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Friday, November 10, 2006

Baby talking to Aquarius man

Man eating shark. Baby talking to Aquarius man. Baby-talking to Aquarius man.

I assume the querent is an adult who wants to coo over her boyfriend. Well, good luck. I cannot think of a sign less susceptible to baby-talk than Aquarius. Now, Cancer ... a Crab could get into that, since he wants to be mommied anyway. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and the Moon governs the mother-child interaction. But Aquarius is incompatible with Cancer in every way. Cancer is an emotional water sign, whereas Aquarius is a mental air sign. Aquarius is ruled by two planets: emotionally-detached Uranus and cold, hard Saturn. Other planets in his chart notwithstanding, I just don't see how an Aquarius can melt over "baby baby" and "my wittle water-beawah." He'll just look at you funny.

Air signs are just not that emotional, and Aquarius is probably the least. Venus-ruled Libra could probably get off on baby-talk because he's relationship-oriented, and virtually anything that can enhance your bond is fair game, as long as the game is fair. And Gemini ... well, Gemini is a little kid, anyway. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, and Mercury governs communication, so you can't go wrong there.

So "goo goo" over someone else, would you?

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Blogger MissNewWoman said...

That was very well said!! I agree and I happen to be an Aquarius

11:50 PM  
Blogger Ms Caution said...

Ladies beware an Aquarius Man will mentally drain you... let alone commit to anything. Commitment=Loss of freedom. Just when you think you have figured him out, he will change into a cold fish!Just a hint: Dont pursue him let him call you. You will never hear the word LOVE from him so dont force the issue. Instead watch for small gestures of kindness to show he "likes you" Thses men are also very consensious of money and the value it holds. Offer to pay sometimes.

2:47 AM  
Blogger Jara aka Blah Blah said...

Ms. Caution, maybe the Aquarius men you speak of have some Capricorn planets in them. My Aquarius ex couldn't decide whether he wanted to buy the best of everything or watch his savings account grow. He'd constantly buy me expensive gifts even though I asked for something far less expensive. For example, he asked me what I wanted for my bday. I told him a CD. He must've heard me say "concert and entertainment system", because that's what he bought. And when I said portable DVD player (to replace the one HE broke), he bought me a laptop (well, it does play DVDs). When we broke up, he had the nerve to call me a golddigger. :/

3:59 PM  
Anonymous whatever said...

introduce me to this guy, he sounds good

9:08 PM  
Anonymous msuniquelydefined said...

to jara aka blah blah,i guess you must have traumatic experience with the Aquarius guy...but what i want to know really is aquarius man's character really so that bad???i mean everyone have at least a good side... it not that i am siding with them..it just that are Aquarius people really that so horrible or bad??????i mean i am a aquarius girl and when i read your comments,i realise one thing which is 'are aquarius girls also as bad as aquarius guys?'i am a bit perplexed right now.....AND i hope you will give me comments,advice or experiences with Aquarius girls........

1:32 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

who would baby talk someone they know is an aquarian? i am an aquarain girl, and i would kill my boyfriend and make fun of my friends if they talked like a baby to me or others. it's demeaning i speak english, and am well over the age of 2, which is where all baby talk should stop.

7:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ok i think i know a lot about aquarians. my ex was an aquarian, and so is the one i like now. dont know what atracts me so much maybe because i am lion myself.anyway there is smth i have learned. never say him"I love you for first"never force him to talk when he doesnt want and never force him to commitment.he will do everything himself.just be playfull

1:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I beg to differ. I'm an emotional Cancer woman and I dated a wonderful Aquarian guy for 5 months. I baby talked to him quite a bit and he didn't mind at all, he liked it that I was so comfortable with him. Was not verbally expressive as most aquarians, but showed it a lot in actions. Was ever the sweetheart and super affectionate! And he loved to be mommied by me. I was lucky to have found a one of a kind Aquarian. Althought things didn't work out but we are good friends today. But its true, give them the space and they'll appreciate and love you even more for it. And they do say I Love You, just takes them a lil longer then usual. And when they do, you know they sincerely mean it.

12:46 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a Cap woman dating an Aquarius Man and we often baby talk each other. Although he will tease me, he likes it too, because when I'm in a more serious mood he will ask what's wrong.
He does drive me crazy with his dissapearing act. Some many comments on this site about the Aquarius man are true but I can't tell if my man is truely an Aquarius or Pieces because his birthday is at the cut off. I was married to a Pieces and the physical attraching for my Aquarius man is almost the same as for the Pieces man. Any comments to that statement??

6:10 PM  
Anonymous wildrose28 said...

