How to conquer an Aries man
What are you thinking? That's like beating up Aries Russell Crowe in Gladiator.But, no, you must mean sexually conquer.
You've got an uphill battle, because Aries likes to do the conquerin'. Aries is ruled by Mars, the warrior planet. He likes to win. You're not likely to beat him at his own game.
However, you can be his better half. The Aries man is attracted to his opposite -- and what's the antithesis of brutish and aggressive?
Libra!
Be charming, gracious, beautiful and balanced. Once your Aries man stops grunting, he'll put down his stick and see that you make up for his boorishness.
Comment below: How have you conquered an Aries man?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/05/2006
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Does this advice apply if you want to conquer a man with Mars in Aries? Or with Venus in Aries? Thanks!
Marly,
I would say the same for Mars in Aries as for Sun in Aries.
A man with Venus in Aries, however, may be attracted to an aggressive, go-getter type of woman.
Thanks, Jeffrey!!
Hi, what about a man with Sun and Mars conjunct in Aries and a Pisces Venus? I'm a Pisces with my Venus in Aries. So far we get along great, though his temper sometimes gets the better of him. Any suggestions?
Your each having Venus in the other's Sun sign is a boon. With a Sun-Mars conjunction in Aries, he will always be quick to anger. The question is how you deal with it. As a Pisces, you may at times feel too sensitive to be around that aggressive energy. But you can also just let it move through you without letting it get you upset.
Thanks, Jeffrey.
Having a Moon in Scorpio, I turn icy when his temper flares and distance myself from him. He always comes around with apologies later. I guess silence and distance is my reaction...
I remember only 2 Aries that I "conquered" and neither was deliberate.
I knew both through someone else, and we were friends.
With one, who was much older thna I, I was flirtatious, and behaved in an inviting ay--all the while thinking it was alll in fun.
I thought he thought I was fun, and yes, attractive, but it tunrs out he was crazy about me.
Basically the same thing happpened wiht the other man.
This one I become freinds with when he and his wife pslit up, --I was mildly attracted to him one night after we talked all night about relationships etc.
He apparently was really "sparked" by that --he got a big crush on me--I liked him lots, but sadly, not that way.
Hi I want to capture the heart of an Aries man that I have know for years. We are friends that are now after 15 yrs talking about dating. We have a lot in common and want the same things. I am an aquarious. We really click and I want to try to have a secure future with him. Any tips on how to do that??
I'm a libra girl madly inlove with an aries:)My venus is in libra and mars in sagittarius. His venus is in aquarius and mars in libra. Are we compatible? They say opposites attract and he sure is attracting me. He's my opposite: decisive manly, brave, headstrong and just the typically aries man. I'm a typical libra: girly, indecisive, polite and like to please.
Any librans out there who have had any experience with arians?
Hi,
And yes I'm a Libra and yes I've dated an Aries man. From my experience...*cough
Aries men are very attractive and are strong willed..opinionated....and very good to talk to for hours on end. Mine was cptivated by me but I eventually broke up with b/c his temper was too much =***(
So if your like me, you like balance in your life and its hard to maintain this with Aries..BUT never say never....=)
Hi Marly,
I couldn't help but put in my two cents. I'm an aries (mars) woman who, all my life, only seems to attract aries men. I understand the initial attraction one could have to an aries ..but it has the tendency to wear off quickly. Yes, most aries men are charming, but they are also (in a very general way) contentious, ALWAYS right, and highly sexual. SOund good right? The down side to the great sexual appetite is that when the passion begins to enter a comfort zone, aries men begin to look for greener pastures. This is probably because they actually believe that passion should remain at boiling point throughout the entire length of a relationship.
If you want a man with great passion, strength and intellect (that is also a good guy) try a pisces or scorpio.
Hi Marly,
I'm an aries (Mars) woman. Though a tad different from men, I can tell you right now... so overrated.
Aries men are charming, yes... but they are ALWAYS right, can be single-minded, sexual (when they feel like it), and they tend to look for greener pastures some time.
If you want passion and excitement, try to win over a Pisces.
This post is facinating, and has made me reflective...
I'm similarly aspected as Anon. (who is P with V in A)... I was involved with a young woman whose Sun and Mars was in A, and Venus in P, too... I can't help but wonder whether these two are still together...
in my situation, we turned out to be like these candies: Zoltz Fizz Sours, or Lotsa Fizz... sort of gives credence to Maud's comments...
now, I will concede as man who has "Venus in Aries", I'm generally "attracted to an aggressive, go-getter type woman"... but, it's difficult for me to digest that having "Venus in the other's Sun sign is a boon"
For those intent on being Sun Tzu, willing to enter a clash with Aries, be conscious of my failures:
1. Ensure you have a common goal (their goal)
2. Do not show emotion (whether it's a single tear of bitterness, or you being upfront and detailing how you care about them)... Avoid it!... unless its temporary anger (only one they truly understand)...
3. If you discover an Arien flaw, don't point it out.
4. Let 'em do what they want, they will anyway.
5. Laud them for what they do for you.
6. It's "their rules", they'll tell you
7. Don't offer help, they don't need it
8. Do not pressure them, or back them in a corner
9. Realize that unless you become "family", you are "nothing"... (look to Anon., being friends is the key)
Now, upon reading this, you would think I wrote it because I'm scorn... not so... I also have parents with major planets in the sign...
they are good people to those in their circle...
they'll go to war if they want to... so, you better have some natural resources... assets they deem worth fighting for...
Now.. I am an Aries man.. *cough!.. My Mars is in Pisces, Moon in Gemini.. so quite a combination. And I see that everyone picks on the "mobility" of my sign. I have had 2 major relationships in life.. one of 5 years and the second one of 3 years (on-going).. both of the ladies being Aquarius. There are always exceptions.. and the key point is that you will never be able to fit Aries (men or women) into a frame. They are too different. OK, there are some personality traits which they may share.. but that is it. Then there is the IQ, the EQ, the life experience and degree of maturity of the individual. And ultimately this is what we are.. our image shaped by our past, by our experience and by our native traits.
So no.. not two Aries are the same (other signs too for that matter) although they may react similarly to the same stimulus. And yes.. I take a peek to some lovely Libra, Cancer or Pisces ladies... but I keep my distance. There is something different about them which tells me they are too fragile for my fiery temper. And I also keep a respectable distance from Scoripo ladies (as attractive and provocative as they may be).. No point in using energy on useless "wars".
So .. don't put us in the same pot.. we do not like it and it is not safe for the pot.. LOL. Joking. We can be quite a catch (modest as an Arian) if one can.. catch us. And do not think this happened once you slept with an Arien. Passionate we will always be.. and we will fight for what is ours (or we belive that it is).. And yes, I give you that.. we are not the most easy-going partner one may have, but then we only need one partner.. not all the world ;). Ask the Aquarians and the Leo (the latter ones may be not too kind with us, but they still love us). It is all about spirits alike.
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