I hate Aquarius men
This particular Googler must have been hurt many times. But I must ask: Why do you keep getting involved with Aquarius men in the first place?Aquarius men can be cold and distant, yes. But you must take responsibility for this compulsion to repeat the same relationship dynamic over and over again. Maybe, Aquarius-hater, you've got something in your chart which draws you to Aquarius men who shut you out. Your Sun symbolizes the important men in your life -- including your father. If it was making a stressful angle to Uranus when you were born (from our perspective on Earth), then you could be replaying a scenario with men in which you were trying to get love from an emotionally detached father. So you keep falling for Aquarius men, unconsciously hoping that this time it will be different -- this time you will traverse the distance he creates, and get the affection you've longed for your entire life.
So hate Aquarius men all you want, but realize that until you conquer your inner battle with Uranus, the planet that aims for the heavens (only to neglect Earthlings), nothing will change.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 11/23/2006
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Whoa.
aquarian men are too much to deal especially when the play that "distant" game.It's a waste of time.Either u love me or u don't.
Fixed signs are a love hate sorta deal..imo..
I like this discussion about Pluto too.
And I can relate like another poster said, to what you spoke about re: covert abuse and how painful and difficult that is as it is much harder to prove, and many times goes acknowledged for yrs.
That's somehting that I've had to face in my life, too, and perhaps some others here might even have had this expereince(or are now)
I have been aware of the phenomenon of covert abuse actually for years,but it *was* exactly the opposite way for a long time as well.
By that I mean exactly that I was from a "good" educated, appropriately -behaving family--and no one knew why my brother and I were unhappy.Few even knew we were.
Even when I knew, later, I still didn't know the half of it.
I knew I identified with children of alcoholics, but --I wasn't one.
I only knew it was in my family.I'm one(sober) and my brother is one,and a few cousins, and of course my illustrious grandfather.
Nowadays it's much more understood that alcoholism (and other dysfunctions, and addictions) cause problems for the family in general, which I did know, even back then.
Nonetheless I couldn't see what exactly was "so wrong". I was miserable, but thought I shouldn't be.
It was years after I'd already been in therapy, and stopped drinking my own self for years, that I realized two things--1.---there were happy times in my family--but little real intimacy-- 2- my grandfather's alcoholism affected my father in such a way that my father decided we were *not* going to be like his own family of origin, come hell or high water!
Therefore, his behavior was often as if he was saying--"we are happy, stable people--and if not--you better be, or I'll pound you till you are".
LOL.
(It's funny now, but you can imagine).
So, I'm glad you mentioned it Jeffrey.:-)
(SIGH) I posted a long comment, which either sent itself, without my name or, simply disappeared.
Whatever, not doing it all over.
But, I do want to say--thanks for replying to the person who said Aquarians are difficult for (her/him).
You pointed out it may be true for them, because of a stressful angle between that poster's Uranus, and their Sun.
I don't in *particular* dislike relationships wiht Aquarian men,(though, yes, they can be distant) but, I can see the difficulties I've had with men in particular may have something to do with my Sun Squaring my Uranus.
Makes sense.;-)
{Uranus in my chart also squares Neptune and Saturn, to add to the fun.:-)}
WARNING!!! TO ALL WOMEN CONSIDERING A RELATIONSHIP WITH AN AQUARIAN MAN... ENTER AT YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL RISK! IF YOU DON'T KNOW JESUS, YOU WILL NEED HIM IF YOU DECIDE TO ENTER IN. AND IF YOU ENTER IN, YOU WILL REMEMBER THIS POST. GO IN PEACE, NOT IN PIECES.
ETERNALLY YOUR FRIEND,
A 19-YEAR VETERAN OF AN AQUARIAN MAN
P.S. I CAN NOW REST IN PEACE. I HAVE SHARED MY TESTIMONY WITH THE WOMEN AND GIRLS OF THE WORLD. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO RECEIVE THIS INFORMATION TO HEART, YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL & MUCH HAPPIER IN LIFE. AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO DON'T AND VENTURE IN, YOU HAVE OFFICIALLY ENTERED THE "TWILIGHT ZONE."
P.P.S. TO THOSE OF YOU WHO DON'T TAKE THIS ADVICE, I WILL SAY A LITTLE PRAYER FOR YOU!
the nice thing about Aquarian men is they seldom lose their cool, so they don't beat their wives
they just matter-of-factly pick up the phone and call the men in the white coats to haul her away
where she can rant and rave 'til she cools off to his level so they can deal with the situation objectively
who needs domestic disputes? Aquarians are good guys then, just a tad unpredictable
those white coats show up when you least expect it (:-)
I will be careful to remember Max's words of wisdom in this regard, and the above assorted heartfelt shared experiences. Thank you.
