How to make a Cancerian man propose?
I'm not a big fan of the adjective Cancerian, but it is in the Free Dictionary. Can you be a Cancer but not Cancerian?
And how can you make a Cancerian man propose?
First of all, let me say right off the bat that you can't make anyone do anything. Cancer men have free will, even if their moods are at the whim of the Moon.
Secondly, why can't you just take the Crab by the pincers and propose to him? (On the other hand, Cancer respects tradition, and may not feel comfortable with such unorthodoxy!)
Now that I've put those matters aside, the only sure-fire way I know to make any man propose marriage is to threaten him with your imminent departure unless he forks over the ring. Hesitant men need to be cornered.
And anyways, what do you think is holding your Cancerian man back from getting down on his knee? Maybe you're not the kind of girl of which his mama would approve. Maybe he doesn't think you'd be a good mama yourself. Maybe he doesn't like your cooking.
These are important things to a Cancer man. Especially if he is Cancerian.
Comment below: If you have a Cancer husband, how did you get him to propose?
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 11/15/2006
16 Comments:
Hi,
My fiance is a cancerian. well, were dating for some time then we got very intimate. We made love , and he wants to be the king in bed. I cooked for him.... he liked my cooking a lot...then he asked me to marry him. So, the basic ned for a cancer man is sex and food wih lots of love.
threatened to leave
I asked him to move out.
hi,
My fiance is also a cancer the crab (2nd july)and he is the epitomy of a cancerian im a typical Taurus (12 may). Firstly if you want him to propose you have to have his total trust otherwise there is no way he will even go there!! they are extremely cautious and very jealous. My cancer knows instantly if i have been chatting to someone of the opposite sex its really spooky. Secondly you have to be the kind of girl he would be proud to show off to his mom his mom is his world and NEVER criticise her otherwise he will go crazy and be prepared to hear endless stories about dear old mom an dad. Thirdly just give him all your love although its never enough for them coz they are quite demanding in that department give as much as you can because the rewards from your cancerian will be rich. Ladies bag this cancer man quick if your lucky enough to find him they are so loyal and loving and you will be his queen forever :)
I'm an aquarius women married to a cancer and only think I had to say was I leaving. Because, he had another girl call him out of the blue. That I knew he had a relationship with in the past. And I was pissed. Then when I was putting on my shoes. He got down on one knee,with his class ring and asked me. Oh by the way the mother thing,Not so true. He talks to her a lot and tells her everything. But his mom went off on me for no reason and he didnt talk to her for 5 months.
the mother thing is true!!!
I've been with my cancerian man for about 3 years, i am a taurus..for all you girls out there i must say they are the easiest men to get attached and wanna be with you forever. it felt great at first, more than i could ever ask for in life...very intimate, would do ANYTHING for me, cant live without me for a SECOND. but if you ask me now! im sick of it...his defense is that no one would ever love me more...and i believe that...but his disadvantages are that he depends on me wayyyy tooo much..not that he asks me to do things for him, but be sure he would manipulate you to feel like he is the victim make you suffer for his miseries and slowly take you down with him if he is depressed or unhappy. and you would be left in the dilemma im left with, cant turn my back on this poor victim that i love very deerly and consider the closest thing to home and family, BUT at the same time, my life turned into hell, as if i already gave birth to the 7 children i never will have!! i cry with him, feed him, have to be sad when he is sad, not allowed to be happy if he is unhappy, jealous of my friends whether they are male or female. if im working on the laptop and its very serious and i need my space its SO OFFENSIVE to him, he'd get jealous and try to distract me in anyway. unhealthy relationship, if you women wanna be the MAN in this relationship then go ahead and go for a cencerian!
My crabby wabby hunny hubby(yes, he is very much a cancerian man)proposed after a month of dating.we were having an intimate conversation and I told him I couldnt imagine life without him, and that was it...traditional for sure!! he got down on one knee and said it would make him the happiest man in the world if I would become his wife.
I met this wonderful cancer man. He's absolutely the sweetest man I've ever met. Really all I want in a man. This is his chart.
Sun Cancer 5.03
Moon Capricorn 22.47
Mercury Cancer 4.17
Venus Gemini 24.37 R
Mars Gemini 6.32
Jupiter Taurus 17.08
Saturn Pisces 4.56 R
Uranus Virgo 6.46
Neptune Scorpio 15.18 R
Pluto Virgo 11.55
Lilith Sagittarius 18.15
Asc node Cancer 2.06
Mine is as following:
Sun in Aries
Moon in Capricorn
Mercury in Aries
Venus in Aries
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupitur in Virgo
Saturn in Aries
Uranus in Libra
Neptune in Scorpio
We are both affectionate, sensitive, caring and communicative. He's a little bit possesive but in a cute manner.
I'm not sure if he will propose soon but my fear is will this synergy last or are there any signs if you look at our birth chart that tell you no way this is not way that's going to work in a marriage
Jeffrey what are the challenges for a future marriage?
Make sure he keeps his job and don't get fat.
Cheeky 2X -- doesn't that apply to us all? Hey, I'm just saying...
I guess so! Most guys have crummy jobs and most girls are fat.
My boyfriend is a Cancer on the Cusp of Leo. This much I CAN say. Whatever you do, never try to keep secrets from them. It's spooky how my boyfriend knows the things he does. It's like they sense things.
to the taurus in a relationship with a cancer man for almost 3 yrs, im a aries, for almost three years,i also was in a relationship with a cancer man. all the things you described, i also went thru, beautiful at first, almost unreal, but then it turned quickly into control, the need for constant attention, jealousy, manipulation, and constant lies. he had seven children in his previous marriage and then some all over the place ,even out of town. we lived together, finally i had to ask him to leave due to all of of the above that was making my life miserable, but also, he was seeing someone else and was denying it. a month ago we broke up i couldnt handle any of it anymore.he still calls me every day and if i dont answer he tries to stop by ,but i could never go back to that.
HIM: Sun: Cancer ---Mercury: Cancer ---Venus Leo ---Mars Sagittarius<
ME: Sun: Scorpio ---Mercury: Libra
---Venus Scorpio (oh Ya) ---Mars: Libra
My kids are grown, he has none. Two months in, tells me he never wants to get married again. Has not even said he cares. We see e/o every day and talk 2-3 times a day
What is up with this guy? Does he care? Why would he tell me marriage is off limits is so many words.
hey Anon who posted the same question on three different Cancer posts: this is kind of spammy. Maybe you should try the forum or go to Ask Jeff a Question.
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