Capricorn men are cold
This is news?Capricorn men are cold because their ruling planet is Saturn. Every sign of the zodiac is associated with a planet (or two), but none is as unfortunate as Capricorn. Cap lives under the thumb of the strictest, harshest, most judging and punishing god in the solar system. Until Uranus was discovered, Saturn was thought to be the outermost planet in the solar system, the boundary-maker. He rules limitations, concrete reality, tests and trials, all the hard work we must do to manifest anything in life. Saturn is slow -- he brings on delays, forces us to patiently slog through tedious tasks to achieve our desired outcome.
But Saturn is not all bad. He rewards hard work with material success; suffering with wisdom. He's still the strict father, however. Saturn will give you what's coming to you -- good or bad.
You won't get warmth from a Capricorn man, but his steadiness and sense of duty betray his affection towards you.
Comment below: How do you know when a Capricorn man cares for you?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 12/22/2006
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They show love by buying you expensive gifts but they are like tokens of love, not real. Their icy armor gets annoying FAST. I found the capricorn I dated to be icy cold and passionless in and out of bed and when I asked him why he was interested in me he said it was was my chest size. It was a short relationship and I ended it.
My sexy Capricorn, is married to someone else.
He found her long ago, and ruined our relationship.
Now he thinks she's the one for him, but in my heart I know he belongs to me.
He showed me several times that he wants to be with me.
His wife is on his business, so I'll need more than luck to reel in this BIG fish.
Unfortunately, he just had a son with her.
He's still giving her all my love and I'm hatin' it.
Since I'm a Scorpio of course I don't want ANYONE getting somehing I know truly belongs to me.
I'm so sad I could cry everynight.
Yes! Capricorn men are cold.. I'm a Libra (moon-Sagittarius and ascendant-Libra) and I've been with a Capricorn (moon-Aquarius and ascendant-Libra) for nearly 10 years. At the beginning of our relationship I felt that he was very special for me. But soon after it started to feel like he was kind and gentle but no fun and passionless. I felt like if he didn't get excited about having sex with me and etc. And it sometimes still feels the same. I tried to talk to him about it - It looked like he found it difficult. On the other hand he's very hardworking, honest, loyal, generous and makes me feel very secure, and I still think he's very special for me. Maybe that's why I couldn't leave my Capricorn when I fell for a Gemini (moon-Leo ascendant-Gemini) a year ago. I almost did everything to not to get involved with the Gemini who also fell for me - it was like if we were soul mates and his sweet talk and passion open new channels in me. Now he's (Gemini) got a girl friend and I'm still with my Capricorn but still can't stop thinking about him. Maybe I will never... I wish I could have made my mind up then because this way it's very upsetting..
Cappies may be cold as the dead of winter they were born in, but remember how warm and cozy Christmas is if you can get indoors next to that crackling fire.
Yes, they do have a heart. A woman just needs to find the key to open that door and get in. Otherwise dig a hole in the nearest snowdrift 'cause she'll be sleeping there.
The question is what is the key to open thier heart? They are so hard to understand. I get the body language, the eye contact and all of that, but actually breaking through the wall is hard, what is the key?
I've heard that Capricorn men are very cold. At times I agree, because my dad is a Capricorn, and he was never good at showing me affection as a child growing up, but he always provided me with everything and anything I could've possibly needed. It's still like that, occasionally, in my teenage years when I broke down and cried he would be affectionate.
I'm now dating a Capricorn man, and at times he confuses me about what he wants. (by the way I'm a Gemini: moon-Cancer and ascendant-Gemini) On the one hand he doesn't want to call me his "girlfriend", but he wants to be monogamous, and he calls it "seriously dating with potential". It's still early so I'm not forcing him to commit, but we have been friends for several years. So come on "seriously dating with potential"?? What does that mean??
Today, he tells me that I've inspired him to want to get a second job so he can save up money to go back to college. He tells me that he wants to be a better man, and step up his game for me. Of course I support his choice for education and furthering his career, I know that it's for the both of us. Even though we'll have less time to spend together in the short run. In the long run, he'll be a better person and that's all I really care about.
@linkinrocks, Caps often show love more through doing than talking. As for "seriously dating with potential" -- being cautious is one attribute of this sign. You may want to carefully explore with him his fears about deepening his commitment with you.
Thanks for your input Jeff! I think his "fears" about commitment, is more because he's only ever been in long term relationships, and he was hoping on being single for a while. Then we happened, and it's not part of his plan.
So now he finally considers me his girlfriend, and he admitted in just trying to fool himself that we weren't at that level yet. But heck he picks up my prescriptions and dry-cleaning...Who is he kidding? I'm just all to glad he's owned up to it.
Two days ago, he said the big three word phrase. He told me that he's been wanting to for a while now, but he just wanted to be really sure. But now, I feel like he feels awkward about letting me in more. What's up with that? I will keep on being patient, but that sure as heck threw me for a loop.