Hey now.... don't go blaming it all on just aquarius... you gotta look at where they have their venus, now if you got an Aquarius with a venus in Aquarius, then you got's a fairly detached person, who doesn't go for sentimental, mushy, romantic stuff, or tolerates someone whose needy or clingy.
I am an aquarius sun with my venus in aquarius, so I have a little personal insight into this
Well, the worst is Venus in Sagittarius, for an Aquarius man.
Ew.
Well I have had two relationships with Aquarian men, 1 I was married too and 1 I am with now. They certainly take some getting used to, and not everyone can handle them, nor would they want too!! My first experience was awful really, the friendship was great, but when it got serious he got violent. They don't know how to cope with emotions, a bit like a child, this is why they either lash out or dissapear..i'm a Gemini myself so I guess I can understand them pretty well, but even my current love whom I worship DRIVES ME INSANE at times. But if they say they love you they do..they just don't feel the need to harp on about it all the time. I'm a fan of them ..they make this world slightly more interesting !!
Love & Light
Becky
http://www.love-astrology.com
Im an Aries and hes an Aquarius - we're never happy! Constantly fighting! Hes so distant! And ive come to the end of my teather with him i cant get the passion i want. Oh btw he forgot my birthday and our anniversary! So i forgot his birthday and valentines! Hahha!
its good to forget his car keys in the ladies room TOO go out the back way and take a cab home
he can take one too hehe why not whats good for goose is good for gander
i hate aquarius men too
real real bad
sun moon venus mars
the whole *hitload aquarius sucks big time
cold cold aquarius why you love me so I never know must be stupid or somethin
I dunno about aquarius men, but I keep finding myself with aquarian women. Not only do they seem to be the ones most willing to date me, but I seem to have had the longest relationships in my life with two of them (at separate times!). All those virgo, capricorn, pisces, cancer women who are supposed to be such a good match for me (taurus male) are always either disinterested or choose other guys over me. It seems I get luck with the aquarius, sagitarius, scorpio or sometimes gemini women. It never works out, but I at least get a chance, and I try my ass off to make it work. Go figure.
Ironically, one virgo girl who chose an abusive, unemployed, lying drug addict over me (fit, clean, college-educated, gainfully employed, no criminal record) all of a sudden declared her regret right when I was in the middle of a one-year relationship with my aquarius ex. Now, mind you, aquarius girl was emotionally abusive, dispassionate, unsentimental, and a bit of an all around bitch. But by the heavens, SHE at least chose me, so when virgo girl came looking for me again, I politely refused and said, "Look, you had your chance. I have a girlfriend (aqu. girl) now and I'm sticking with her.".
Now, I'm single again (not for long if this new scorpio girl in my life is really interested), and virgo girl is hooked up with a pisces guy. He's an unmotivated raving drunk, but he seems to treat her well. I hope it works out between those two.
Fate is a screwy thing, isn't it.
(*laughs*).....
Yes, it is ;)
"You pay a great deal too dear for what's given freely."
William Shakespeare
The Winter's Tale, Act I, Scene I
Oh dear God why me? I met this guy who I initially thought is so nice the best one so far. He is an aquarius sun and has Mercury, Venus and Mars in Aquarius. I am a scorip/sagittarius cusp and am very sensitive and affectionate and it has been a month and a half and I am already feeling the coldness. He didn't call me for a week though so I stopped liking him that much. I really used to like him before but not so much now after I see how cold he seems. I touch alot and that's why I didn't notice how cold he was. My revenge will be to dominate him sexually and maybe he'll dump me when he tires of me but I don't want to dump someone who is the best guy I've ever met.
Just so you know you can't dominate an Aquarius man sexually. They work on a different plain to the rest of us and as such are not affected, mind games do not work either. You will simply end up feeling really stupid as he will not react. An Aquarius man can no more help being aloof than you can being tactile and loving. We are who we are, it is best to just find someone who you are better suited to. Forget the anger and bitterness, it only makes you misserable, life is for living after all.
@wildrose, I think revenge is a lousy way to end a relationship. If you want to break things off with your Aquarius, just DO IT, don't try to push him to break up with you.
