How do you know when a Virgo man likes you?
- He picks the cat hair off your blouse.
He balances your checkbook. He makes your spirulina-and-fruit-smoothie in the morning. He shows you the proper way to stretch your quads. He adopts you a puppy. He edits your term papers. He empties your bedpan. He cleans your apartment.
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posted by Jeffrey Kishner at 11/29/2006
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First love was a Virgo man meticulous and nit picky with everything. He actually pointed out my sunglasses had a smudge on them. This is a detailed and hyper critical guy that does not miss any fine print. Get him to meticulously clean your house since he does a much more thorough job than you. If you want critique on anything be prepared for his ultra perfectionalist input!
I love listening to music. So he gave me a CD. He is so adorable. He also opens the door for me. What a gentle soul!
I have been dating a virgo for about 4 months. This guy is nonesense! He hasnt criticized me yet because there is not much to criticize. Ha, but he will tell me he is gonna call and then doesn't, he forgets about dates we had planned. He flakes all the time. Then sends me messages that say, Hey buddy! and next one that says. Your hot, I think your great. Mixed messages galore, and boring, and weird. He does have a funny sense of humor every so often... but for the most part incredibly boring and so hard to read. Sends mixed messages and tells me he doesn't want to get married again. I said I can't believe anyone would want to marry you when all you do is tell girls all the things that you don't want. I told him well, I am glad you said that because I don't want a relationship or a lover! I don't get them at all. This is my first virgo and the experience is not good.
Help me get him!!!
I'm a 28yr old Taurus Woman that is absolutely ga-ga over a 32 yr old Virgo man. After being married to Mr.Wrong (a Gemini) for 6 yrs, I really got to know what I want/don't want in a mate. Gemini and I are getting a divorce.
Enter Mr. Virgo, who I have known since i was a child and have secretly have had a crush on since! we lost touch for about 20 yrs, and recently reconnected via facebook.
But here is where it gets complicated. He and his Fiance (a sagitarious) have been on a 8 month long break. She called the shot, and said she needed time away from him. He said that they can't work out certain differences, and is growing weary of waiting for her to make up her mind. He has given her an ultimatum, and the ball is now in her court.
He has been a great friend to me through my divorce. We laugh and fantasize about being able to enjoy a vacation together in Cuba, or how we'd take a roadtrip to see his fave baseball team together, etc etc...
BUT - because of his unsettled relationship (no matter how long in limbo) he refuses to show any signs of compassion, or expressiveness.
What i don't get is how he can give me hints that he likes me (vacation dreaming, and my favorite "if it doesn't work out with her, I wont go looking for someone new - i would give us a try...") and yet refuses to call me. He told me he "wont allow himself to feel anything for me, because he is not in the position to right now"
the chemistry between us is off the charts... I mean, we might as well have been soul mates - he acknowledges it too. He'll even ask me questions about how i am with certain lifestyles (ie. "would you have anything against your spouse being really into sports, or wanting to maybe make a room a sports room?" he asks these things out of the blue, like he is sizing us up for a match).
... but when i advance, he retracts.
I am crazy about this man, and as we always say "if things dont work out with her" how can i get him? how can i win him over? Faults and no faults, pickyness, perfectionist, i dont care. Anything he has to offer, I would accept, as i need someone who does critisize me - not to humiliate, but out of love.
I guess i need to know if he does like me, or if he is indeed not feeling anything because he hasn't allowed it.
Please help!!
I have had several virgo men chase me around. So far I think they prefer those who are perfect (or have the illusion of it). Good looking, popular, good in bed, smart, secure, kind, clean, and not clingy.
Hmmm ... I've been chased by a few Virgo men myself, and they are not my cup of tea. They ended up placing me on this lofty pedestal, worshipping the ground I walked on WITHOUT me ever so much as gracing them with a smile. Totally not interested, made that VERY clear, yet the chase continued. Not too bright, those Virgos. Perhaps they like to idealize what they can't have.... when a woman isn't interested, a man should have the dignity to move on. Not stick around like a bad rash. Another bad thing about Virgo, they are always right and nothing is ever their fault.
