I lost my Taurus man
I'm sorry. I wish I could say something to provide you solace.You did not ask your search engine for advice -- you simply shared your grief, hoping that google would offer some comfort-providing links, an URL whose content would fill this gaping void that was created the moment your Taurus man left you.
It hurts, yes, I know. But sometimes the web does not help at times like this. It is all too tempting to search for meaning in text, but we risk intellectualizing away our pain.
Your Taurus man might tell you, at a time like this, to just feel the ache in your body. Go into it. Deeply. Or derive comfort through pleasing sensations: walk barefoot on smooth rocks, take an aromatherapy bath, get some bodywork. Your Taurus man may have let you down, but you always have Mother Earth on whom you can depend. It is her consistency and breathless silence that will get you through this.
Comment below: How have you coped with losing a Taurus man?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/07/2006
8 Comments:
I've had a couple of Taurus men. The first one, I left him, and he waited 2 years for me to come back to him. When I didn't, he cut me off and refused to speak to me again. Talk about unforgiving.
The 2nd one was too stubborn to try to work through our problems, but he also wouldn't leave. He abandoned me emotionally, but stayed. So I finally had to put him out, at which point I promptly fell to pieces. Talk about a void! My life was so empty after he left. I lost everything in the world that meant anything to me. That was four years ago, and I'm just now getting used to it.
Meanwhile, I'm hooked on yet another Taurus, and I'm wondering when this sickness will end. Tauruses are the most difficult men in the world to love, but they're the only ones who move me.
What you need to understand about us tauruses is that we are very affectionate, will do anything for the ones we love, and will love you to death. Yes, it takes alot for us to actually leave-you can do anything from cheating on us to treating us like crap and we will stay and stay until we reach the point where you make the icing on the cake. It may even be the smallest thing that sets us off but it's really every bad thing in the back of our minds all rolled in 1 and then we will leave you-ruthlessly. But a Taurus will only leave when he is completely fed up. To keep us around, just be affectionate, but definitely not needy. We love the little gestures-you know what they say it's the little things that count. If you pull away we will probably chase you but beware-we will always keep that in the back of our minds and it may come to bite you in the ass later in the relationship. Also, we can be extremely jealous so talking about exes and flirting w/other guys is a definite no no!!! Just don't act shady, don't change all the time (taurus is def a very very fixed sign), and don't make us do more than 1 thing at a time ;O)
Remind me not to get one in the first place.
I hear you. Mine was pretty mean and ran off to marry someone else without enev telling me after about 2+ years of being together. One suggestion, get an evening job if your so miserable you can't sleep,and take classes, get two jobs and keep music or movies on all the time so you can't think when it first happens. Then get involved in clubs or volunteer work. Meet new people, go on vacation. It helps.
Tauruses aren't all that bad, we just don't know how to end things whether it be a relationship, job, or a friendship. But take comfort in knowing that if your taurus did leave you for someone else, he's eventually going to feel really bad about it because we are usually naturally sympathetic. And also remember that karma's a bitch! You know what I do when I'm going through all the bullcrap of a breakup-I get my cards read, but only by someone I trust. I've been through a few til I finally found the right one. It's not always that you need to know what the future holds, but it gives you insight and piece of mind into how to handle your situation. Having your cards read can also give you some hope, that there will be a new and better beginning and you won't be stuck feeling this way forever.
Taurus don't know how to end things... hmmm. My taurus boyfriend just broke off our relationship and i don't think he's dating anyone else and i didn't cheat on him. I think he got scared of his feelings, posibile relocation for him due to a job, and me being a little more demanding. (i'm a Leo.)
Is there anyway to get him back? We haven't had any contact for two weeks since he initiated the break-up.
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@tauruslover, Asking a question in the comments section is not always the best way to go if you want a response. I suggest becoming a member at the forum or clicking on "Ask Jeff a Question."
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