How does a Leo girl win over a Capricorn man?
A reader asks: how does a leo girl win over (or win-back) a capricorn man. i am in love with him but he made many mistakes and i overreacted because im a leo and now i fear his opinion of me is forever damaged. how can i burrow into his heart like he did mine or more importantly, why am i so drawn to such a cold person?Your Capricorn burrowed into your heart because he's a patient digger. He'll work tirelessly to get what he wants. I'm sure once he got into your heart, he soaked in the heat for which his cold bones yearned. Yet what are you willing to do to reach his heart? If Cap had to burrow to reach a Leo's heart, you'll probably need an hydraulic hammer to break through the rock that covers his.
I have a feeling that Cap felt your overreaction was improper, or immature, and that he wishes you'd respond like a grown-up. "Working" your smile may not be enough. Capricorn will respect you when you act like dignified royalty instead of a petulant child -- both are equal expressions of the Leo archetype, but carrying yourself like a Queen will more likely gain his respect.
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Why are you drawn to such a cold person? There is no hot without cold. If you are the Sun, radiating warmth to the solar system, then Capricorn is Saturn, cold and defensive, shielding himself from galactic visitors with his protective rings.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 1/31/2007
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i am also involved with a cappy man and yes, they can be confusing to us Leos!!! i say just be yourself whether he likes it or not because i truly believe that cappies are drawn to us like flies to honey because we possess what they do not possess and that is the Sun's healing and radiating warmth!!! Just as we are drawn to them because secretly we want to be tamed and desire some restraint for our own good..if anything, its an interesting relationship as we are so opposite but really have more traits in common that meets the eye!!! We must give more than we recieve...it takes maturity (something we Leos are bad at LOL)...God knows, i love my cappy immensely but i dont feel it from him..i think he thinks i should just know...cappy men are not good at vocalizing so get used to it!!!
I was so happy to find this page! I have the same problem with my capricorn. I question all the time why I want to keep him in my life and I feel guilty about being myself when I get on his nerves!! I am glad I am not the only one.
I have fallen in love w/a Cap man and I am a Leo. We argue often but when I say I think we should not talk as often he says we don't talk that much now. We are not actually dating just in the first stages of getting to know each other. We flirt etc.
How do I know if he is into me? He is very hard to read! I want him in my life but he is quite assertive when we talk. He seems to want to be around me but he has a hard time expressing himself. We've known each other about 3 years. He has told me I am pretty, so I guest that's saying something.
NEED HELP, T.
Oh god... I love this page.
I think I'm infatuated with this cap guy... and boy, does he makes my head spins!
We knew each other for 3 years, but for the last 2 years I accidentally ignored him (HIS words :P) cos I was seeing somebody else. He claims to be hurt by that.
Now, we're getting really close but somehow tends to fight alot. He has this girl he has been dating for years but keeps on telling me that they're not in a relationship. (How can a Leo understand THAT? :P)
The thing is, eventhough he's dating this girl in another town... he still sleeps around and dates other girls. Soooo Mr. Big right? :P
And what's worse is that he keeps saying that he's attracted to me but never really try to get close to me...physically.
What to do?
I was just about to give up on him when I find this blog. And now, I'm more fired up to make him kneel!
But the thing is in our last argument, we had a big fight and now he has turned the temperature really low and still giving me the silent treatmen. ugh.
Help...
OMG! orchidrainbow I am going through almost the exact situation. Big fight involving me overreacting and then silent treatment. I think Capricorn males teach us leo's the value of patience (though it makes me rough on the edges sometimes to wait it out) and realize that we should also spend more time with ourselves and our thoughts.:) Of course, we can never be as secretive as Capricorns but it can help us think things and actions through. My cappy is very mysterious to me... I just wish I knew a way to make him kneel down too! Haha! But one thing I learned about Capricorns they have subborn down to a science that Leo's can never begin to comprehend.
ok i am a capricorn and i have such strong feelinds for this leo guy that i been dating but hes so god damn immature and i feel he is consistantly doing things to piss me off on purpose but i love everything about him. He just makes me feel different what do i do? HELP
Read all about it on Seduction Central!