I really, really like this Virgo man and I agree with most of the previous posters. This guy is gorgeous, sexy, and successful. He appears to have the complete package. However, he is a bit hard to read at times. It's like he is unemotional. I don't want a committment from him either. He's a sweetie which is part of his appeal but he can also be a total jerk!
These postings are so accurate. I dated a Virgo for a few months and he got attached really quickly and would send text messages saying "I dont know why I am so attached to you". Then almost immediately, reminded me that I needed new shoes, had anger managment issues (because I'd argue back and point out his flaws), and that I had a fat neck. Our interactions stopped almost right after he said he was attached.
I'd maintained a small amount of contact with him being consistent with my pursuit. Then I lost interest. He started in with constantly inviting me over and I'd always flake.
One night I finally hung out with him and he laid it on thick. Candles, incense, and a completely spotless house. He told me how much he missed me and I ended up spending an awesome, passionate night with him....only for him to disappear again.
It seems pretty clear that when Virgos feel something or experience an abundance of emotion, they disappear and blame you for being too clingy.
We hung out one more time and I wasnt feeling any chemistry so after I dropped him off, I sent him a text to the effect of "you and I both know there is no more chemistry between us...take care"
He immediately responded with excuses of him being tired, it being late, him being drunk and did I really lose interest.
I dont know if Mr. Virgo is interested because he's either laying it on thick or no where to be found.
Virgos are too hard to read for my Libra mind who craves companionship. I like him but his ambiguous nature is too much of a pursuit and Im lazy....heh heh (I have Taurus rising)
:)
Oh my gosh...wow!!! This is what my experience right now is like exactly to the T.
I'm a leo with a scorpio moon libra rising. The guy that I'm dating is a Virgo. I've dated one virgo before but it didn't last long at all, but this guy is a trip! I feel good around him but of course I have my guard up. I've only known him a couple of weeks. I am anticipating the time that he starts to dissect me actually, I know it will happen. He's a major contradiction. He told me a few days ago that he was talking to some other woman and I asked where she was and he said that she lives too far for him to go see her but he likes her. I was pissed but I wasn't going to say anything why give him the satisfaction, i've been hurt too many times. I actually want to hurt him emotionally at this point. He wants to come over tonight but i feel it's only for sex. Yes we slept together but I've never felt this much passion before in my life! I'm scared of it actually, it's like a wave of passion just hitting each nerve, everytime we see each other. I'm going to text him that I think it's a good idea for me to stay home alone tonight just to see his reaction, plus I'm tired as hell, I worked my ass off today at the office. He gets off at 8 pm, I got off at 5 pm. It's just a weird, bizarre friendship. I honestly thing that he may like me but his mind is so conflicted on who he should be with that he's gonnna miss out on me ( A very good thing!)
boy am i glad i found this website coz all the postings above are exactly what im going through with this virgo guy im currently seeing. im just relieved that im not alone. will come here often for tips and ideas but i would also suggest reading your own star sign (i'm a libran) to see how we may have contributed to him behaving this way towards us.
Virgo likes to be of service, in a 6th house sort of way. If he likes you, the best way he knows how to show it is by helping you with something. Even if you don't need help. Obviously this can get annoying. So the thing to do is say "thank you" in great appreciation of his pointing out your flaws and fixing that which wasn't broken.
SEX!! AND MAKING YOU COFFEE. AND ANONOYMOUS I HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU THEY SEND MIXED MESSAGES THEY ARE GOOD AT SAYING THEY DONT WANT TO MARRY AGAIN. CAN BE A TAD ROUTINE LIKE. AND DO NOT EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS MUCH LIKE THEY ARE HIDING SOMETHING.
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@mecca, I deleted your last comment b/c it contained profanity. Also, there is no need to all-caps your entire comment.
Hi all of you people who left comments on this blog. I am a libra girl and like a virgo guy a lot. Though I have known him only for 4 months, it felt as if i knew him forever.
First, he reciprocated my emotions by an equal intensity on his part. However, for last 1 month or so, things have been on the downpath :(
I get "I am busy", "I am busy" from him all the time.