Yes the aquarius man will put your heart through the ringer. I met him and I loved him I really really did. Two months were bliss it didn't matter if he did things his way and didn't ask me what I wanted to watch. He was a gentleman that was enough for me after the losers I had met. I thought he loved me too but I was wrong. I would listen to him talking for hours and hours and he was brilliant. But you know what...he had his selfish ways. There wasn't much affection that was all me. He didn't give back as much as me sure he spent money but that's not what I need. I have a lovely time with him on vacation I will never forget it. But we parted he had to go somewhere I left I kissed him. I thought everything was ok. But he didn't call me for 2 weeks...and I can't take that. First of all my abandonment complex set in...all the songs that I associated with him everything. I cried for about 4hours straight on the 14th day that he didn't call. I sobbed and sobbed with no hope and no peace. It reminded me of the time a Libra turned his back on me...oh how I have learnt about air signs. My love died...and you know what he called me about 1 hour ago and I was in shock. I told him "I didn't expect to hear from you" and I couldn't go over there. He had an explanation..the cat ate the dog etc etc the place got flooded sure. He even sounded like he wasn't happy. I told him 'I have to go'
Let the record show I loved him so much...you have no idea what all I had planned for him how blissful his life would have been. How I would have been in his corner how even if he is wrong about some things I would have let him be wrong because I loved him but not after that. 'I'm sorry I should have called'. Yeah because if you don't call it means you don't care or it means that you are FUCKING WITH MY HEAD which makes me mad. Did I not love you enough? Did you want for anything? He's cold he's selfish he has no heart because after everything that we have experienced...and our last conversation...he knows that I haven't been treated well by other men. He knows that he was different I complimented him on all the good ways he was treating me...yeah disappearing act you are right.
I accept that I am a fire sign w. water and earth influence. I love passionately and I can't help it. I won't smother or intrude but I can't handle coldness he might as well have stabbed me with a knife. That is the worst thing that could have happened to me. I was hoping that I would die so that I wouldn't experience that feeling.
But he killed the love I had for him what is sad is that he doesn't even know and I don't want to talk to him EVER again. Now I am the cold one I don't even want him to touch me or to see him ever.
I want him to cry those tears for hours and to feel even a bit of the abandonment and anguish that I felt and still be alive. I doubt it. No it is an impossiblity the aquarian man is not human and never again will I ever associate with air signs not unless I want to spend the rest of my life in a padded cell.
You can't possibly understand what type of nightmare last night was.
I cano nly say cry me a river Aquarius let me taste your tears and let me taste your blood after you have slit your wrists because nothing else will do. Get away from me fickle insignificant cold creature with no substance...everything that I hate. How could I have not seen this in the beginning?
You play games with me I will hate you forever

5:33 AM  
Blogger the1ulost said...

i agree with wildrose same thing happened to me and im a cancer woman.as for baby talk he baby talked me more he said he loved me first he hounded me about marriage.then 3 years into the relationship.he just dissappeared not talking to me.the second week he talked on the phone sounding all sad that he should die and i will get the money.i dont know why he wanted for me to feel sorry for him.he hurt me and the kids by walking out.he said that he is messed up in the head.and wants to do stuff for me.he can go to hell.

10:02 AM  
Blogger the1ulost said...

i agree with wildrose same thing happened to me and im a cancer woman.as for baby talk he baby talked me more he said he loved me first he hounded me about marriage.then 3 years into the relationship.he just dissappeared not talking to me.the second week he talked on the phone sounding all sad that he should die and i will get the money.i dont know why he wanted for me to feel sorry for him.he hurt me and the kids by walking out.he said that he is messed up in the head.and wants to do stuff for me.he can go to hell.

10:03 AM  
Anonymous ceci said...

I'm an Aquarius woman dating an Aquarius man, and the only time we've ever entered the "baby-talk" department has surely ended with both of us cracking up...it's ridiculous.I believe it is also important to define "baby-talk". For example, we'll call eachother "babe"...but never in a high-pitched baby tone, always keeping it very casual and cool. In past experiences, it has seriously bugged me and completely turned me off, therefore I wouldn't do it to someone else, no matter what sign. In turn, that may make us Aquarians look like cold-hard-detached-un-loving people when all we want is to be understood and treated like the mature and revolutionary adults we like to think we are.

1:24 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm an Aquarius woman in a "serious" relationship with an Aquarius man, and the only time we've ever entered the "baby-talk" department has surely ended with both of us cracking up...it's ridiculous.I believe it is also important to define "baby-talk". For example, we'll call eachother "babe"...but never in a high-pitched baby tone, always keeping it very casual and cool. In past experiences, it has seriously bugged me and completely turned me off, therefore I wouldn't do it to someone else, no matter what sign. In turn, that may make us Aquarians look like cold-hard-detached-un-affectionate people when all we want is to be understood and treated like the mature and revolutionary adults we like to think we are.

1:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my boyfriend is an aquarius and he calls me baby and other pet names all the time and he does have the other usual aquarius behavior

3:43 PM  

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