What makes an Aries woman nervous around a man?
If an Aries woman senses that a man will get in the way of her independence, or try to stifle her will in any way, she will feel like a caged animal. When you box in a mammal whose nature it is to thrust ahead, you elicit anger. When she realizes that she has no power to transcend this imposed limit, she feels anxious. Keep her locked in long enough, and she gets depressed.This is no way to treat an Aries, man! If an Aries woman gets antsy around you, it's a sign that you need to back off, give her some space. You cannot control the burst of new life that is Spring, so what makes you think you can control an Aries woman? It's like trying to prevent a bud from blooming. The force of nature cannot be contained.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 1/24/2007
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Failure. This applies to all areas of my life.
Anonymous,
I am not sure what you mean. Would you care to clarify?
As an Aries Sun and Mercury...it does make me nervous if someone is machismo or tries to push me around. Sure, I have a lot of Pisces and some Sag, which makes me more flexible, but that Aries can really rear its head if pushed. No one messes with HULK HANNAH! I don't like to be dominated (except occasionally in appropriate circumstances). I was telling someone just recently that I could NEVER ever marry another Aries because it would just be too much of a power struggle. OYE....
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Omg. yes. I am all about that antsy-ness I wasnt even sure where it was coming from until now. I'm aries sun, mars and venus. mercury and rising pisces.. taurus moon.
A guy that cannot handle me ohhh actually the worst is when reality does not hold to your expectations--that's the worst!
This is only true if you are already in an established relationship with an aries. I am an aries woman and what makes me act wierd or nervous around others exspecially men; are those few and far between people that intemidate me. This is not something that usually happens to me as an aries, but it totally trows me off and i act like a completely different person. If you find this is the case with the aries you know... ( you'll notice that they are different around you then others..ie.. seem more relaxed and talkative ) then I suggest that you try making them feel more comfortable by giving up personal infomation on yourself.. like funny stories or embarissing moments,, this always breaks the ice and making an aries laugh is a sure bet!
In relationships especially, men I perceive to be spineless and lacking in emotional strength seem to make me angry, whereas men who are possessive and bossy are the ones who make me truly nervous.
I was just reading what Anonymous wrote. I'm a female Aries, I can totally relate! I'm courageous in most things and with most people, but I tend to worry a lot when it comes to personal failures...I'm studying at the moment, and my career will involve a lot of practical skill. I often worry that I won't be able to achieve all that I need to. In the end, everything's fine and my friends say I worry too much.
And something else. I wonder if other Aries feel this way - I often assume, perhaps naively that other people will treat me with the same integrity that I treat them with.
And there is nothing more I like than shaking someone's hand when I first meet them - I reckon it's a good way to suss a person out. Maybe that's just something they told us at high school - to always give a firm handshake.
I'm an aries woman and what makes me nervous around a man is when they are too mysterious, when they can see through every front of mine, have unbearible control over my emotions. And the fact that they could possibly destruct my independence...
best stay away from the Scorpios then
Question for Anon. #1,
Do those include the failings of your partner?
Question for Hannah,
If you are accustomed to pushing, and under most circumstances, you push, then why can't you handle push back?
Question for Anon. #3?
Why have expectations?
“I do my thing and you do yours. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine. You are you and I am I, and if by chance we find each other, then it is beautiful. If not, it can't be helped.”, Gestalt prayer - Fritz Perls
Question for fireball,
Are you intimidated by figures of authority, or are you ill equipped to compete (intellectually, socially, etc.) with such men?
Question for cait,
What do you define as "lacking emotional strength?"
Conventional perception would indicate that an Arien seeks a man who is stoic, or impassive, and does not indulge in public displays.
Emotional strength to others may mean uninhibited reaction, or allowing the self to be naked to the world (no matter the cost)
Question for Ant,
Where is it prescribed that we must achieve all that we need?
“By seeing the seed of failure in every success, we remain humble. By seeing the seed of success in every failure we remain hopeful.” -
Author Unknown
A few questions for bree,
Hmmm... Doesn't an enigmatic man fuel the Ramette's curiosity?
Aries projects a facade?
Isn't the man who wins an Arien's heart intuitive to her deep-seated wants while not being invasive?
Emotions by definition cannot be controlled, maybe supressed... are you referring to manipulation?
How can another person destroy your independence?... you can chose to relinquish it... there's a difference
I would argue Aries becomes nervous when you angle them to be introspective... the sheen on their golden fleece doesn't glow as bright...
Lacking in emotional stregnth, for me, is a man who needs constant babying (reassurance) from me that he's attractive, good, successful, etc. If he can't handle my success and/or is threatened by me in any other way, that would count too. You might be surprised how few men have evolved to a place where they can truly love a strong woman!
Regarding emotional strength:
Strength can be a clever facade for frailty. A tin armour to cover the soft flesh underneath. Appearances are deceiving.
The strongest women are often the most vulnerable, and the ones who appear vulnerable are the strongest. Vulnerability can be a clever facade for strength.
Marilyn Monroe emitted an aura of innocent vulnerability. Yet in her natal chart, Mars conjunct Uranus in the 8th betrays a potently aggressive/independent sexuality, in a Grand Trine with her North Node and Saturn planet of discipline and restraint in Scorpio.
She knew exactly what she was doing in terms of using that certain sex appeal to get what she wanted. She was a very strong woman, and smart (Sun conjunct Mercury).