I have had conversations with him about a million times by now that I feel you dont like me anymore...and that if you feel like that...please let me go because you are hurting my emotions...but amazingly...he does not even want to let me go as well!!!!
I know he has lied to me a couple of times saying he is busy and cancelling out on our dates.
I dont know what to do??!!! :(
I have never been so depressed and miserable ever in my life!
If anyone can guide me...please help me...
When a man tells you "he is busy" then he is really telling you "I'm just not that into you."
What part of him letting you go don't you understand? He doesn't like you enough to spend time with you. Move on.
victoria was you refering to me?
sorry jeffery.
No, I was referring to the Anonymous poster just prior to my last comment, the Libra girl in love with Virgo guy who isn't reciprocating any longer. He isn't worth being miserable over, there's plenty of fish in the sea. When he says he's busy, he means it (as in, he's busy with other women already)
Thanks Victoria.
I guess I do understand what you said..but seems it will take me sometime to get over him :(
that is true victoria.. he's busy with other women. you just have to not wear your heart on your sleeve.
Wow, this is really weird! I am also a libra girl who is totally in to a virgo guy who is gaurded, emotionally up and down, has stood me up several times and doesn't call when he says he's going to call. So, is it the fact that our 2 signs are not compatible? Which is so hard to believe because any and everytime we spend alone time together we can't keep our hands and mouths off of each other. He is the ONLY man that has made me tingle just be the thought of him. Should I bail...since it seems he'll probably do the same?
Hey Anonymous,
I am the anonymous libra girl who origianlly posted about the virgo guy whom i like...and i acting weird with me...
Well...I never believed in astrology first...but after this experience...and reading all the posts here...and most importantly...after finally talking openly to the virgo guy about his recent behavioral pattern...i hv realized its over :(
Though the most ironic part is...he stil not even once said thaat he does not like me...but did not give an explanation about his behavior also...so in short...i m sure...he is seeing someone else alongside as well :(
As such...i m done!!!!
i like my virgo man to a degree meaning he can be attentive. and this one is irish...lol and he has a tad bit od a control and issue. he wants to do his thing but he wants you to be there. and i am a assertive woman. hes crazy. and we argue. and then make love. but i am trying to break off with him. i was waiting until i find someone else. but i notice the relationship has shifted. and he acts like he's married or still married the way he schedules time. been to his house. but.. then i realize when you wake up out of a fog.. the reality of the things they forget they told you. anywho... i am emotionally detaching myself right now. we are compatible. but he's too analytical for me. why,? where>? who? ... ohhh it drives me crazy. anynomous are you sure we are not dating the same man?,,,lol
ummm... i think its jus that u guys are all wrong for a virgo guy... a CANCER women is the only women who can coax these men over...
im one n the two of us pairing together works great..
hes an absolute sweet heart jus you have to be more understanding give him some ground to control .. n be a respectiable women which he appriciates so much
then he'll open up his world to you ...
Im the first cancer women hes ever been with.. and he says that we work better together then he has with anyother signs!!
yeah he can be nit picky but do wat most of you say n say thank you... but he does appricate critiques of ur own but not so forward if you want him to change you have to do things n suggest things in a subtle nice way..
believe me he'll get wat ur gettin at n appricate the way you came at him with it ... this way ur not hurting his ohh so fragile EGO!!
After reading these posts..I'm wondering if we are all talkiing about the same man?... lol just kidding. I'm a virgo woman that has an attraction presently to a virgo man. I met him @ work and we would talk once in a while and even @ one time he just came up to me and kissed me on my lips and I barely knew him! Anyway, so we have been talking and texting to each other on and off since Sept. '07. We even kissed at times. He's told me how special,smart, funny, and beautiful I am. I accepted these compliments with a "thank you". I've complimented him too. There would be breaks in the "talks" and I'm thinking to myself "well this guy is full of you know what" and then he comes back strong again. He has even asked me out on a date and he cancelled on me. We have talked about becoming intimate,(we are both picky, so we picked each other- how's that to boot)We both have busy schedules to make it more difficult. It has been almost a month since we last spoke and he's seen me inbetween those times and just smiled @ me. In my mind, I'm asking myself "What's up with this guy?" He does have a great memory, I'll give you that, nice looking, and sweet, but I wish I knew what's in that brain of his. Can someone shed some light into this? I'm I gonna hear back from this guy again or should I just forget about it? In my mind, I think he just playing along and with someone else.
