How to know if a Pisces doesn't like you
Are you in a relationship with a Pisces man? Pisces copes by withdrawing into fantasy and mind-altering substances. If you are in a relationship with a Pisces man and he does not like you, he will escape -- to the movies, to the local watering hole, or into his own mind, staring out the window while he imagines his ideal woman.Are you interested in a Pisces man? You'll know he doesn't like you if he doesn't notice you. Pisces is so often in another world that it takes something compelling to bring him back to earth. He can tune someone out if she doesn't interest him, like a radio that ignores all but one frequency. Or to be more Web2.0: If you're not on his iTunes playlist or at least recommended in his "Listeners Also Bought" section, then the best you can do is play your song on your MySpace page and hope he responds to your invite.
Comment below: What are the signs you've picked up on when a Pisces doesn't like you?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/15/2006
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I have a Pisces moon. When I was unhappily married, I would spend hours and hours online! So, you've hit the nail on the head ALTHOUGH I will also add that if I was happy with a boyfriend and I was reading a great book, nothing could tear me away from reading it. I've had boyfriends hide books so that I could pay attention to them. That's not the best strategy, however.
Yes, a Pisces will escape into a good book/DVD/mp3 anytime, regardless of her contentment in a relationship. Especially with a Pisces Moon, that's how you comfort yourself!
I was forever upsetting my pisces father. He was a master at ignoring, he didnt need to use a book, music or tv either. He could just look past you.
That sounds pretty withering. Do you know anything else about your father's chart? I wouldn't associate Pisces with such coldness.
About the Pisces father being a master at ignoring, I can relate to that because I do that when I'm upset or angry at someone although I hate myself for doing that.
Giving the silent treatment and ignoring are like self-defense mechanisms with me.
And Jeff, in case you're interested ( cause I'm interested)
I'm Pisces Sun
Gemini Moon
Pisces Mercury
Aquarius Venus
Gemini Mars
Aquarius Jupiter
Gemini Saturn
Libra Uranus
Sag Neptune
Libra Pluto
Taurus Rising
Pisces Anonymous with Gemini Moon, Yes I can relate as well. I'm a Pisces and am a master of tuning people out if I really want to (or if I just feel overwhelmed by them).
Very interesting. I will admit that my boyfriend goes online every day. Throughout the day and in the evening, never for long but off and on. I don't know if he is searching for his ideal woman (that's me lol) but he's always done this even when we were friends.
Escaping is a defense mechanism? I would love to read more about this as I have a VERY imaginative Pisces. Initially, I wasn't sure if he was mental or not because of how "out there" some of his tales were. But, I am chalking it up to him being Pisces the Dreamer. Can anyone shed some light? TIA. His chart is:
Rising Sign - Gemini
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Capricorn
Jupiter - Aquarius
Saturn - Gemini
Uranus - Libra
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
N Node - Capricorn
That's cause they look right past you and into the mirror.
It's a sign that can't pull itself from itself.Scorpio is of destruction but pisces is different.pisces is forever dieng, its introverted feelings.I wouldn't say they do it like the scorpio does (extroverted ''meaning transforming by breaking you down''), which is out of pure coldness (self-centered vampires) but the pisces just see everything from within themselves first.
I would say this is the wrong way to go about it.Don't you notice how a scorpio masters a pisces due to dwads.scorpios are calcaulated and become ''passive aggressive''.
pisces can only help itself by look further into the black void.
so, if you wanted to ever get a pisces back but with good intentions, they need their time alone.it's a mutable sign.i can understand that, im a gemini.
they eventually come around.
but if you have bad intentions like the majority of scorpios, the pisces aborbs...it will, in time, swim away.
In response to Nikkie's opinion (and that's all it is), you are so wrong about Scorpios. You see, I am a Scorpio and do not appreciate a Gemini mis-informing the public. I am being kind with my words :) You've obviously been stung by a Scorpio...trust me, you must have done or said something hurtful, because we are so loyal, only to those deserving of it!!
I have my opinions about the loyalty of a Scorpio as I do not have any examples (Scorps) to go on. I think that inssecure Scorpios need you to be loyal to them. They want to be put on a pedestal in your world and that the minute you turn away for a second to give your attention to something that needs it more they start getting the stinger ready.
They are the authors of fool me once. Another guy came up with the Fool me twice lol. If you make a fool of them then you definitely are screwed and it doesn't matter if it was by accident. You will pay. So, you don't have to do anything awful to be stung by a Scorpio.
