Should I give in to my Capricorn man?
Capricorn men can be bossy. They are ruled by authoritative Saturn, the CEO of the zodiac.The question you should ask yourself is what your Capricorn man wants. It sounds like you two totally disagree on a course of action, and one of you must yield to the other. Capricorns do not easily surrender, unfortunately.
Capricorn rules the mountain, and the Goat wants to be on top. He's worked long and hard to get there, so what incentive does he have to give up his status?
Saturn rules our insecurities that we strive to overcome. The feeling that deep inside he's not good enough -- that's the soft sticky interior underneath Capricorn's hard surface. If he gives in to you, he needs to maintain his self-confidence in the process, or else he'll feel less-than. Your Capricorn man will only give in if you can find a way for him to save face while he succumbs to you.
Libra's "win win" may not appeal to Capricorn, but he does want to be seen as a benevolent leader. As much as he likes his position, he realizes that his authority only lasts as long as his organization thrives. If the relationship's stock price increases as a result of his temporary relinquishment of power, then he may be willing to step down -- just this once.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 11/27/2006
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A Capricorn male is reserved in emotion and does not like sappy females. He is basically cold and undemonstrative. It will take a hot hot blaze to warm this iceberg up! As he is all business oriented and materially minded state hard cold facts with this man then he might listen to what you have to say. Help him climb the ladder to success and you will win him over. Speak of how confident he is of himself and he will love you!
I've been with my Capricorn for almost 10 years and I've learned the secret--they're NOT really cold. Even in a committed relationship, they find it hard to be vulnerable. Once you break through that hard shell, they're just as warm and loving as any Libra or Leo, with a significant difference--a cappy man is for real, and shows his love in private. He's a bit shy.
Dee,
You make a good point. Capricorn is the sign of restraint, so the affection will be there, but it is not easily expressed. And a Cap won't demonstrate love unless he's serious about it.
This is really interesting, because I am a Picese woman, and capricorns and pisces are not suppose to be a good match. I tell you the shell this man has is very hard to break, but I'm going to have to tryn to figure this out overall he seems like a great man.
I'm a Gemini, and this guy I'm dating is a Capricon. I complain alot abt him being cold before I read up abt Cap characteristics. We broke up as I cldn't take his coldness and reserved way. Now, we're trying to get back. But I've this fear of handling him, he seems to be difficult, opinionated, and self-centred. Should I continue my relationship with him?
NotAnonymous 1:07: Nothing you say about this man is positive. Why do you want to get back together?
What should I do? A Cappy man met me online, pursued me intensely, we met after 3 months of talking and texting. Had an amazing connection on first date. He always talks of marriage,likes that I'm 6 yrs older, say's I am just like him but always says "why should I like him he's not handsome like that and knows I got a lot of guys after me" He pulls back now, barely calling me. I really, really have an attraction for him.I feel like he wants me to chase him. I am a Leo Woman and we are both in entertainment, something that he mentioned he loved as well. His communication now is very inconsistent.He would always refer to my beauty, but without ever saying Im petty. He always reminds me of his success and that he wants someone to share it with. He talks of buying a home and always wanting to have a partner to share life with. He constantly mentions marriage in conversation. I would like to start a real connection with him, but I feel he is guarding himself from me. WHY!
"Should I give in to my Capricorn man?"
Yes, by all means, sign the pre-nup. Once you've got him he ain't going anywhere (marriage is a binding contract for this grounded earth goat) so you've nothing to worry about.
and the insurance papers, second mortgage options, medical waivers, credit bureau and criminal record checks . . . just part of the necessary protocol (and here's where you might have something to worry about)
Oh the sheer delight of giving in to a Capricorn man! Gotta get me some . . . but they're all married already, *astards. I missed the boat!
I've been with my cappie for 7 months. He is the one who proclaimed his love to me right off the bat and tried to win me over with affection and sharing his feeling first. I'm a cancer and during that time I hide in my shell and didn't trust him. He got me to come out and I finally said I love you back a month after he did. Now he's the one who wants to live together. I don't understand why people say they are so cold and unemotional?
Anon Cancer -- I was reading Stephen Arroyo, and as he put it, Caps have a "crusty exterior." It doesn't mean they're not warm inside, but it may take a while for them to feel comfortable enough to express it. If this guy told you he loved you right off the bat, perhaps he's got his Mars or Venus in a Fire sign.
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