Anyone who could give me feedback on my crazy situation is a god!!! I am a virgo and about seven months ago i met my roomates virgo friend. We went out and got quite drunk and had a one night stand. He lived in another town and made plans to come see me several weeks later but they fell through and I stopped contacting him. Several months later he ended up moving in with us. I ended up having to kick his friend out, but virgo boy decided to stay. From the day he moved in we got along great. We have so much in common, laugh at all the same things and he always comments on it. Whenever we drink, which is alot, we can't seem to keep out hands off each other, and he always tells me I am gorgeous, and makes jokes about running away to get married or falling in love with me. He has expressed regret that things didn't work out the first time and even making excuses and apologizing for the visit falling through. We have not had sex since he moved in, or even made out, altho he always kisses my forhead etc when he is drunk. But the next morning it's always back to being reserved. He is very helpful, fixing or building me things, and in the evenings we watch movies together and order in food like an old married couple. I have gone out on dates, and once brought a guy home, and the next morning he was very angry that we'd made too much noise, although we definatly made no noise at all. It is so frustrating because I have grown to really like him, but it is such an awkward situation. I am fairly reserved with my feelings, but I am afraid of saying something and him not actually liking me and making things awkward. But it is very rare that I truly like someone and am afraid of him getting away.
have both of you thought about seeking AA?
He listened to my problems. That's the most part of his expression. He gave me advice and when we went out he sometimes looked like a young boy, a softer person - as if I was more a man and he was more of a woman.
2 Virgo guys I have been with were similar in those matters. Unfortunately I'm not with any at the moment
i'm with anon #2 on this one. my virgo and i met a year ago...and i still am completely confused.
the boy is fine to a t and obviously meticulous with everything in his life. we go to the same church and he asks a ton of questions. his family loves me...but i don't want him to like me because they do. (sometimes i wonder...) his mom told me that he 'didn't feel like he had anything to offer me.' but she asked me to wait for him...
well he'd ask me out one minute, and bring another beautiful girl to church with him the next minute. all of his girls are beautiful and there are a ton. is he just not ready to commit? or not that interested? i'm not being hopeful, because the message as so mixed. maybe he's just keeping me accessible (which isn't going to be an option for him--so i'll need some direction, jeff). he is obviously not accustomed to pursuing or very good at dating and he's 25.
i try to make him comfortable and see that i'm interested and i've even set up a few dates, but he'll forget to write back or call me at dinner time on a friday night and ask me out...i feel like an after thought? am i? or is that just how they do? it's like he won't follow through with plans but he asks when we're going out again. i've tried the sassy, uninterested, eager...all different kinds of replies. i can't help but suffer from this weird form of rejection. he'll use pick up lines, and wait around for me one day and then not call the entire next week?! it's jokes, but it's like he's wondering. maybe he just doesn't know what to do with me? or is it's just jokes? maybe he's a playa and doesn't want just one?
when i move on he comes back around or asks me about "mister wonderful." it's so frustrating because one day i'll resolve it's over and then he'll call! and when i decided to make it work no matter when--i get so frustrated and loose motivation.
i guess if i want to be pursued...he not the right one, eh? we have a ton in common except the way we communicate...except, i think we might be playing the same games?! i can't read him!
sag4vir
not if you want to be pursued. frankly, it doesn't sound like he's ready. either that, or he's not feeling confident.
i just brok e up with me virgo man hes . they can get you caught up in their little world if your not careful and selfish also... i have a leo boyfriend and he is so romantic. its scary. but we have more in common although i still love jim.. but i know its over. virgo men can string you along.. honey if hes playing games ( which they are good at) hes not that into you. look what happened to me do not get your heart broken.
im an aries in a weird thing with a virgo male. hes the same damn way. MIXED SIGNALS.
he tells me he wants to date me, how amazing i am, how perfect i am
and then doesnt call for a week.
uh...he tells me he'll call me THAT NIGHT! and he just doesnt..im so damn confused. we spend amazing weekends together, he does EVERYTHING, pays, takes me out ,so sweet! but then doesnt talk to me.. help!