If he's the best guy you've ever met, you can either accept that he is not going to be as affectionate as you like and get nourishment out of what he CAN offer, or accept that you NEED touch and warmth, and that him being the best guy you've ever met simply isn't good enough.
and I like what Becky said,
"You will simply end up feeling really stupid as he will not react. An Aquarius man can no more help being aloof than you can being tactile and loving. We are who we are, it is best to just find someone who you are better suited to."
Especially the part about feeling stupid when he doesn't react. Because he won't! It really does make a girl feel stupid. Aquarius could care less most of the time, and he can really be the nicest guy you ever met.
Love him the way he is or let him go. Revenge is a complete and utter waste of time. May as well feed your cat lettuce.
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and I like what Becky said,
"You will simply end up feeling really stupid as he will not react. An Aquarius man can no more help being aloof than you can being tactile and loving. We are who we are, it is best to just find someone who you are better suited to."
Especially the part about feeling stupid when he doesn't react. Because he won't! It really does make a girl feel stupid. Aquarius could care less most of the time, and he can really be the nicest guy you ever met.
Love him the way he is or let him go. Revenge is a complete and utter waste of time. May as well feed your cat lettuce.
Well when I say revenge I mean sex is the one way that I have power. Not withholding but the opposite. He does some type of power play with me like all nice guys do. I can feel it. I have noticed his arrogance too. When we talk I sense he is 'putting me in my place' just because I am not as rich as he is. Honestly he is too rich for me but I still have a brain. It is like he is covertly abusive like someone posted here because at first glance he nice. We've been on a trip together he was sweet highly intelligent etc. I know he likes me I guess but I need affection. I am confused he says women have commitment problems but he's the one with the problems. I just regret meeting him at all because I wanted love from a Cancer type not his type of cold no calling no caring. If he doesn't care why should I. He was insistent on going out with me so I thought he was passionate. He called me about 5 times a day. When we met I was kind of very angry disappointed at men and I told him that he is the last guy I would ever date. I don't know what to say. He doesn't speak so why should I? If he dumps me I won't have to hurt him. He doesn't deserve my type of devotion and deep love. I really hate him now he killed all the love I could have had for him and he has no clue.
Ok how do you talk to an aquarius? We talk about our ideas there is an intellectual plain but the rest of it nothing. I am the one who mentions things in passing but he is trying to tell me that he feels alot for me without actually telling me. How can he not know about women's needs when he's had a gf for years and years who of course had her own life and left him in the end. You can't commit to this man you would feel cheated. And he is going to be bitter like he had nothing to do with it? I haven't moved on because there is nobody else that I like enough but when I do find that loving cancer who is protective I will leave him to his ivory tower and his snobbery. That and his friends will keep him warm at night. And how come he likes women who are strong and opinionated and then I keep reading about aquarius not liking emotional outbursts. He asked me out after I basically left him a message telling him that I don't want men he was crying for me to give him a chance FOR THIS??? It's ok I have become cold w/ him b/c I hate him I don't call like I used to. He'll dump me soon. He has this rude ex...maybe she'll be better for him. He doesn't need someone who is considerate about his feelings. Clearly he thinks he's more important than me because when I'm talking he talks over me. F*ck him. I guess I am an aquarius hater too. Now you know. Wow love turned to indifference and extreme dislike in two months.
@ wildrose, a wise woman once said that any person using sex as a weapon only wounds themselves...I believe that.
You know you shouldn't be with this man...he drives you nuts..it sounds like nothing affects him and that stinks...it really does!
But trying to control what he does, trying to control how he feels by hurting him is only making you more upset it seems...I would just dump him.
Call him, say it's over (If you really feel it's going to give you "closure" tell him how you feel, don't expect him to care though..because he sounds like a jerk.)
Throw away his phone number and forget about him. COMPLETELY.
Don't look back for ANYTHING, ANYTHING!!! Ignore his calls, don't answer any emails, nothing!
You also need to accept that you still have feelings for this man and grieve his loss accordingly. He's like the gangrenous pinky threatening your existence. It's time to amputate, sister!
Thanks for the feedback guys. He didn't call in 2 weeks so I can assume that it is over. I am relieved I don't need to talk to him I just didn't want to be the one doing the breaking up.
The last conversation we had I made it clear that I didn't want children we also have different political stances but he probably decided he didn't like my attitude or something. I'm ok with it now but I didn't want to dump a guy who treated me well in the 2 months I had known him. It is fine now I can't really love someone like that anyway. I didn't realize that he was so detached but the astrology reading is pretty accurate.