I'm a gemini and dating a capricorn as well. As I am a gemini I was all excited to know someone who is different with me. I went through sites about capricorn and did tons of research. I first wanted to be honest and did not try to be someone else. I was late in dates, cancled often told hes boring and did not openly share intimate thoughts to him. One thing that Geminis like is to talk about all kinds of interesting things and not so much desire in sex it self. However, my cap like all caps likes to watch tv on couch and then hit it to the bed which he seems to be the most youthful and energetic.... We are so opposite we often said. We had a fight and did not see each other for a while but started to see each other again. This time we act so much like not ourselves. I researched so much, I try to dress nicely with expensive things acting like a serious person. In fact I did change while I was not seeing him. I got really serious and mature. I know its not me but Ive learned that I have to look at things from a distance and long term. I needed it since I am like many geminis too child like in a way... And him too he is acting so differently he says that serious topics are boring which I know he is lieing.. he is not so square anymore... I like him more than last time. But now I feel like I want to be myself. I dont think its not good to be someone else. I enjoy sex with him now. He never said that he loved me but he said that sometimes he wished he could make me happy. What do you think that means? We havent gone out for a long time but I just wish that he would commit.. Im restless gemini. Its so hard to wait. I love him but I often question myself do I love him as in capricorn standards, do I really picture myself with him forever and ever? I love him for making me have a mature perspective, be responsible I guess I do. I know how lonley it is to have a man who is strictly on business they seem like half of their mind is some where else. He teaches me things like a teacher I need it . but I ask myself is it love? or is it because i want to improve myself. I dont know what I could do to give him back. perhaps to take him to my meadow with butterflies and birds singing (gemini world) but I worry, what if he wont understand.. what if he thinks thats discusting. For geminis a little flackyness and a little jokes is normal and we could do that and be serious at the same time. We live in different planets which makes me sentimental.. I have to admit noone is perfect and I choose a stable loyal father like man.. Since I dont show him my real me when I am by myself, I am back to myself. He is probably back to himself. When he is with me he is concerned about my feelings. I have to admit we have improved and impressed each other. I think this is a good start. We openly said that we are different and we try to be like the other while we are together but when we are not with each other we have our own free other time. I feel this is such a modern relationship. Please give me advise
I'm telling you the truth that if you meet a capricorn man/boy and can't realize he's just too pussy to feel because feelings is something he can't control and he always wants to be in control of his life, career, and in LOVE its so unpredictable and irrational and its so foreign to this boy/man but tell him to just let himself feel it, cause the more he tries to control it the more it controls him, feelings are meant to be felt not owned or pushed aside, a true evolved capricorn can feel with his mind and think with his heart,
a capricorn man and boy
I agree. I could tell very much that my cap is difinitelly trying to control his feelings. But I have saw him have tears in his eyes when I did not show him love. I will tell him next time I see him that you are so amazing to have a strong will to be able to control yourself and be organized but feelings are not to be controlled but to be felt and that he should accept that and to express it. I realize that we are different than I have imagined. I am the type that cannot hide my feelings. In fact I never try to because I just believe that not saying your feelings is like lieing. As a gemini I say my feelings every minute. But it is hard to do so when I am with him. He does not show his feelings so it makes me hard to show my feelings and then we end up being dry. He is very expressive in bed is which is becomming stressful for me because it makes me think that all he wants is just sex. And so I don't show any love and then he has tears in his eyes. Geez when it comes to love seems like I have to be his mother or something lol. But over all in this relationship he has control he is stronger and wiser and responsible and it's very attractive to me that I feel like I am in a cage. I feel caged because I love freedom and because I am trying to be more acceptable for him meaning being more responsible and mature and organized and timely and I feel like I am a bird in cage. I feel like I need more air all the time. But it is what I have chose. They say that Geminis and Capricorns are very hard to accomplish a long term relationship but when it works it is worth all the effort. This is why I am trying so hard. I believe that happiness comes from hard work. And maybe true love does too. Now I always feel like I always said the wrong response. And another thing I am worried about is he is very attractive and he could and probablly has many woman more attractive than me wanting him. But it seems that Capricorn people choose a partner that are less attractive than them because they want to feel secure and to have the initiative and when they break up they could do it very cold and calculative. They try not to hurt them but. I wonder how capricorn people dump people. They seem to like losers too. Which makes me wonder.. Also they say that Capricorn men date older woman first then when they are rich they will go for younger girls. I don't want to be dumped when I get old... And another thing their calculative mind is sometimes so obvious that its kind of annoying. Geminis are calculative yes but they seem so much more innocent than capricorns. Sometimes I doubt about this relationship, I think I will always have doubts and this makes me think that if I ever be truelly his for long, I will never completely lose myself. I will have another part of me to succeed. And I think a Gemini is capable. ... I hope..
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