Get out of here!....everything I read about yall's virgo experience has me in awe. A man that I have had a crush on for seven months now and vice versa, is so hot and cold its not funny. It started out as me not liking him and he liked me first, then I admitted to crushing on him when I developed a crush. Flirting started to take place....got invited to an event by him thinking we were goiAng to have some time together, but then he brings a girl to the event he said was "his bestfriend"....he did not invite me to sit at the table with them...then he would call and text weeks at a time...invite me to his church and pose dates....canceled four lunches now....he calls more now...even called me at 3 AM one night...keeps saying that I am sexy and wants to have sex with me...then he once mentioned he didn't want a relationship, and then say that we should date...then I tell him why we should not date(but I really do)because I don't trust him...then he puts us not dating on me...saying that I have all these problems....its so fucking wierd is not even funny. He is still strongly and sexually attracted to me, even acts like he likes me, but he does things to make my head spin, like what???? He is still pursuing me all these months later, but then start this hot and cold mess. I am starting to wonder, if he is still pursuing me six months later, to me, if somebody did not like me, they would have been stopped talking to me. BUT, his actions make me think he really doesn't like me like that....what in the hell is going on???? I never liked Virgos for a good reason.
Get out of here!....everything I read about yall's virgo experience has me in awe. A man that I have had a crush on for seven months now and vice versa, is so hot and cold its not funny. It started out as me not liking him and he liked me first, then I admitted to crushing on him when I developed a crush. Flirting started to take place....got invited to an event by him thinking we were goiAng to have some time together, but then he brings a girl to the event he said was "his bestfriend"....he did not invite me to sit at the table with them...then he would call and text weeks at a time...invite me to his church and pose dates....canceled four lunches now....he calls more now...even called me at 3 AM one night...keeps saying that I am sexy and wants to have sex with me...then he once mentioned he didn't want a relationship, and then say that we should date...then I tell him why we should not date(but I really do)because I don't trust him...then he puts us not dating on me...saying that I have all these problems....its so fucking wierd is not even funny. He is still strongly and sexually attracted to me, even acts like he likes me, but he does things to make my head spin, like what???? He is still pursuing me all these months later, but then start this hot and cold mess. I am starting to wonder, if he is still pursuing me six months later, to me, if somebody did not like me, they would have been stopped talking to me. BUT, his actions make me think he really doesn't like me like that....what in the hell is going on???? I never liked Virgos for a good reason.
O boy I soooo wish I'd found all of these comments before.I met a Virgo online(I'm Taurean)a year ago we exchanged a couple of emails then he called;we connected mentally from the word go;he was so charismatic,said all the right things.We arranged to meet then two days before(via email) he said he couldn't make it so I told him in no uncertain terms I wanted no more of him.Then I get these heart wrenching emails from him plus several text messages,so I thought ok I give him another chance!!so then we arrange to meet again but I didn't hear from him so I emailed him and said I'd cancelled ;again I get more paniced emails from him saying"I thought we'd already made arrangements" (we hadn't)Anyway to cut a long story short I did meet him;he lived three hours drive from me.Our meeting was magical;he was loving,attentive and yes he said all the right things,well almost!!he casually meantioned how I should dress and he wasn't keen on my flat shoes and he liked belly button rings and that I should get one?? Of course I dismissed all of that.He even displayed some teary emotion saying that he had never met anyone like me blah blah and yes I fell for it all;vulnerable to the core after just getting out of an emotionless marriage.I thought this guy was my dream come true;we could talk about absolutely anything and he wasn't afraid to show his emotions either.On parting we talked about being together again but he never called,just emailed,then he arranged to visit but couldn't make it and cancelled two days before.One minute he was talking about holidaying together and the future then I wouldn't hear from him.When I called him on his mixed messages he said "if this thing is getting too much for you maybe we should stop now" 'This thing' for heavens sake.I can tell you now 'this thing' went on for much longer and I have felt through most of it that my heart was being ripped out..and my mind for that matter...crazy making or what.However I do take responsibility for what happened;the red flags were there from the beginning.I ignored them.We are no longer in contact and our parting emails were not pleasant and he blamed me for everything.That's my last Virgo experience.Never again.
