Should Taurus woman have sex with Pisces man?
A Taurus woman writes:A Pisces man wants to have sex with me and I him and we both have known each other for years, but what concerns me is the fact that he is rather pushy about the subject. He assures me that I won't be disappointed, and after being in a very sexually unpleasing marriage with a Scorpio man, I am scared to become sexually involved with the Pisces man. Should I be or should I allow myself the experience?You should wait until you feel safe. As a Taurus woman, you know your body is sacred and that you need to feel secure if you're going to share it with another. And God knows, Scorpio men know how to hurt those with whom they are intimate.
Your Pisces man ought to be sensitive and empathic about your fear. He probably has a pushy Mars. And of course, men can be overly focused on sex, but this guy's pushiness sounds like a red flag. Not that he's Scorpionically dangerous, but he's not listening to your resistance. Your Pisces man may very well be good in the sack, but how can you appreciate it if you're scared?
If you haven't already, communicate to him why you're holding back. If his response helps you feel comfortable taking the risking of being with someone new, then it's OK to "feel the fear and do it anyway," for sometimes all we need is a new experience to disprove old theories. However, if Pisces is not sensitive to your hesitation, then maybe your fear is justified.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 2/01/2007
8 Comments:
I want to say that I agree with holding off unless and until you feel safe, Taurus.
I don't have a real lot to add, but a sexual experience should be pleasant,warm even wonderful.
It's not a performance to be rated, not really.
But it's definitely not desirable if you feel pressured, or pushed!
Doubly so since you're a Taurus woman imo.
I'm a woman with Taurus moon, and it is very much the same with myself, too.
Welcome, K. Thanks for your recent comments.
As someone with a Pisces Moon, I have to say that sometimes Pisceans can be surprisingly insensitive. I don't think that's just my Leo Sun talking. My last bf was a Virgo Sun, Pisces Moon and he wouldn't listen to me either. Or maybe it was his Leo Mars that accounted for it. Hmm. You know what? I'll shut up now.
I suppose if Pisces doesn't like the reality of a situation, he can just delude himself and believe that his fantasy is the way things are. His poor listening skills do not come from insensitivity, so much as from spaciness.
However, I'm a Pisces, so I could just be defending myself.
I'm a double Taurus, sun and rising. I waited 13 years after a very bad marriage to go back into an intimate relationship. When I met my sweetie, I knew from the first kiss he was the one, and I jumped right in. Trust your gut instinct. When it's right, you will feel it to your toes. If it's not, you will be sorry. It's not a matter of signs it's a matter of ego. Don't let yourself be pushed into something you don't feel. It never works.
I had mixed emotion reading this post... typical of Pisces...
I empathize with the frustration this fellow feels...
sometimes when Pisces arrives at a decision... to be denied can be heartbreaking...
To K,
Is Taurus woman being pressured or is she experiencing cold feet?
To Marly (who shares the same major planets as my sis),
Insensitive, not Pisces... a fish who qualifies his virulent attack... yes...
To kiriecat,
I envy you... but, will say that I know couples who were "pushed"... and they unequivocally swear to the strength of their relationship...
I find it comical when some pass up opportunity because they don't "get the twinkle in their toes"
The question: Is this woman willing to lose this man by possibly not affirming their relationship?
How do you know whether we're not contending with his personal demons?
You should find his last girlfriend and talk to her first.
Get the goods on the guy. Never take a resume at face value. Especially since Pisces are such good liars.
don't be frigid.
go for it!
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