Scorpio and Sagittarius compatibility in the news
Fellow NY astrologer Diana Brownstone has alerted me to her astrological compatibility advice in the Pensacola News Journal. The journalist who consulted her is a Sag married to a Scorpio, and the Web sites he has consulted lead him to believe that they are not a good match:Astrology.com: "While Sagittarius may get fed up with Scorpio's stubbornness and inflexibility, Scorpio could be thinking their Sagittarius mate is just a little too hotheaded."
CrazyHoroscopes.com: "The Scorpio female is an emotional person who has a tendency to be jealous, whereas the Sagittarius male is the kind of guy who is outgoing, social and carefree."However, there's more to compatibility than Sun signs. Diana looked at the horoscopes of both the journalist and his wife, and found that the journalist had four planets (Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars) in Scorpio -- which aligns with his wife's Sun. Likewise, his wife has three planets (Venus, Mars, Uranus) in Libra, which is the journalist's Rising Sign.
The moral of this story? Don't buy the simplistic explanations on Sun sign compatibility (including those on this blog!). They are, by their very nature, generalizations. To get the full picture, consult a professional astrologer, purchase a respectable computerized report, or learn how to read charts yourself and consult a good compatibility cookbook.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 1/15/2007
6 Comments:
I am a sag women (12/20) married to a scorpio man (11/05). All of the compatibility charts say we wont last. Yes his relationshio is challenging at times but other times it is great. I am born on a cusp. What does that say about or compatibility?
Patrice,
If you are a Sag born right before the Sun moves into Capricorn, you are still a Sag, but there might be a feeling of being at the edge of a cliff, impatient to move into the next phase of the zodiac. I don't think this has anything to do with your compatibility with your husband. There are probably other factors (planets) in your charts that improve your compatibility.
I'm a Scorpio woman (11/20) interested in a Sagittarius man
(12/20). What I see in him so far, I like and I'm interested. But we're both born on cusps, what does that say about our compatibility?
People born on the exact cusp between signs are often eccentric and quirky. They are attracted to other cusp natives because of the kindred spirit thing.
Because cuspeans can vacillate between behaviour patterns of both signs (even though they are one sign or the other, most definitely) they can confuse others unintentionally and may be hard to pin down.
They often form fast and close friendships with each other.
I'm a Sag woman (12/16) dating a Scorp man (11/07). I met her 3 years prior to connecting in a relationship. We saw each other twice and then just kept in touch by email and messenger. I have no patience and hearing his stories of promises I was not concern. I use to chase him away and that actually made him chase harder. I told him don't contact me again until he is ready because I have a great life and don't need him. Well we didn't talke for about 1 1/2 years then he found me and asked me out on a date. I accepted his offer to go out.
I think Scorp men are crazy. They love the challenge and chase. He is great to me. I didn't tell him I loved him first he told me and it wasnt during sex. After 2 months into dating he set me up without my knowledge to meet his family but that was cool because they love me to death. He started telling me he love me, told me he been chasing me for 3 years and he is tired he feels like he was running a marathon. Well I finally gave in after about 6 months and it has been a ROLLERCOASTER RIDE, BUT I LOVE IT.
Astrology says Sag and Scorp are not a match I totally disagree. You must go into a relationship expecting nothing but accepting everything (as long as it is not hurt and pain). My scorp boyfriend is secretive, manipulative, controlling, cunning but his is also loyal, a great provider, great in bed, and although he doesn't say much he does listen. I find that I will tell him something, he doesnt respond but days or weeks later I will see the actions that shows he listen. Yes they are homebodies and like to sit privately in their own space. I say let them be. As a Sag we are very outgoing and sociable so I have learned to not entertain those times he wants to be alone. I let him sit in the den play his games, online, etc for hours and then I use this time to go out and be the social butterfly I am and go hang with friends, go get my nails done, etc. I believe Sag and Scorp are perfect if the Sag learns not to take things personal. When my boyfriend makes a statement about control, Ill play into his lil game I be like Yes Master, believe me its more fun than serious. He laughs or smiles when I do that and in return he comes back giving me what I need. Relationship is about give or take. As a woman I have no problem letting my man be a man. I am frivilous, spend my money on silly things, dont like responsibility and this is where my Scorp boyfriend comes in and teaches me to have a little discipline and patience. In return I don't give him the option to always sit home alone Ill go buy the movie tickets, concerts tickets..etc then tell him what I done then he gets excited and we have a great time. I don't know about cheating but I will say Scorp men attract women with their eyes and their personalities. I know I am a successful, beautiful woman because most Sags have high self esteem with our no care attitudes so I don't get jealous when other women try him or even his flirting. Will or has he cheated as most will say Scorpios will do, he may but I don't sit around looking for things. I enjoy the happy times in our relationship and don't dwell on our differences. I take advantage of his neggative traits to win in the end because when he comes out of his private time believe me thats when he will shower you with everything your heart desires. He always tells me how pretty I am and boast my self-esteem which is what I like. So I say the heck with astrology we been together 2 years now and Im loving this relationship and have never met a man quite like this Scorp. For the record all men can cheat regardless of his sign so just learn to have fun with your mate as long as there isnt abuse physical, mental, emotional and he supports you then ride on the coaster until it stops.
I recently went on a date with a Scorpio man (I'm a Sag woman} and it has been nothing but drama ever since our first date! I don't know what it is about him, but I stay and play his games because I am so incredibly drawn to him! It's true about a Scorpio mans eyes, they draw you in..I find him to be so intriguing although he drives me crazy! He and I are so different yet we can't seem to just end it lol. He is FLAKY to say the least and very inconsiderate. Yet he really doesn't see this! He's driving me nuts and is so totally opposite of me yet I can't put him out of my mind! What on earth is going on?!
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