all honesty my virgo is similar it drive me crazy... i now let him...do the chasing i know my es still wants me but he has a trust issue right now.. its nutty. hes nutty.
Oh my goodness, it has been enoyable to read all of the comments here. I have been dating a Virgo for 4 years now and I can relate to what almost everyone has said. He seems to drive one crazy. He is into you. He isn't. And it goes back and forth, on and on, and he doesn't let go, but "forgets" things (like calling etc...). I think it's a control thing because like the Cancer girl said, if you are like her, sensitive, soft, etc.. - you can get a pretty good reaction - and I suppose that you don't get too bothered by his on off stuff (cuz Cancer signs have their on/off emotions that change quickly too). But I am not a Cancer sign, and I can only be that way soo much. I am a Sagitarius and it seems to me that he finds it okay to lie or skip out of "whatever" whenever it suits his moment (whenever I am not being "Cancery" like) and the Sag in me goes nuts. I can be nurturing and kind (I have a neptune and pluto Sun connection in my chart...) but Sag's are ALL about truth - so that is where my "nurturing" stops. If I know that he is not honest with me - it shuts everything thing down in me with him. I suppose I could just "get" that he really is harmless, and that he only appears like he is "hiding something" when he is feeling little/afraid to open up and that it is "his" way but somehow it often "pushes my button" in a way that I only, at times, can turn back off.
(I just wrote the last comment) - to add one other thought - there are many times I wish that I hadn't met him - he can just drive me crazy - and I so no end to it!! If I ever escape this insanity thing I am in - I will avoid Virgos like the plague (I have actually even written the word "plague" on my hand before - to try and warn/remind myself of his disasterous contagiousness, hoping it would unmesh this gluey state that I am in with him, to no avail as of yet!
i am a sag to this is mecca... girl let me tell you i am still in love with jim the virgo. indeaivness it takes a lot to deal with virgo men. huhggggggggg!!
Ok guys....I'm glad I found this website cause I need help! I have mad some mistakes in the dating world and just got out of a HORRIFIC relationship with a Libra man. I'm a scorpio woman. I have met someone that I really really like, who is a virgo man, and this does not happen often. I am a very picky brat, I look for flaws and usually know within 3 seconds if I'll ever give a man the time of day. However, this one...this boy gets me going!!! I'm 25 years old, he is too, but reading all of these posts has me kinda hesitant to purse anything with him. We HAVE NOT had sex and i do not plan on it anytime soon. I believe that a woman will never be respected if what she has is not worked hard to earn. My question is this, is a virgo man going to be able to handle my passion? Is he ok in bed? I think this is important in a relationship and what I have read about virgo men and sex has not been too promising. I hear that they are very gentle and kind in other ways but I don't want a dead fish in bed if you know what I mean. Also, I'm very very independent and I do not call men very often, I prefer they call me. I'm not the type to chase or be clingy at all, but in a relatiionsihp I am very passionate about the person I am with. Is he going to lose interest in me because he will be afraid of this independence? I don't want to scare him off.....at the same time I do notice how meticulous and flat out spiny they can be with comments they make. He can dish it but I feel I can dish it 10 fold. I'll sting him if he is not careful......any advice would be fab. Thanks yall
I'm a virgo woman presently attracted to a virgo man @work. OK, the latest thing now is I avoid this guy when I can and with our schedules it's been pretty easy. When I do go out to run an errand @ the office, he texts me again as in "hey..." I just kept on walking then one of my friends wants to talk a distance away. He goes to his car and then I started to walk when I finished with my conversation with her. He smiles again and says "Hi, come here." I stayed put. He decided to come over and starts to say hello and asked "why don't you call me anymore?" I just gave him a bizarre look and I thought "wait a minute, he stopped calling me.." I just replied by saying "I've just been busy like you." Well, he hugged me .. (I was shocked!!) and he said "call me". I was still confused by his behavior so I asked him "What's the best word you would use to describe yourself?" He replied, "Yours!!"... and he walked to start working...