Her excellent acting skills in portraying the stereotypical dumb blonde fooled America into thinking she was that way in real life. That's how good of an actress she was. Neptune in Leo in the 1st house, all the way.
Norma Jeane Mortenson was a rather plain brunette, nondescript girl in her youth, but she did what it took to gain the $$$ and fame she worked so hard for.
"Her sex appeal, talent and untimely death combined to make her an enduring star and one of Hollywood's most recognizable icons. Her va-va-voom beauty made her an international celebrity, and she won acclaim as a talented actress in the films Bus Stop (1956) and Some Like It Hot (1959, with Jack Lemmon). Her personal life was famously untidy; her husbands included baseball star Joe DiMaggio (1954) and playwright Arthur Miller (1956-61). Her last film was Miller's drama The Misfits (1961, co-starring Clark Gable). She was found dead in 1962 of an overdose of sleeping pills, an apparent suicide."
Notice the above citation uses the word "apparent."
It is now believed that Marilyn knew too much concerning the Kennedy administration and related taboo connections. She had to be deleted.
I did her chart myself, in case anyone thinks I borrowed the material. The quote is from
www.astrologyweekly.com/natal-charts/marilyn-monroe.php
The rest pops out of her chart when I glance at it, because I have always been curious at the stigma attached to that name, Marilyn Monroe, the ethereal Gemini. Curiosity breeds interest, interest breeds passion, passion breeds obsession. I have an obsessive mind. It needs constant material to keep it stimulated. An idle mind is the devil's playground, my father always says.
"What makes an Aries woman nervous around a man?"
My sister is a 1976 Aries Fire Dragon. A burst of energy and light, a perky crocus popping out of the winter ground the moment the spring snow melts. She gets nervous when she has to do anything according to plan which isn't spontaneous. Daytimers and appointment books aren't in her vocabulary. When she wants something, it's now or never, hop-to-it or Hopalong Cassidy!
She is a very pretty girl so she's had a succession of boyfriends due to impatience and lack of foresight. What makes her nervous? Having to promise a man something. Promises are uttered in a moment of passion and made to be broken!
She's now in her 30's and still unmarried, and likes it that way. A few of these boyfriends have been naive enough to try getting a ring on her finger. That, makes her very nervous indeed.
what makes me nervous?? oh wow hmmm, giving up the control I have to someone whos not in control of themselves. That scares me to no end..
hi, i am an aries woman. People tell em that i am very hard to read, and that i am love sick. i guess what makes me nervous around a man is the sencse of dishonesty. i live in a city where there are 17 men to 4 women. all the people here are here for work and to make money and party..i have met many men in my life(which has barly started yet) and the thing that makes me nervous around a man is tryign to figure him out . i met this one guy that i couldnt figure out no matter how much a i talked to him or hung around him. he alwaya had something about him that was very mysterious. its hard for you to trust peopel in this city..and im sure pretty much everywhere else but i guess it depends where you have grown up and where u have been and experienced. all i want is to find my soulmate and i have been searching since boys had cooties.:) i went out with a sag, and it was susposed ot be my perfect match and we got along very well at the beginning . but near the end of it i had lost 15 pounds very rapidly and i about 5'1 so you could really see it on me , and i had stressed my self out to the point that i didnt even no who i was anymore. i had lost all sight of what i valued and wanted out of life because i had put my all and more into this relationship that seemed to be fading away. but by the end of it we were far beyong calling eachother names and getting into heated argument. we were totally fed up that the way he looked at me had changed in EVERY way . he looked at me with disgust and treated me bad, i am sure i added fuel to the fire but after a trip out of town with him i knew it was over. there was nothign there but resentment. i had spent 2 and a half years with him and it felt like i couldnt just let him go.BUT, then i met the most amazing man of my life..which he is gemini and we went out with friends and i hadent called him back because i had never really thought about it i was still thinking about the sagg, still wondering if there was a way i could make it work . but then he called me and we decided to go out with friends again and we hit off right away..haha i think my pickup line was how could someone so hot as yourself be single.(which was prob because he had just moved here ) and after that it waas like i was a little girl again..he always winked at me and gace me that big gemini grin and that intence stare of his . well we were dating for about a month or so and he had to move back home manitoba and had asked me to go with him . i was kinda weary about going because i hadent known him for very long ..after about 2 weeks of askign practically everyone i knew for advice about leaving with him i had come to the conclusion that i should stay here and see how things go ..well i thought it was over i thought i would never see him again he left and i was distraught for a couple days at work i was sad and couldnt stop thinking about him the radio seemed to play sad songs ALL the time which didnt help at ALL !!lol but we started talkign over the phone and he asked me if i was still comming down!? i was extacic!!!! i was so excited i took full oppurtunity this is my second chance and im gonna take it and make the BEST out of it .me being an aries i didnt even have to think about this one . so i am leaving on the 7th of june on bus and it will take me a day to get there ..i cannot wait to see him i still talk to him everyday and i love him so much and he says he loves me so we will see how things go ..he told me he could see him spending the rest of his life with me and it makes me so happy ..i have a month left not even till i leave and go see my baby, so wish me luck !!!!!!!! one day i promise you we will get married and have a bunch of little gorgeous babies. o and by the way the cutestest part of us is that i am almost 5'1 and he is 6'2!!! i love having to stand on my tippie toes to kiss him . but yeah wish me luck i cant wait to go !!!!!!!!
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