What confuses me is that he says he likes strong women who speak their mind and maybe he didn't think I was strong enough. Either way it doesn't matter. He ended it by not calling.
> to control what he does, trying >to control how he feels by >hurting him is only making you >more upset it seems...
It isn't hurting him it is just me being dominant in my own way. He likes to be dominant in what we watch where we go etc. He doesn't ask me he just decides 'we'll go do this'. I don't want to control him but I want to do my bit just like he does his bit. I am a person of principle if a man is going to act a certain way I will mirror what he does. That's probably why he didn't like it.
I argued with him about his politics or something. I don't want to be sensored. I disagreed and I expressed myself I am a hot blooded woman and he liked that. He liked me alot we had a good thing you know despite the power trips that he does and there was no need for that. I never put him down or emasculated him. Rather I complimented him and his great intellect. But I will not be censored by a man and I will not carry baggage.
>@ wildrose, a wise woman once >said that any person using sex as >a weapon only wounds themselves
He likes it he isn't wounded and I like to be dominant. Sex isn't a weapon and I haven't wounded myself. He probably got freaked out that I have so much power over him sexually. He admitted as much. But I won't go over to his house I do have self respect. Something went wrong because he told me that he wanted to see me for a long time in the beginning.
I guess he takes himself too seriously and I wasn't passive enough. And I don't believe that you have to bend over backwards for an Aquarian. Simply put I respected this man because he was a proper gentleman and his intellect was superior. As i read about Aquarians I identify the arrogance that they have and the ways they try to control you. I mean...it is their way or the highway. pfft there will be dissent. We'll see how it turns out. As for myself if I found a man worth dating I would be dating now. I think a Cancer or maybe Scorpio would better fulfil my needs
You women who complain about Aquarius men being "cold" and playing "distant games" need to realize it's only to preserve everyone's emotional well-being. We're not being distant or playing games, we're being responsible with your heart. We love you, but we're not "in love" with you - usually.
When the true extend of the love an Aquarius man can conjure up is focused entirely on one woman it is incredibly dangerous. Though it is incredibly beautiful... it can cause years of devastation when it ends.
I'd recommend that if the aquarius man doesn't fall head over heels for you in 3 months, become good friends with him and move on before you destroy yourself hoping for something that will never be.
Keep poking Aquarius but you will find that there is nothing there. You killed it all. I may not have an ivory tower like him that I can escape to but I have BECOME a fortress.
>playing games, we're being >responsible with your heart.
If that were true he would have kept on walking. Why did he ever have to talk to me? Why did he tell me he was going to treat me right? Do you know that he talked me out of my solitude. FOR WHAT? He knew the condition I was in but he had no problem getting involved with me until it came time to give me what I wanted. From what I have read about this sign...that is SO predictable.
I miss the other jerk I used to know. AT least he slapped me with passion. At least I know that he cared.
>When the true extend of the love >an Aquarius man can conjure up is >focused entirely on one woman it >is incredibly dangerous.
True extent? Dangerous for him yeah...if he 'feels' anything he might have a nervous breakdown. Hey I wanna stick around to see that maybe they'll come and take him away. That would be quite a show.
Hey what about a true extent of my love or does that not matter because I am not a precious 'special' Aquarius. You don't think the end of my love will be incredibly dangerous? Let's find out. Let's see if Aquarius can keep his cool.
>Though it is incredibly >beautiful... it can cause years >of devastation when it ends.
Incredibly beautiful? You don't know the first thing about beauty. What is beautiful is my imagination for not seeing him for what he truely was...coldblooded reptile. He just wears a mask the rest of the time...he knows how to be charming.
Actually it is a tie between the Librans I have know...one a liar and one that one gave me nightmares for months. O trama..as if I didn't have enough in my life. Air signs... NEVER again.
Taurus...beat me if you must but save me from this horror.
>I'd recommend that if the >aquarius man doesn't fall head >over heels for you in 3 months, >>become good friends with him and >move on before you destroy >yourself hoping for something >that will never be.
He said something to the effect of 'you turn me on so much' Is that code for 'I really like you' oh wait that's too personal.
So I know there will be some type of loss for him.
I don't want ANYTHING from him but for him to feel even 1/2 the pain that I felt and to cry me a river so that I can float away in it. I want to taste his tears..
But I cried about that too...the fact that he threw the love away...one of a kind. Wow I was willing to overlook alot. But most of all I cried for myself I cried for myself because as special as it was I knew it was over. Or at least I thought I did.