So what's up with this one?? I'm still confused. Jeffery can you shed light on this one, I'm just about ready to leave this guy alone..
if i just know...it seems virgo men gets women tired...
I am head over heal for this virgo, but how can i know if he loves me?? :\
he keeps staring at me.. he is trying to notice details about me..i feel he has a crash on me or deep attraction, but he is doing nothing!!
if i wake away he is after me
if i am after him he runs away
ALL WHAT HE IS GOOD AT, just staring at me from distance.
he is SOOOOOO SHY as HELL
i am not going to do the first move :( i am just waiting and i dunno till when but i will :(
WAT to do? HELP! i feel i will die waiting :(
So glad I found this. I just broke off a 5-year relationship with a Virgo man. Flaky, flaky, flaky, and deceptive to boot.
Doesn't call when he says he will... or anytime close to it... Check. Doesn't show up when he says he will... check. Doesn't follow through on his own plans for "us"... check. Makes love then disappears for a week... check.
Funny thing is, his brother, another Virgo, is just as flaky to him, and he complains about it.
This was a great reality check. I made the right decision.
l could not help it .. but my virgo was my virgo i still love the idiot. i told his new flame he is going to cheat on her as he did with me on her with . she think shes the alpa and omega . in other words he was seeing both of us he was cheating on her with me.. anywho.. they are strange and very abusive emotionally men to me. i do not get along with these creatures
Virgo man is very new to me and Im amazed at the similar experiences the majority of all of you have. What have I walked into? Im Leo and that is the first stumbling block from what Ive read. Im older than my Virgo man but its all still very new. I cannot read him and Im holding back with my passion so as not to scare him. I can't stop thinking about him, he has beautiful eyes and a smile that melts my heart like nobody else. I dont know how to cope with such a man, he is not demonstrative, he can shut down, its a shock. Your messages have helped me understand him more but I will try to get to know him better if I have this chance.
i have known my virgo male for almost six years now and after a few boyfriends in between, he always seems to be the reason i leave a relationship. i fell in love with him the second i laid eyes on him. I am an aries so i expect immediate gratification, which he doesn't give. Talk about mixed messages thats all he sends.
We have created a pattern between us, we will talk for a few months, lets say end of august to december, during this time he will tell me all kinds of things like he loves me and how he wants to be with me forever. Then something hits him and he vanishes into thin air from january to august all over again.
Keep in mind he had a girlfriend for 2 years, the entire time still talking to me and a few others on the side.
I know that just the very act of me being the other woman was bad enough, but to think he would leave me for her was worse. They broke up a few months ago, right before we had a huge fight, he still wont speak to me unless we happen to be at a party together.
To be honest, all i want is for him to trust me and be with me, i just dont know what to do. Do i believe all the things he said to me, or face the harsh reality and move on?
I still am in love with him to this day. For me personally, its hard to express emotions, but when i think of him, i can honestly say he is the only person i could say those three fatal words to...
I am a virgo lady who has been dating a virgo man for 1.5 years.
We had an instant attraction within the first five minutes of meeting, and from that moment on, he has been nothing but honest and kind. He has gone out of his way for my family (the most important thing to me); and the most respectful/loyal person I have ever met. He is endearingly possesive, which I like, and absolutly amazing as far as intimacy is concerned. Very nitpicky, but I find it funny b/c I am a complete slob :) we also moved in together after 1 month of knowing eachother, and I havent had a problem since. He constantly tells me he wants to get married & have kids (which is fine either way).we cant stop being complete obssessed with eachother, and seems to grow stronger by the day. & we love to be dirty together.
Honestly babe... whateverrrrr!!!. one month thats pretty spontaneous. don't you think. ?
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