to give some kind of sign of reassurance. I have gotten used to the fact he needs his own space and I give it to him, if I just let things be he seems to show up on his own. He bought me a toaster last week out of the blue, it must be love haha. My question about this oh so perplexing man is about sex. It has been way hot between barring the bed isn't to squeaky, or the fan isn't on high enough or it gets too sweaty. Once it seemed like things are moving forward with our emotional commitent the sex has diminished what is going on? I haven't pushed the subject but I am starting to wonder what is happening. Is this what marriage would be like? I think I wouldlikt to trade my toaster for another appliance haha.
I'm a Taurus sun, Taurus moon, Leo rising female, who is dating a Viro Sun, Leo moon, Scorpio rising man... We are in the first stages of dating and things seem to be going well. I would like some insight into this match up. This is soon, but I have a heavy feeling that marriage and a baby maybe in the future.. There is just this unspeakable thing that we have.
The thing is that he is 45 and I am 34. He has never been married or had any kids. If he is this far along without commitment will he ever?
I am a libra woman dating a virgo man for almost five months now, we connect heart beat to heart beat, conversation to conversation and touch to touch. I just want to know, is it bound to last this way, are we forever going to be compatible or is it still the novelty of the romance?
I am also in a relationship with a Virgo man and I am a Scorpio woman. We have been dating for 5 months and this is the best relationship that I have ever had. My Virgo man does get critical at times and grumpy and that can get annoying. But the attraction is definately there, He is also very affectionate and likes to cuddle, it must be something with the Scorpio woman that makes the Virgo man wants to cuddle :)
I'm a Taurus woman. Last year I was dating a Virgo man, and he was a bitter prick! Unfortunately, I had strong feelings for him and our history together made things the way that they are today. We got back together again, but I've broken it off again because I'm afraid that he's hurt me... again. I've actually fallen in love with him this time around. I know that he's been a little stressed lately and I didn't want to be a 'burden on his shoulders' so I broke it off. I don't know what to do anymore and am slowly giving up hope...
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