Imagine the shock of receiving his phone call. It would have been better if he hadn't.
He called me earlier today and when he asked me to come over I told him 'I didn't expect to hear from you EVER again'. I was silent as he spoke and spoke and I replied with 'You didn't call me for 2 weeks'. Then I excused myself.
He seemed upset he was trying to explain was he trying to make me sorry for him. I feel sorry for ME
I don't want a friendship with a roller coaster.
The dream had to die...the dream that he was the one. I thought it was over that is partly why I cried...
How can he call me now as if it isn't? I can't just pull my feelings out of a hatbox at a whim because mine are real.
I had a revelation last night when I was crying my eyes out it just hit me out of the blue that I really did love him and that he probably loved me...in his narcissistic way but that he will destroy me. Why didn't you show me your true face before you started being so kind to me?
I am your opus I am your valuable
The pure gold baby that melts to a shriek.
I turn and burn
Do not think I underestimate your great concern
Ash, ash —
You poke and stir.
Flesh, bone, there is nothing there—-
Lady Lazarus by Sylvia Plath
When the true extend of the love an Aquarius man can conjure up is focused entirely on one woman it is incredibly dangerous. Though it is incredibly beautiful... it can cause years of devastation when it ends.
They don't call you pompous and arrogant for nothing. Oh yes this I detest. Love nothing. If I still had that Cancer I knew 10 years ago I wouldn't be dealin with some Aquarian asshole. Now he knew what love was and he wasn't even my bf but he stayed with me for 3 months anyway. He worked two jobs and he spent time with me because I needed someone. He nurtured me and told me to go after my dreams. He listened he wasn't afraid of my feelings. If only I could find him now. That is what caused years of devastation...not finding someone who could understand you like that. It is being condemned into the wilderness with no hope. But he had to leave because his father who was an asshole was ill. A cancer so forgiving of his awful parents so loyal I don't know how he did it.
So Rob don't flatter your sign/self
No way. I went to see him after 3days and it is like all was forgiven. I said 'I was so sad becaise I thought that you didn't care'. He said he was busy and something broke under his house etc and he said 'You can call me' (no excuse) I said 'I didn't want to intrude on your space.' Well I guess if my feelings get out of control I will call just to hear his voice or to see if he's alive.
But the love is there...I mean I went out and I was able to see that I can move on. It is so easy once you cry and your heart breaks and you let go to say ok well I just have to give out my number and do this again. It was easier than I thought. But knowing that I chose to stay because somehow I love this guy I've only known him for a few months but he initiated it into a sexual thing so it isn't just friendship. There are strong feelings there. I thought I could just move on that was before I started crying one night uncontrollably lol. But as powerful and aggressive as he is in his athletics and career he is really so insecure when it comes to opposite sex. That's what I realized. Most of the time he can't even tell me how he feels not that I ask but unless it is a very intense strong moment where I can't resist saying something and he says something impersonal that he probably things is intimate.
lol I can't resist his shy charm and this time he let me hold him and stuff and wasn't a condescending pain as he had been. I guess we like each other...it would be wrong to walk away.
Two things I found curious. The Aquarius man forgetting a birthday and an anniversary? No love there. Of the four Aquarians I've been with (and one I was married to for 17 years), they all remembered my birthday, Christmas, Valentines and anniversaries (in the case of my husband) right from the start. I didn't even know they were known for not doing this. Big shock there. I was the one notorious for always doing this. I once woke up and asked who the flowers were for on the dresser. That was our 3rd anniversary. LOL I am a bit airy in the extreme.
Oh and you can't sexually dominate an Aquarian? LOL Funny. Well, if you think so. But if you do, turn about will be fair play. And sex with an Aquarian (just as with me) is an intellectual pursuit. So if it's approached from that perspective you can, just know they will go off and think about it then come back and try the same on you.
Your minds have to be in tune. Without that, you have nothing, but if your minds are very entwined, the feelings grow out of that and can become extremely intense.
I loved the comment about the Aquarian reacting to anger. LOL Yes, that's about the size of an Aquarian reacting to a Scorpio flare up in a Libra/Scorpio cusp. But, an Aquarian is about the only one that can calm me down when my Scorpio flares up. I would annihilate anyone else.