IMO, anyone who dares date a Scorp needs to do some research on DO's adn DON'T's because it just may save your life as their wrath will make you wish you were dead.
yes, pisces father's ignore ALOT from my experience, it doesn't seem to be out of anger, even when he's happy he's always a little away like he's planning something...I do not think I've been able to have a conversation with him about his feelings ever...or that we've had any interaction regarding feelings in general for maybe more than 30 seconds....he will extensively talk to me about politics, school, etc...but in general he does not like to open up to ANYONE in particular...
I also have an aries brother with a moon in pisces, and he used to play alot of computer games when he was little which I found annoying and never understood really(this relating to the comforting thru reading, online, etc commment), he has an uncanny ability to know when I'm mad or upset , what kind of mad, and whether he should try to discuss it or just leave me alone just as I walk past him...(im a scorpio btw)...in fact he has on many many occasions been able to say exactly the words i was thinking in my mind when I only look at him WORD FOR WORD and I mean whole sentences worth, and honestly i don't like the fact he can read me that well emotionally....
what I really wanted to post here was that I read alot about scorpio being the taker and pisces the giver in any interaction....but with him even my mom (whose a cancer) tells me to lay off and stop advising him all the time and stop trying to sacrifice my energy and time on him, i am overly overly protective of him (to a degree that scares me) to the point where I could not stand if someone even picked him up when he was younger, accusing my mom of not "protecting/monitoring him enough" (of course she did I see that now, but to me it was a new baby, I was very young, and my sole mission in life was to preserve the life of that baby, whereas she had like a dozen responsibilities)...I act more rational and detached OUTWARDLY now, but that impulse is still there..like he needs constant protection... I find myself getting irrationally jealous if he he has too many friends or if they come over too much, and he is very nice and outgoing so that is also an area where i worry about him trusting people so easily,anyway most of the time he appreaciates it, but I noticed he can get INCREDIBLY furious with me when I drive him to be more ambitious or work harder (i have a mars in capricorn) and then his getting mad at me makes me feel so bad that I upset him because he is such a gentle nice guy he never gets angry & cold (he does have 3 planets in cappie) so it makes me think I did something unforgivable to get someone so sweet to get so angry i'm walking around wondering what I did wrong...(at times it comes down to me openly accusing him of being too lazy and easily being taken in by people & him saying i'm a cruel, mistrusting, control freak who dislikes people when we do argue or clash, even though it's always the "silent fight" (i don't know how to explain this form of fighting, its their favorite, although we both do have many planets in cappie too)that really hurts me...his way of expressing it though is never really cruel or harsh, without saying a word he can fully communicate to me what I did wrong, why it made him mad, and what I need to do so that things will be okay...so yeah they do ignore you, but in my case most of the time we don't even need to talk before we know we're ABOUT to make each other mad, or even express what we need to do to make things okay again if we ALREADY have it's like we can totally read each others emotional needs (if not slightly our thoughts..emotions moreso though)...and we are never able to stay angry angry at each other..so that is good....
oddly though even though I am more controlling and "boss him around more", thus getting angrier at him more, his getting angry at me carries more "weight"...again don't know why, if it's because he's so gentle, or rarely made upset, or if its because he's just sneakier and I am not :)
No one can freeze you out faster and colder than a Scorpio. Pisces pouts and pretends but Scorp means it for real. And there's no turning back. Pisces is mutable and swims both ways. Scorp is fixed in stone when baked. Petrified rock. Frozen over like the ice in Antarctica. The only way to get through that ice is to melt it. And then you got a flood on your hands, and that's worse.
The cool thing about Scorp is sometimes you don't know when you've been frozen (out). Especially if the buggers have friendly air Ascendants or Moons.
You see their Ascendants and all looks fine; you feel their Moon, which still feels fine. But that Scorp Sun knows exactly what he's doing (or she, whatever)
Yes, colder, but faster than a scorpio? I don't think so, they don't usually get irritated easily or even make hasty decisions, their tolerance level really needs to be shattered for them to do that....if you are a casual acquaintance or friend, then YEAH...VERY FAST, because before they even are connected to someone (all possible relationships), that other person may have brought some kinda ugliness into the relationship, and they figure "if they are such a hassle, if its THAT soon and uncalled for - I mean why are you even mad, we don't even mean anything to each other/know each other -, why even bother with all the dramatics", the person has to prove they are a damaged freak who just snaps for no reason or creates trouble for them (even before a link is made) to be frozen out QUICKLY but many scorpio also only "pretend to be mad" if they love the people (family usually)... And yes after the tolerance has been tried, there is no turning back or re establishment....example...had a best friend (oddly still consider her my "only" best friend, like it was a position that was filled and now isn't available anymore) put up with her antics for many many years (12 to be exact)...took me the last 3 years to cut her off completely, but now I never ever mention or ask about her..people tell me about her..and it's just I feel nothing for her, not hate, sympathy, or I wish we could be friends...nothing...I feel no happiness at her misery if I hear of it, nor desire to help her though...so yeah the turning back will never happen....
