How to get an Aries man to forgive you
It shouldn't be that hard. The Aries man drops things quickly if they bore him, and is not one to dwell in the past. Aries is in the ever-present NOW, engaged with whatever inspires him at this moment. It is almost as if he has no history. So why should he hold on to grudges? Most likely, he will express a burst of anger (or even rage), and then just let it go.If an Aries man has trouble forgiving, it could be that he has the Moon or Mars in fixed signs (especially Leo or Scorpio). Every man is complex, and his Sun expresses only one (albeit important) part of his personality.
Many Aries men have Mercury and/or Venus in Pisces, the most forgiving of signs. He might be a warrior-martyr, initially feeling irritated and then believing he deserved to be a victim of your errant behavior. Then you can forgive him!
Comment below: Have you had difficulty being forgiven by an Aries man?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 1/04/2007
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I am a Cancer female who recently had a strange relationship with an Ares Man. We met and immedialty became involved there was a connection like one I have never had before. I have always had relationship with Scorpio men. This Ares man adored me and we even spoke about a future together. Our relationship went on for about 4-5 months. the problem was he was fearful about getting in a realitonship although we were in one and I have a temper. I finally got exhausted with his over analysis and said a few unkind things and he vanished. He knows I am working on this anger thing and have improved and never in my life has someone just refused to communicate with me at all. I find it disturbing, even if we are not commited or even dating I value my friends and to be banished by someone is painful and confusing. I have tried contacting him but he made it evident he did not want me to bother him. There is no other women and we live a few hours away. We spoke on the phone 4-5 times a day until our break-up 3 weeks ago. He considers himself very spiritual and on earth to teach love....All my other boyfriends always stay close to me and I am not the type people want out of their lives. What can I do? Is there anything I can do? I am surprised I even care since he has acted like a spoiled child and did not have much to offer me but I cared about him. We are in our mid-fourties and he is acting like a 13 year old boy. I have not contacted him for a week since he has respondede so hatefully.
Confused Cancerian
Sounds like he's got a lot of planets in Scorpio with all the analysis and the way he just cut you off at the end.
Sun in Aries explains why he did it so abruptly, without a second thought. Aries is impulsive and does things on instinct, like a child.
Scorpio never goes back to cross a bridge he's blown up.
His pride could be especially fierce with a Leo Moon and the endless analysis could stem from a Virgo ascendant.
At any rate, he is not your average Aries and "strange" is a good word for your relationship. He feels he is on earth to teach love but he's got a strange way of going about it to be sure.
Cancer and Aries often start off like a house on fire but it seldom lasts, according to various sources.
Victoria, this sounds like you. How many identities do you have?
go away, I'm in a bad mood ;)
Thank you for your comments. I just looked at his chart and Surprise his riseing sign is Cancer! Mine is Sag. And his moon is in Virgo. I wrote him an apolgy for saying unkind words (ok so I said Slumming wasn't good for me...and we should not try to get out of our status..I admit not nice) I was hurt...no excuse but I am working on my temper. He didn't graduate from highschool and I went to an Ivy League, but honestly I loved his ingenunity and musical talent along with his other qualites...I really gave him an awful lot of support and help...he did not even respond to my truly heartfelt apology just asking to be friends. Well that is the last time I try...I am clear and if he needs to banish people then he has some issues. One of those individuals who refuses to acknowledge they have Any Anger...but use passive agressiveness and withholding to get back at you. Next time some guy mentions Karma or any New-age Donahue type verbage I am outta there! Give me a Manly hunter capitalistic Scorpio Anytime! they might sting you..but ooooh it feels good at least you know you have been Stung!
Aha, that oh-so-sensitive Cancer rising explains it then. Cancer is good at clamming it up under the sand when pissed. They don't really cut you off (so he could be back) but are famous for the passive-aggressive circuitous perpetual motion dance.
1: having a circular or winding course [a circuitous route]
2: not being forthright or direct in language or action [a circuitous explanation]
Have you ever watched a crab scuttle away when threatened? They never run straight because they can't. It's the way God made them ;)
Your Sagittarius rising spoke her mind, short on tact but high on truth, and he crabbed out. So what? You need a man who's in your league Florence-- "slumming it" is only fun when the birds are of the same feather.
sorry Jeff that was the crab in me
so we all have various identities with 10 planets 12 houses and umpteen asteroids flying around that belt, and this sun is a tad twisted on the cusp ;)
The fastest way to get any man to forgive you? Stage a surprise seduction with the best lingerie your money can buy. Then disappear off the face of the planet.
He won't be able to find you fast enough. In the interim you have time to think about whether you have time for all this funny business or if it is just too much work!
Sometimes unforgiven ain't so bad ;)
I am a Virgo woman 9/69 dating an Aries male 4/70. We met and the chemistry was amazing. Not just physically but spiritually. We connected on a level unbeknownst to me prior to meeting this man. We spent all the time we could together and when we couldn't we spoke on the phone several times a day at length. One weekend he wanted me to meet his son. We all spent an afternoon together...it was great! We kissed goodbye and he disappeared. He refused to speak to me. I have no idea what I did, said, or anything. When I have asked he won't tell me. He won't speak to me on the phone...only in text and email. He told me a few days ago that he missed me and that he cared...when I try to take that conversation further he retreats...no text or email. I don't know how to get through. I miss him so much. HELP!
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