http://jeffreykishner.com/astrology/love/2007/08/loving-immature-leo.html
if that doesn't work try typing "immature Leo" in the search bar on the upper right of this forum
"if Cap had to burrow to reach a Leo's heart, you'll probably need an hydraulic hammer to break through the rock that . . ."
from SC discussion 1/31/2007
oooooooooooh help me , i'm a leo girl and his cap. , i know him from a year and from the first month he started to say that i'm one of the best girls he'd ever know and he's proud to know me ...etc
and every know and they he does things that made feel that he likes me and actually i loved him , i love his thoughts his way ,.... anyway i made a BIG MISTAkE ,i told him that ilove him , he was shocked and then he asked me to remain as friends and that i won't change with him , abd he started to change , he's still caring but he's shy ( or cold) to talk with me when we meet as before and his eyes is always trying to say something , i can't get , can someone help me what can i do
This was an intresting site...intresting to see I am not the only Leo girl madly in love/lust with a capricorn man. My CAP is 6 yrs older than I. We have known each other 5yrs but have not explored the conversation of having a relationship. I tell you what though, if I was'nt so proud and bull headed I would have asked him about progressing our relationship. Needless to say he hasn't either. So we basically just have a sexually relationship.
Speaking of...this CAP man can make me wet just by thinking about him, hearing his voice over the phone, anticipating seeing him. We have the best conversations, never argue, but we do debate certain issues. He is a almost perfect man!
Now for the bomb shell!!!
He is so distant...I wish he would come out and say I am in love with you or I like being around you...I know he does because of our times spent together but he never says what I want to hear...
I like to spoil my CAP too. But that is a God given trait of any LEO...we will smother our cubs and man in lavish gifts until they show to be unappreciative. I have been behind on my mortgage and I would take my mortgage money just to buy him an expensive gift...
Call me crazy but I gurantee I an not crazy by myself.
I want to get married to my CAP...he rubs my body in the most perfect way. He whispers in my ear as we make love with the most passionate voice...and I can feel us connected minutes before he even enter my body. He is smart and dresses to kill. He has a smooth monotone voice that is all so seductive.
But why have we been friends for 5yrs and no proposal or even "hey let's date"?
Well, I tell you why...he is a CAP.
Enough said...
This was an intresting site...intresting to see I am not the only Leo girl madly in love/lust with a capricorn man. My CAP is 6 yrs older than I. We have known each other 5yrs but have not explored the conversation of having a relationship. I tell you what though, if I was'nt so proud and bull headed I would have asked him about progressing our relationship. Needless to say he hasn't either. So we basically just have a sexually relationship.
Speaking of...this CAP man can make me wet just by thinking about him, hearing his voice over the phone, anticipating seeing him. We have the best conversations, never argue, but we do debate certain issues. He is a almost perfect man!
Now for the bomb shell!!!
He is so distant...I wish he would come out and say I am in love with you or I like being around you...I know he does because of our times spent together but he never says what I want to hear...
I like to spoil my CAP too. But that is a God given trait of any LEO...we will smother our cubs and man in lavish gifts until they show to be unappreciative. I have been behind on my mortgage and I would take my mortgage money just to buy him an expensive gift...
Call me crazy but I gurantee I an not crazy by myself.
I want to get married to my CAP...he rubs my body in the most perfect way. He whispers in my ear as we make love with the most passionate voice...and I can feel us connected minutes before he even enter my body. He is smart and dresses to kill. He has a smooth monotone voice that is all so seductive.
But why have we been friends for 5yrs and no proposal or even "hey let's date"?
Well, I tell you why...he is a CAP.
Enough said...
^^^^ Sistah you took the words outta my mouth!!
Yep I've had the "3 years as friends with bennies" relationship thing going on with my Cappie guy,and everytime I bring up about being a couple I get the excuses and the cold shoulder toward realtionships. WHY??? are cappies so against relationships? Being part of a couple? He says he doesn't want to rush things.
Being a Leo I want romance and all that...I get "I love you" at the end of a phone call,I should be happy with that.
I dunno why this guy just fascinates me,but he does...