Pisces are much much more compassionate/spiritually evolved/mature I feel, a pisces will only pretend to be mad to get what they want, or get you to see things their way...
they may also freeze you out, but it's just if you were draining too much of their energy, their psychic energy is easily drained/troubled...
but many pisces are lazy, shady, and far far more manipulative than scorpio (I have never met one straightforward pisces yet), their manipulation is such that you do not know UNTIL after they have acheived their purpose, and they will manipulate a loved one more than a scorpio because a scorpio will confront a loved one UPFRONT and POINT BLANK (they are not afraid of the tension they may cause), but a pisces is afraid of that especially with someone they are close to....
I would just say a pisces can forgive you even if they CONTINUE to not like you, whereas a scorpio WILL NOT although few will ever verbally give off that they dislike you unless they have alot of air/fire(but they have to have been pushed awfully awfully hard - they have a very high tolerance for arguments, hard times, and an incredibly masochistic side emotionally, would say more than a pisces - to cross over to that side) ....
I am not easily angered, but some things that are off limits (acquaintances may see this more openly,but loved ones only if they betrayed me or hurt a loved one I am closer to), you will never know verbally (by the avoidance sure you will), and I will never admit to it if confronted, but I would never let that stupidity/drama back into my life, a scorpio only puts up with emotional drama/psychological suffering/hard times if they ALREADY love you and you are loyal, then they will stick in their until the other party says to leave them the heck alone, but definitely NOT if you are just someone they are getting to know, that's a venture they won't take
Wow! That was good. I stand corrected and you are absolutely right, Scorpio is slow to reach the boiling point. Yes, they can scald you with 2nd degree burns if you let it go that far. I read what you wrote twice over and it's really good. I'm quicker on the draw than the average Scorp simply because I've got one hot Mars.
Are you a Scorpio yourself? Because you do have amazing insight and you know both the Scorpio and Pisces motivation well.
help me! i am a scorpio girl who is falling fast for this psices guy that i have been friends with since i was a child and am now starting to see him as a 'guy'...we stay up all night talking and cuddling most nights, and he eveen cooked me dinner the other night and was very sweet and chraming. but i am confused, he told me that he cant understand why i am always able to make him speak about things that he normally keeps to himself (like his moms death)... the other night he told me that he really likes me and when i am around he is really happy. :) this made me happy and all but i am kinda confused, because if i dont call him he doesnt call me, but when i do call him he is very happy to hear from me and always invites me over. he is kinda shy and its not like he is always out on the town or somthing, i thik he mostly cholls by himslef or with one or two friends at home.. i really like him and hope he likes me but whey does he never take the initiative? is it normal pisces behavior..???
help me......
---lovesick scorpion
Yes, I sort of referred to it, but I have 5 planets in Scorpio. I am a blabber mouth online (not in person) I think because I have 4 in the 11th house. (I have Mars in Cappie so even if I am angry I never indicate it, I just stay dead silent disapprovingly. I may take practical action, but verbally I stay nice. But yeah, I have a friend with Mars in Leo and it's hilarious, in like one sentence she leaves people's mouths hanging open in despair)
And I reread that post, sorry for the NO PERIODS!!!! That made it very hard and confusing to read. You couldn't tell where one thought left off and the other started.
@ anonymous 1:11
It's still good stuff. But yes, it does help when you form paragraphs and use periods. That way I only have to read it once ;)
Love V.
i had a relation with an aries ascendant pisces venus pisces moon scorpio. he was passionate and loving ,made me feel like princess, after 2 years of sacrifices from my part, i supported him in his worst moments,he started to be detached ad cheating with other women, liying to me and i discover that only now. im aries moon gemeau, ascendant gemeau, venus acquarius.
do you think with this strong planets in pisces, he will feel again his love for me and comeback? he's very agressif ad when angry say a lot of hurtful worlds.i want him back..like he was in the begining.. he changed a lot.
I am wondering why a certain Pisces guy I know has the ability to get girls to want to "take care of him" meaning that he seems so sad and lonely that we all want to do nice things for him. I am gemini & usually don't really care...what is it about the charisma & chemistry. That sad eyes?
I don't know who this OTHER msaristocracy is but the comments above are not from me. I have my feelings about Pisces but the message above is NOT it! Jeffrey can you check into this please?
@msaristocracy, I have deleted the comment made in your name. I am reasonably certain it was made by a member of the forum who was recently banned.
Thank you, Jeffrey. =)
Why is there so much about Pisces men, not women? In general here there seems to be more about guys than girls. Just wondering. No judgement.
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