The white jacket comment was especially funny and I could see that happening and the Aquarian going, "Well, I had to call someone who could handle her breakdown." He'd think it was completely logical. LOL
An Aquarian really in love is incredibly intense, possessive, relentless, etc., but there is nothing like it for my cusp anyway. I don't even consider other signs and I'm even picky about the week. Fortunately, they find me and head straight for me.
>just know they will go off and
>think about it then come back and >try the same on you.
They already tried that on you and they have proved to be infantile. I was fond of my Aquarius but I am also very much into fair play. You can't deny that Aquarians play games and border on being covertly abusive. Meaning they abuse by ommission...two can play. It is not a game actually it is called not caring anymore. That means no compliments and that means detachment which is quite easy once you realize what they are really like.
You fall into a trap when you think 'He's so insecure' and allow him to get away with things. That's what I was thinking but I don't think that is entirely true. He's controlling in a covert way. He expects you to drop everything and come when he calls.
Sure he is brilliant and everything else yet the best man I've met I think but I don't see why I should sit back and put up with behavior that is disrespectful. I learnt alot from this person about devloping my potential just because of how he treats me.
If he doesn't like that he can leave. One foot was already out the door anyway. Remember you teach people how to treat you. Perhaps he is just ordinary. I know that his ex of 10 years put up with him for something other than love. Maybe that is why he hates her but I really sympathize with that woman and hope she has found happiness. Honestly 10 years..no doubt she had a lover on the side and probably was using him for a place to live and money which by the way until I met this man I believed was wrong. But you live and you learn.
He isn't the person he presented in the beginning that is for sure. It is hard to get excited about someone that doesn't exist. Tit for tat don't call I won't call. I won't come chasing I won't care but in my case it isn't a game.
The only way to deal with an Aquarius is to make him prove himself every time just like the first month. If he can't do that he can move on. No loss
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Can't say what it's like for all Aquarius men, but I can say that for me, I get bored of most women pretty fast.
It's not being dishonest though, when that special treatment falls by the wayside. If a girl can't hold my interest and becomes altogether boring, I'm not going to pretend that's not the case.
What does hold my attention? Unquenchable passion, complete openness/honesty (ie. no games) and plain, simple willingness to please. If I get that I will return that. If not... forget about it - the girl gets put in a different category.
Unquenchable passion, complete openness/honesty (ie. no games) and plain, simple willingness to please
Actually Aquarians behave like typical men. When you say no they pursue. Men say they don't play games but they do. They talk about 'drama free' but they are the ones with the drama. You teach people how to treat you if you accept less treatment that is what you get no matter what the air sign. I've tried an experiment on my Aquarius and I proved to myself that he's just an ordinary person.
So basically a woman should have her own life and not accept any silliness or even bother to call or pursue some guy. As always if he's interested he will call.
First of all male of female AQUARIUS AND CANCER...WILL NEVER WORK!!! Cancer too darn emotional! Aries and Aquarius could work but Anonymous you are playing games with him. AQUARIUS MEN AND WOMEN HATE GAMES!Be honest about how you feel with him. If he forgot your B-day and Anniversary then tell him straight up (he will be more attracted to you for it) Also when Aquarius men and women "forget" important dates it's not because we think they are unimportatnt it's because we love that person so much everyday. SO WHY do we have to single out just one day? WE DON'T CARE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT IT'S TOO TRIVIAL TO DEAL WITH GET OVER IT!
-Aqua woman
Cancer and Aquarius CAN work depending on the rest of the charts. I'm a sun in Cancer but have an air moon and a very heavy Aquarian influence all over the rest of my chart and I get along great with Aquarius. I am very living but need a lot of time alone to myself.
No fit is perfect but you always should look past sun signs.
typo: "I am very LOVING"...
It always happens with aquarius. They might be cold bet they also have sensitive side.
It is they who wish to be loved. Yes they are insecure, possessive.
If you love them like you love a small baby, and tolerate their odd ways, they will do anything for you. Literally anything.
But you they do tit for tat they will eventually feel that it was uncalled for.
Threatening silence is their weapon. They will concentrate on other things not to ignore you but to wait and see whether you are forgiving and loving or not, whether you come to them and give them love or not. If you dont do that, they will think you didnt care.
Believe me they are just like a baby. You give them unconditional love they will love you back unconditionally. Although they wont state it but they will do small things that they think will help you some home. It is their way of showing love.
just try giving them love when they are angry or distant or what not.. and see .. when he comes to his senses (generally within 24 hours - aquarians need to be aloof for some hours/days to spend time with themselves) he will forget everything and will love you back
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