Should I challenge a Virgo man and show him that I am not easy to catch?
Can you play hard-to-get with a Virgo man?I don't think Virgo's all that interested in a challenge, unless he's trying to improve his skill-set. He may analyze the most efficient way to chase a not-easy-to-catch woman, but he's more into improving his game than winning the prize.
In other words, I think your plan will backfire. You've got two things working against you: his element is Earth and his mode is Mutable. Earth signs are not exactly noted for their immediate, passionate responses -- they are more cautious and slow to act. And Mutable signs disperse energy -- your Virgo man has difficulty mobilizing himself to pursue you. Mutable signs are mentally-focused -- he may just think about how he'd catch you.
Comment below: How has the Virgo man responded to your playing hard-to-get?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/19/2006
7 Comments:
Ditto... As a virgo man, I can tell you that most of us are so literal, that if you demonstrate that you are not interested, he'll take it for what it appears at face value, and move on.
Be direct, tell him exactly how you feel, and put the ball in his court from there. Virgos don't like games, so if you do, you may not be all that compatible to start with.
OKAY HERE WE GO .. THIS DR. I AM TALKING TO IS A VIRGO. ( I KEEP TELLING YOU I KEEP RUNING INTO A LOT OF VIRGO MEN THIS YEAR FOR SOME REASON..)LOL.. ANYWHO...THIS GUY HE WANTS ME BUT I HAVE BEEN GIVING HIM A FIT BECAUSE I WILL NOT SUCCUMB TO HIS ADVANCES. NOW YES I AM ATTRACTED TO HIM. NOW THAT HE THINKS HE HAS ME I AM INVITING HIM TO DINNER SOON. HE SEEMED TO CALM THE FUCK DOWN.. NOW MIND YOU. HE THINKS HES GETTING SOME BOOTY. SO I DONT THINK SO. I KNOW IT WILL PISS HIM OFF. BUT HES USED TO HAVING HIS WAY. AND I SEE THAT.
Hard to get does not work on we Virgo's, we will see right through that game immediatly, keep in mind we are VERY observant people. And once we see a game being played we will forever decide that you are an undecisive person and we will quickly move on to the next conquest, although we just might not tell you, we expect for you to see the change in our attitude.
im a virgo male ... and well almost 18 .... now in my case i love a girl that acts hard to get i love the challenge of making them like me ... ^^ So in some cases to get may be good because i love it ...... but then once i have them im bored and then i must start my quest to find another hard to get girl so be warned
you know your wishy washy.. be for real dude. you do not know what you want. i know the truth hurts i dealt wiht my virgo ex boyfriend to long to understand how virgo men work they are a piece of art... they drive you batsh--t crazy.
i would like to get my virgo back we have some trust issues , he seeing someone else right now i am just dating. so how he said to me he does not love this new person . when i call him he does return my calls so what can i do to get him back. its only been a month. but i miss him he says he miss me to but he wont act on his feelings.help!! i am a sagittarius
I'm a cancer woman and seem to attract a lot of attention from Virgo men. Chemistry is always great, but they are very cautious. All of the Virgo men in my life have waited at least two years before they ever tell me they want more, although they definitely hint at it prior to that time. It's okay to show you're not easy, but if you truly want him, just be yourself--he'll be analyzing you. Ultimately, he'll let you know his intentions.
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