How to win a Scorpio back after you have hurt him
Scorpio men do not take kindly to being hurt. Scorpios hold on to resentments as tightly as a sphincter holds on to water. A fixed water sign, he is stubborn when it comes to emotions. Scorpios don't trust easily in the first place, because they are all too aware of how one can be wounded in intimate relationships.Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet that digs deep into experience, rooting out secrets and suppressed memories. Pluto is associated with manipulation and abuse of power. The Scorpio man is well-acquainted with the methods of torture used in the Underworld, and hence does not like to be on the receiving end of such barbaric techniques.
Even though the Scorpio man does not let go easily of his resentments, his zodiac sign is also the most transformative. Pluto rules the death-rebirth process. Scorpios hold tight, but they also periodically become devoured by the flames of regeneration.
As he rises from the ashes, your Scorpio man will have let go of his anger. However, there's nothing you can do to initiate this process. Pluto works by his own mysterious schedule.
You cannot win back a Scorpio, but if you're patient he might forgive you.
How long do you want to wait?
Comment below: Have you been reunited with a Scorpio after having hurt him?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/06/2006
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Being a scorpio, I would never injure a fellow scorpio... not intentionally anyway. Suprisingly to some I have many scorpio friends, I would just not date one.
I cuddled him for hours and hours. Both our Moons are in Taurus:)
Would never hurt a Scorpio, not intentionally. The price to pay is too high and besides they always disappear before you can do anything, really. Being nice to a Scorpio pays big dividends. Just do it, or disappear yourself if you don't so they can't find you first.
I am a Leo,my boyfriend is a Scorpio.He left me for his mother mid Nov 2007,missed me and came back early Dec 2007.Our relationship is nothing but a battle,his mother lives in his house,he pays for we stay in my apt.She acts more like a jealous girlfriend/wife than mother.He asked me if I was w/ anyone else during our breakup, my heart told me to be honest,he has been punishing me for over a yr now mostly emotionally,treats me like I am an unworthy slut,I regret my last 4 yrs w/ him,a waste,and he sucks in bed cuz he's a mama's boy! Ladies beware Scorpio and Gemini (that's another story) if you are Leo.
Error this all took place mid Nov 2006 thru early Dec 2006. My apologies!
Cut the apron strings! Stay away from Mama's boys. These are wolves in sheep's clothing. Spoiled rotten and expect their girlfriends to do all the work in every department. The guy secretly hates being controlled by his mother even though he allows it, the conditioning is subconscious and goes back to his childhood, too deep for you to penetrate. Contrary to popular belief, love does not conquer all.
I'm a Pisces and he's a scorpio. Enough said right? I feel lost without him and wish to get lost in his gaze once again. I lied and I know that is the worst thing you can do to a scorpio. I just want to get past this and move on.
So then find yourself and move along. And don't lie to any more Scorpios unless you want to lose them. It's a good way to rid yourself of the pesky kind; there's an upside to deliberate lying. Unless they're wise to it and expect that you will do so, then you're playing a tricky game indeed.
i hurt my scorp man to the UTMOST!
and 3.5 years later, and bad relationships (on both ends) after, it just took a bit of apologizing to get him back.
my apologies were sincere, no doubt...and a bit of scorp-on scorp "bumping in the night (and afternoon, and day)" definitely didn't hurt.
if you want him back, it can be done...just beware of his NON-scorp ex...HAHAHAHA!
make sure you give it to him howEVER he likes/wants/thinks about it, and the ex shant be an issue.
I'm a scorpio man. I have been hurt by a sagitarius. It was unintentional (it wasn't cheating if you're thinking about that).
I was looking how scorpio men rise up again after a break up, because I can't rise yet. Just too weak now :(. Sometimes I feel I can fight it, but somedays (like today) I can't.
I'm a Taurus and my b/f is a scorpio with a taurus moon.
He caught me chatting with someone on myspace a week after we broke up. He hacked into my account!
He called me every name in the book and said I was wrong for moving on too fast.
It took 3 days of crying and 1 of apologizing before he forgave me. But we'd been together for 3 yrs.
Great makeup sex ;)
Maybe there is something with this Astrology. I am a Scorpio and have turned into a total creep. I have been married for almost 8 years and not once did i suspect my wife cheating. She started talking to male friend she just met and since i have lost my mind. She insists he is just a friend, but I went trough her records, emails, bank account etc. to find out who this person is. She lied more then once about this man. We are now separated and i am planning to file for divorce as soon as i can.
Sounds like Scorp material to me!
Especially the part about the research. Count on a Scorp to do his homework ;)
"How to win a Scorpio back after you have hurt him"
It can't be done. Sorry.
The whole idea is that your traitors and abusers feel false security in thinking you will not bother with revenge and that you will forget the matter by simply “freezing them out.”
No, as a bonafide certified triple Scorpion (quadruple if you include my ascendant) I believe the best way to deal with such horrible people is to torment them. Aim below the belt. Knife behind the back. Get them where they deserve it, when they least expect it.
Get these mortal offenders so paranoid, they are constantly expecting you to pop out of the shadows and out of the murky water like a gator lurking in the slime of their subconscious ready to devour.
Why? Because they asked for it.
What about moon scorpio if you upset them is it worse as there emotional state is represented by the moon sign influence.I recently had a big argument with a leo man whos moon is in scorpio.I also dont think he will apologise.I am a capricorn with moon in libra.
I am an aries sun/libra mooon & capricorn mars & Pisces venus woman.I seem to have had relationships with Virgos, Scorpios and Pisces.
Virgo men I find fickle emotionally & whenever they are down you have to be to!
I broke up with a Virgo after 3 years, he was being controlled by his emotionally manipulative cancer mother! his mother would send me these awful notes, only two weeks into our relationship,it was the first time I ever had a partners mother that involved in a relationship.
A few weeks into our relationship, the virgo and I went out to see a performance and I had a deep long stare into a Scorpio's eyes only for a few seconds, I was not flirting and the virgo was standing behind me...I thought about this person a few weeks after that but then forgot about it over two years or so...then he came back into my mind...I contacted him after I broke up with the Virgo...the Virgo found out that I was communicating with the Scorpio so the Virgo didn't want me to be happy, he tried to come back and weave his way back into my life...
when I firstly communicated with the scorpio I told him that I remembered him all those years ago and he was very forthcoming and would sign his emails with love..but I found the more I talked about others and not us, the more he closed up...I needed time to process my breakup with the Virgo and I let the Scorpio know this and he stopped talking to me..I didn't want to bring the patterns of that relationship into what we had because I love him...he doesn't realise that - this is the pisces in me! He won't respond to me but he still makes his presence known to me in our creative circle...I feel like I am changing in many ways but what I feel for him hasn't changed....
i dated a scorpio male for 6 years. and he found out some things i had done to him and we worked it out. but he was still upset. and when he's done with something he's done. now he comes back around saying he loves me and misses me. whats that about?
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