I'm glad I'm not the only Leo with a Cappy guy!
omigoodness...i am a leo, who fell in love with my cap the first moment i saw him, which happened to be 15 yrs. ago!!! the sad thing is, both of us have always been in a relationship with someone else and when there was an opportunity to be exclusive, the timing just wasn't right. i have been content with having him in my life(from a distance)and went 5 years without seeing him, only conversing by phone. in that time i feel deeper in love with this man and finally last yr, we agreed it was time to see each other again. that chance encounter was bitter sweet. i can remember it like it was yesterday. the problem is, since our meeting, he has totally and completely cut me off. he won't take my calls, texts, or anything. we never even had a follow up conversation about how good it was to be with each other after being apart for so long. and you leo's out there already know that no one does it better than a cap! this is torture! it's been 8 long months and i still can't believe this has happened to our relationship. it's so hard for me to fathom that someone who used to be a fixture, albeit at a distance, in my life, is suddenly not there anymore. i am in so much pain. and i am also angry that someone can have such a strong hold over my emotions. i had no idea he had this in him. i am learning a lot about this sign and it's so hard to accept........
OMG! i thought i was only the person who's suffering from this situation. well guys, i should say mine is a very ESTRANGED STORY! call me rain. i just met this guy in bar. even dance with a guy while this cappie guy approached me and ask my number infront of my partner! since im a leo i was so damn amazed of his confidence and that made him sooooo irresistable. so there we dated. to cut the story short, we had it as one night stand! yes it is! for me it was all just a game and lust! we met and have it many times. but i know we both we're very much attracted to one another. thought that he was just like other men. the game ended, i had a new guy that was libra. i told my cappie "game's over" to my surprise, he wanted to see me out cz for him it wasnt the way it was. he said at first it was but he felt there was somthing. so the nyt he ask me to become his gf. i told him i need time and since he knew i had a bf already. he tried to understand. at one time he ask me if i got "intimate" with guy(libra) and i answered him straight yes! so girls really, at that time there was a big change! i mean he changed a lot. to me i was just being honest to him. everything in me. coz i could not afford or pretend to the guy i thought i didnt loved. but damn its been more than a year now we're just "like this" the status seems to be like on hanged. he doesnt talk and same here. i was always the one who makes the communication between us. thinking that it will still work. but now, i dont know. all i know is he's concern whenever i message him in his phone that i felt bad on that day. u see my friends have been saying that he doesnt deserve all the effort ive been giving him. been saving money surprsing him gifts just to make him happy. hahaha i love everything about him. and i admit that i am crazy about him. i dont know why. but i can sense it he likes me i know. i know it to myself that he cares for me. damn this guy! wish i had an amnesia to stop this crazy thing i feel for him cause it always hurts me when he's cold. and i know that there is a third party he just hiding it from me. its been a year that im doing all the routines everyday sending him message whenever i saying good nyt! morning etc.! hahaha call me crazy but i just cant get enough of him! i love my capricorn guy! hehehe
OMG OMG OMG
im going throught the same situation.
he has girlfriends, yet he wonders, and i feel like he gravitates mostly to ME. he's much older than me but i need that since im a single young mother. he drives me crazy!! one minuite i think i have him figured and the next he dissapears and im left like WHAT?? LoL and like a typical Leo i try ALL my charms but its so hard to IMPRESS him!
UGH these Capricorn MEN are going to drive us CRAZYYY!!!!
=]
Wow. Ladies I must agree! I am head-over-heels infatuated with a Capricorn man. They are unreachable, they exude confidence, they are certified assholes, yet it gets to us Leo girls...because in a way we want that firm hand in a relationship lol. I went as far as to cheat on a relationship I was in with a Taurus *yawn* with this man and it may be awful but I don't feel bad. Well, I am a mother as well and I feel like he possesses the perfect qualities to be "the man" of the house. It's good to know you ladies feel like I do, and your just as dramatic and emotion filled as I! Now I am just working on reeling in the catch but it's very difficult. Perhaps its just a game he's playing? But I wish to outwit him with every inch I can. Three soon to be four years of this emotional roller coaster & I am still on the ride.
Much luck to you ladies & a big hug to my Lionesses.
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